| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 6:57:04 PM | How would the ladies feel about dating a virgin? Would you feel strange because you are more experienced than them? Or would you take the thrill of teaching them to be great lovers?
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:47:38 PM | | Would never do it...no patience...not to mention that if, at my age, I encounter a man who's close to my age and still a virgin, he has some serious issues that I don't want to stick around for. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:49:56 PM | | me neither oh wait thats cause i'm a guy but i would'nt do it with a woman either they get to clingy | |
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Posted: 6/5/2005 8:57:20 PM | | Jeez, I hate sayin this but I dated 3 in my twenties not last week. Part of my issue with that whole 'waiting to have sex' philosophy some things u wanna know before you get too attached. Mostly what sucks is they need to be set free to do their thing (in my opinion) and you've done all that work and someone else reaps the rewards. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:59:29 PM | | Well seeing how I've almost reverted back into one...it looks like I'm not going to see any action at all anymore. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:04:10 PM |
Well seeing how I've almost reverted back into one...it looks like I'm not going to see any action at all anymore.
Hahaha I know the feelin | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:26:40 PM | mspicky said "...at my age, I encounter a man who's close to my age and still a virgin, he has some serious issues that I don't want to stick around for."
Altho I am no where NEAR a virgin, that is quite a tough blanket-like statement, isn't it? A good buddy of mine is 39, and simply hasn't FOUND the right one yet. That's nothing to judge a man (or woman) for, is it?
Blast me if you like...those are just MY thoughts... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2005 10:25:16 PM | Damn mspicky... that's harsh :) I'm only 23 here, so maybe it doesn't apply, but being 23 and a virgin is still pretty strange (for that matter, I've never kissed a girl, so I'm at the same level as a 34 year old virgin probably).
In any case, I agree with mattyinak that it's a blank statement, I can assure you that being a virgin at that age doesn't imply you have serious issues. I'm the most easy-going, nicest, kindest, most honest guy you'll ever meet. And if you need proof? Ask my friends. I simply haven't found a girl that I hit it off with... bad luck maybe, I dunno. And just because you're a virgin, doesn't mean you're waiting.
I don't think the "having no patience" has anything to do w/ being a virgin - I think the guy you're referring to was simply impatient.
As for being a bit clingy? That might be a possibility, I can't argue with that. If you are their first, and it's a big deal to them, of course they're going to be very attached. But that's not necessarily bad, is it?
And for you ladies who are thinking "virgin = suck at sex", that's total BS. Correct me if I'm wrong here, I'm not speaking for experience - but for a guy, being good at sex is not just about experience, but about CARING that the other person has a pleasurable experience. If you've had sex w/ 10 girls, 100 times, but you only care about your orgasm, and not the girl's? You're going to be a far worse lover than a virgin who wants you to have as good of a time as them. And yes we only last 3 seconds our first time, but there are many hours in a night, right?  | |
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Posted: 6/5/2005 10:25:56 PM | Blanket statement, sorry, was typing kinda fast. Brain-o.  | |
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Posted: 6/5/2005 11:23:16 PM | Thank you for your statements marquinhocb. I do not think it is a bad thing at all...some are out there for marriage, and some just don't believe in jumping from bed to bed. Some guys want to really care about the female...
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/5/2005 11:30:29 PM | I have dated a virgin before. He was younger than me which was one of the reasons why I stopped dating him (not because his lack of experience physically). We are still friends. ;)
And as far as virgins being bad in bed ... probably considering MOST people on the "was your first time good or did it suck" post said their first time sucked ... that doesn't mean it won't be a good experience or it won't be a pleasurable experience ... but the chances that a man will be able to last and pleasure a woman his first time.....eh not likely....
And a man who is a virgin having problems? I would say up to the age of 25.... If he is a virgin past that age I would have to wonder why if it wasn't for religious reasoning..... but that is my opinion. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2005 11:37:54 PM | | Mspicky may have a point. You may be the coolest 35 year old virgin anyone has ever met, but i don't think you will be able to handle the emotions of sex any better than a 18 year old. It just takes some experience IMO. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 12:06:43 AM | Thansks for the backup, Cris. And yeah, that's a whole nother story altogether - someone younger can always be lacking in the maturity department.
And hey, I didn't say we wouldn't suck - guys the first time always suck, technically, right? :) But that doesn't mean we can't get better through the night... hey, it's the first time, we'll get excited again pretty quick-like.
I would still disagree with you... my brother is 26, still a virgin, not for religious reasons, and he's an awesome guy (not to mention a horny **stard). | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 12:08:15 AM | No problem Julya! And yah, some of us simply aren't good at handling the bed-to-bed thing. That's my case, at least... I'm not sure I would be comfortable sleeping w/ someone unless i was COMPLETELY into them (and trust me, that doesn't happen often).
There's an exception to every rule, right? You never know unless you try it. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 12:12:04 AM | Id mostly be wondering about a person who hasn't KISSED someone at the age of 23 or above.... I kissed my first person at 18 and thought I was a late bloomer.......
And marcos its not if the man sucks, its if he doesn't. LOL lick and suck down there and you will be her best friend, forever!  | |
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Joined: 4/18/2005
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/6/2005 7:01:30 AM | | I enjoyed it. It was hard work however. But I taught him right. ;) | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 8:18:14 AM | Hahaha... nice one Cris. I KNEW someone was gonna say that too, sooner or later. I actually do know about that one, and would lick and suck until my mouth is numb (See? Like I said... sometimes the virgins are the ones that will end up being pretty good at it, they watch a lot of porn... hehe, and a lot of the time they're pleasers, so they actually want to learn)
You have to remember, you're a girl... for girls it is a different story, because they're usually the ones who are asked out. If you're a guy, and you're a bit shy, this becomes a problem.
Some valid reasons why a guy might not even have kissed a girl at that age:
1) Shy
2) Culture differences (If he wasn't originally from here, and never quite fit in)
3) College major: Computer Science and engineering majors have NO girls, so it becomes difficult to find a significant other in college
4) Workplace: related to the above - if you get a job where the female percentage is practically none, same problem as (3)
Or a combination of the above... in my case, all 4. | |
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Joined: 5/12/2005
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/6/2005 8:44:22 AM |
Altho I am no where NEAR a virgin, that is quite a tough blanket-like statement, isn't it? A good buddy of mine is 39, and simply hasn't FOUND the right one yet. That's nothing to judge a man (or woman) for, is it?
39? I would have thought that by that age, he'd have tripped and his dik landed in a p*ssy just by accident if nothing else.
Hasn't found the right one.........a blind one? | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 9:04:08 AM | Damn brawny, harsh :) 39 and a virgin I'll admit is pretty old, but you never know... never question something unless you've seen it, you know? He could have a completely valid reason.
Take my sister, for example. She didn't have her first boyfriend until she was 20 (no kiss, either). Why? The hell if I know. She's a hottie, trust me...
We never figured out why that is. Maybe it's something that runs in the family, you know, relationships is all about chemistry - maybe some people out there simply never have chemistry with anyone.
I don't claim to know why this would happen, but I can assure you, it's not always correlated to their looks nor their personality (my sister is also a very sweet girl). | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 4:36:10 PM | I just want to say for the record that i am a 28 year old virgin, for religous reasons.
And i am proud of it (not ashamed of good morrals).
I want sex just as mutch as any other man, but i am waiting for true love, a girl i can be comited to.
Truth is i do not think that i could even connect on the sexualy level with a girl that i was not in love with.
I have kissed a few times ( a relationship with a girl who i am still friends with but just didn't work out).
Call me a losser and you may be right but it would only be in the area of love, I am a hands down winner in every other way. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/6/2005 4:39:45 PM | I think ya meant.........hands on winner.
Okay. So far we have one male virgin.....and one male that knows a male virgin. Are there anymore male virgins on pof for the ladies to date? | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 6/6/2005 4:41:15 PM | I comend you on your loyalty to your faith.
Julya | |
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Posted: 6/6/2005 5:40:54 PM | | Well I haven't dated any male virgins recently but I certainly was one once; therefore, I highly recommend that you ladies find one and rock his world! | |
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