| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:35:13 AM | I just got in an arguement with a female friend of mine. i thought id ask what people on here think?:
A guy whom I'm good friends with, who I know loves girls, is currently 42, single and without a girlfriend (for the past 4 or 5 months).
Sometimes, when we hang out, he asks me to "get him off" (with my hand). I always decline. I tell him (half jokingly) he's gay and he swears he is not, loves women, but just needs some stimulation. He says he's NOT interested in having sex with a guy (he's had many girlfriends in his life, and has never asked a guy this before), he's very attracted to girls (I've caught him many times watching porn - and its almost always girl on girl) and not attracted to guys, and if he had a girlfriend, he'd prefer to be with her. But, he says, right now that theres no girl in his life and he and I are very good friends, he thinks it would be cool if I used my hand (or even mouth) on him. He just wants to feel good and cum and has had enough of his own hand. Its about another hand or mouth making him feel good and not about whom its attached to.
Do you think he really is "bi"? or just desperate for stimulation? thanks for your opinions. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:56:43 AM | | I don't think he is gay, bi maybe but i think the biggest issue is...how does this make you feel? because regardless of his sexuality if it makes you uncomfortable ( and judging by this post, it seems to.) Then you should just bring it up and clear it up, and even beyond that...Do you want to be used purely as a hand or mouth? | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:29:41 PM | Hey Mike can I borrow Your hand????? That sounds really (pause) weird! 
I mean you guys never went fishing together or camping? or got really drunk one night in college? or thats your best friend since you were 12? | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:04:54 PM | Does your friend not have any female friends he could try to get some "stimulation" from?
The fact that he is reaching out to another man for stimulation is a bit suspicious in the least. Don't they have hookers where you live? | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:16:12 PM | | hey man would you jerk me off real quick? dont be fag and just grab it! theres nothing straighter than a couple bros just chilling and yanking on each others schlong. maybe you have very feminine hands? | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:10:51 PM | | How about this.....YES,he is bi....and an ***hole.You need to find a new friend or he may actually connive a more viable reason and your next thread will be....... | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:37:29 PM | | I think your friend is deceiving himself and being completely rude to you! He is definitely Bi - in the very least! Infact he could be gay and trying to hide the fact by playing a ladies man! I knew a guy that did that - until he felt it was 'acceptable' for him to come out! Unless you have tendencies towards men you should tell him to back off! | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:43:50 PM | | "He says he's NOT interested in having sex with a guy".....WTF??? He just asked you to masterbate him, or perform oral!!! Whatever he is, gay or bi, we know he doesnt know the definition of sex. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 6:31:49 PM | Hhmm ya Mike,
I would say your friend is at least bi curious.I never heard of a straight guy ever ask another straight guy to jack hum off or give him a blow job. I mean come on,good friends or not. He has, I believe, crossed the line. If it makes you uncomfortable, you need to speak up because that isn't right. I believe he is bi. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:18:00 PM | I think this is off that dennis leary show the rescue me where the room mates are both male and the one guy is getting continual blowjobs from his "straight" room mate. lol
That show was so screwed up | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:23:04 PM | tell him he has to get you off first.....if he goes for it....I think you might have your answer,......if you let him and he gets you off....you might have another answer  | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:35:53 PM | | This is freaking hilarious..................I think he is just checking if you are gay..........cuz if you say Ok......then, well his suspicions are right. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:55:29 PM | I think your friend is treating you disgustingly. If he asks once and you say no thats cool but if he keeps asking then he is sexually harassing you and you need to pl;ant a fist in his face.
Your mate is a dropkick and you should hand him the number of the local prostitute next time he mentions it. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:05:25 PM | | I think you and him both have very bi tendencies to say the least. Straight male friends don't sit around discussing jerking or sucking each other off and still stay friends and still talk about jerking and sucking each other off. I think both of you are in denial. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:54:11 PM | Bi or gay. Straight guys don't get hand or blow jobs from other men, as far as i know.  Why do you keep having this conversation with him? I am guessing it doesn't bother you very much. Don't you feel like he's not respecting you by bugging you? I know he's hoping you'll say yes but why do you not tell him to shut up or leave? | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:36:02 AM | i thank you all for your feedback.
to answer the last 2 posters...
it really doesnt bother me so much if he asks. its not like we spend all our time talking about it. we hang out a lot, and just every once in a while when he's very horny, he may ask. i have no intention of doing it. im a pretty laid back guy, i dont think i have a gay bone in my body, but i have nothing against gay people. AND, im still not convinced my friend isnt heterosexual. if someone has no desire to have anal sex with a guy, watches only naked girl porn, does not act feminine at all, and loves women, im still not convinced he's automatically "bi" because he "needs a hand/mouth". it could be a machine, for all he cares. agreed, maybe he's a little strange, but gay/bi, i dont know.
as far as a prostitute goes, he has no desire to risk getting arrested (he's a well respected professional) OR to risk getting a disease. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:03:00 AM | | I have straight friends that I've accused of being gay for doing a lot less than asking for a hand job or bj. If he is serious, then yeah he's gay. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:15:14 AM | He's gay, simple as that.
Everybody goes through dry spells, but I've never , ever asked a guy friend to jerk me off or suck my****before.
Your friend is hitting on you and wants your mouth on his**** and the fact that you're actually questioning wheter it's gay or not means you're probably considering it or trying to justify it because you did suck his****and now you feel dirty. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:12:53 AM | He might be a closet gay guy but I am betting he's Bi more than anything else at this point.
That must be the new thing now when one goes through a very dry spell::
"Hey Steve --- I aint had any in a while -- can you jack me off?"
Since it might be the next new trend - next time when I am out with my friends for our Girls Night Out I'll just take along a few toys and say:: "Hey Leah -- I haven't had any in a while will you wear this strap on and ravage me till I am mush?"
Yep that would make me Bi. | |
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| opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:21:35 AM |
next time when I am out with my friends for our Girls Night Out I'll just take along a few toys and say:: "Hey Leah -- I haven't had any in a while will you wear this strap on and ravage me till I am mush?"
ISN'T that what most women do nowadays? right after the pillow fights and group bathtime. | |
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