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 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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The one
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:35:43 PM
What do you do, when you have found the one, but the one is not available for you, for what reason ever.
you compare everyone to him, and it makes you feel like they are second best, and it wouldnt be fair on them, and a lie to date them...or have a relationship..........
 DazzyB

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 2
The one
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:56:26 PM
If the 'one' was with someone else, then how could they be the 'one'? I'm confused!?!
 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:01:43 PM
he is not with someone else, he is just not available. :o(
 horses44

Joined: 9/10/2006
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:02:49 PM
Don't think you have found the one yet..........
 Irish Eyez

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 5
The one
Posted: 6/7/2008 3:05:25 PM
Move on - you're wasting your time with many negative 'what if's.'

Too much of a waste of time and energy if you ask me.
 crazygurl36

Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:06:17 PM
you may think hes the one...but he may just be the one for you right now. i so sounded blond there.
 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:07:46 PM
lol, but he ticks all the boxes, and i never meet anyone like him b4 or since.
 okcgreeneyes1029

Joined: 1/23/2007
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:08:03 PM
If he isn't available for you, then he isn't the one. Someone who IS the one would move heaven and earth to be with you. Doesn't sound like he will or can do that.

Let him be like a celebrity crush and forget it. Find someone real to love you.
 crazygurl36

Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:11:16 PM
have a best friend who made the butterflys in my tummy,but i never told him,now hes getting married.sometimes it's better to just let it go.if hes the right one for you,there is always away.holding on to something that well never be,means your alone forever
 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:14:45 PM
that is so verry true, but i know he likes me too, there is just reasons we cant be together.
its so hard. i think to myself why....fack
 Jie_Pie

Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 11
The one
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:43:08 PM
there can only be one "the one", and how many "the one" have you found?

At your old age you still believe "the one" cra p? Seriously, i hope this one is the most abusive one, because you are worth it.
 CentiPete

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 12
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Posted: 6/7/2008 9:25:17 PM
Try limiting yourself from "the one" so you don't stay hooked on him. Slowly look for the real "the one"...it'll take time, but the good stuff is worth the time.

And there is no spoon.
 DazzyB

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 13
The one
Posted: 6/8/2008 1:29:06 AM

Let go of the 'one' and start going for the 'seven'

cause the 'one' is reserved for the 'four' and it's obvious you aren't the 'four'.

lmao at frankalank.
 Liploverboyguy109U2

Joined: 5/12/2005
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Posted: 6/8/2008 1:34:50 AM
Move on - you're wasting your time with many negative 'what if's.'
Too much of a waste of time and energy if you ask me.
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lol, but he ticks all the boxes, and i never meet anyone like him b4 or since
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Someone is not reading or paying attention to the replies....how does everyone tell you to "move on" and you reply "he ticks all the boxes". Hello, anybody home?
 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 6/8/2008 2:37:57 AM
there can only be one "the one", and how many "the one" have you found?

At your old age you still believe "the one" cra p? Seriously, i hope this one is the most abusive one, because you are worth it.

thanx, hahahahahahah i even believe in faries!
my exhusband was abusive enough, i wouldnt like to meet any worse than that. mabe im a bit scared of men still?

and if you make do with being with someone, just for the sake of not being alone, thats your problem.

for me it has to be right, because believe it or not, "in my old age" i still have alot of plans, and he must be a pet lover too.
i dated some people, they thought when they get their feet under the table, would "reduce" the number of my pets, so they was the ones getting reduced.
im happy how im, would just be nice to have someone to hug up with now n then =D
 nuttykitten

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Posted: 6/8/2008 2:40:15 AM

Let go of the 'one' and start going for the 'seven'

cause the 'one' is reserved for the 'four' and it's obvious you aren't the 'four'.

lmao at frankalank.

yeah, but thank you i know what you mean....

 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 6/8/2008 2:43:54 AM
Someone is not reading or paying attention to the replies....how does everyone tell you to "move on" and you reply "he ticks all the boxes". Hello, anybody home?

wow, you are a bit impatient arnt you? if i could get over him just like that, then oviousley hes not the one...hahahahahahahaha
you know why dont you just stay away from here, if its all not moving along swiftley enough for you.....:O)

Let him be like a celebrity crush and forget it. Find someone real to love you.

sound advice =D

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