| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:43:17 PM | I would really love to know what is going through your mind when meeting a woman for the first time. If you will, imagine yourself sitting at a table in a****ail lounge.
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time? What are you thinking?
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
3. If you care to share a dating experience, I'd love to hear it. Being discreet and not using names would be appreciated... | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:50:46 PM | 1. gawd, i hope she looks like her picture.... i hope she's as much fun as she was on the phone
2. hmm, she looks a little bit like her picture.,... kinda... i hope she's still a fun girl
3. i think i just did share a couple experiences! lol | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:52:10 PM |
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time?
A little tired. Washing clothes all morning can wear a fella out.
What are you thinking?
"Gah! I can't believe Carl lost 3 positions in the pits again! What is with his crew?"
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
What she looks like.
3. If you care to share a dating experience, I'd love to hear it.
Hmmm... come to think of it, I've never actually been on an official date. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:57:29 PM | I think most guys get into trouble when we think to much. I try to relax and enjoy the atmosphere. If and when she walks in(since you set the stage), the first thing I notice is the walk. Is she confident or is shy and timid.
But to go any further then that before actually meeting her and talking to her could be overly judgemental and cruel. There's plenty of time in the date to find out if you want to spend any more time with them.
I don't get to worked up about anyone before meeting them. If you're expecting Jessica Alba and you get Godzilla, you're night is pretty much over anyway! Thats when I order shots! | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:02:09 PM |
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time? What are you thinking?
Am I going to be stood up again?
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
Her change in body language once she see's me.
3. If you care to share a dating experience, I'd love to hear it. Being discreet and not using names would be appreciated...
I think my all time 'favorite' is the one a person at work set me up with. She told me her friend had trouble meeting guys and couldn't understand why. Much to my surprise the girl was rather attractive when she walked into the starbucks where we'd decided to meet before dinner. She rolled her eyes and laughed when she saw me and said "You better be rich." Needless to say, I enlightened my coworker about her friend's dating problems. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:25:38 PM |
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time?
Chipper, I guess. I'm an optimist.
What are you thinking?
"I hope she's not boring."
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
Sounds like a loaded question to me. Uh, her personality? Fail. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:14:41 PM | 1. It depends on the particular woman and whether it is a blind date or photos have been exchanged. Now I tend to insist on a photo, but my best date (and subsequent relationship) so far happened to be one without a photo. I nearly crawled backwards to hide because she was too beautiful. I can be a bit nervous.
2. Obviously, I would notice her front. Depending on the distance, it would be her overall appearance or her face. Definitely the body type and hair color. Once she gets closer, her eyes and lips. And then she opens her mouth... :-)
3. Overly good. Even when it was clear it did not go anywhere (no chemistry), I always had a pleasant time (sometimes fairly short). No hard feelings if it does not work out. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/9/2008 1:06:31 AM | i used to get a little nervous (nothing big) just what to talk about, what if i say the wrong thing, what if she isn't into me etc.
if its anything i learned (just do it, dont think, be yourself) if she likes you, -she's going to like you, is she doesn't, -oh well, just make the best of it, -then get the hell out of there. there is no substitute for chemistry, after a few minutes, you just know if those beakers are going to foam over, or another failed experiment.
as for the second part: were checking out her face/bod. -does it resemble anything of her profile pic? does she sound like the person who captivated us from her profile? hopefully | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/9/2008 1:27:46 AM | Honestly?
1. Before- "please do not let her be fat please do not let her be fat please do not let her be fat"
2. When first seen- usually "oh... she is not fat"... a few "oh dear, will not be seeing her again"s though.
I try not to overanalyse or overthink much of anything. To me, internet dating is a means of making contact with people I otherwise would not, hence I would rather not make too many decisions or know too much before meeting them. Chances are they are going to end being really fat anyhow, so best not to get too attached before meeting. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/9/2008 4:20:11 AM |
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time? What are you thinking?
breathe in, breathe out.. calm down.
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
how she carries herself, and the expression on her face. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:42:52 AM |
1. How are you feeling immediately before meeting your date for the first time? What are you thinking?
Well, a little nervous admittedly. This is a woman I've come to know through chatting online for a while... and I'm finally getting to meet her in the flesh.
I'm excited about finally meeting her. And a part of me might be a bit on guard, hoping that she really is the same woman who I've been getting to know.
Sometimes, it's all an act. But, I am hopeful...
Most of all... I'm myself. I expect to have a fun time, and just take things as they go.
No pressure, no rush. Just meet, be friendly, and see what happens.
2. You watch her walk into the lounge, what is the first thing you notice about your date?
Her eyes, definitely. The windows to the soul. You can tell a lot about a person by looking them in the eye.
It's also a good judge of their character, if they can keep eye contact while we're talking. We don't have to be gazing intently all the time, and a little nervous looking away is fine. But, if she can't look me in the eye at all... well, I'd have to wonder if maybe there's something wrong.
3. If you care to share a dating experience, I'd love to hear it. Being discreet and not using names would be appreciated...
Share an experience?
Hmm... but there's been so many. 
Well, I can say that when I meet her for the first time, I will just be myself. I'm confident in who I am, and I know I'm a hell of a catch. And if I'm meeting her, it means I've talked to her for a bit, and gotten a good feeling about her, I look who she is and how she thinks, and that's what brought us to this point.
So, it's all good.
I'll try to make sure she's comfortable. No pressure or anything. Don't want her to feel like she's on the spot. Or like she has to try and impress me or win me over or anything.
I want her to just be herself, and have a good time.
If there's a spark, that's wonderful. If not, it happens. Sometimes it takes a while.
It's who she is that I am attracted to... not some act that she'd have to put on to impress. So, as long as she's just herself... everything will be fine. | |
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| What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:55:19 AM | Just hoping for Chemistry, Both Ways!lol
I don't know if it's chemistry, but I've felt a weird sexual energy
blast through me, when meeting someone! It only lasts for a split
second! Don't know what that is, but that would be an added bonus! | |
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