| How Can I Move on when they follow my every step in life?
Posted: 6/8/2008 7:57:16 PM | So heres the deal. I was seeing this guy on and off for about 3 months before we started anything serious, i moved in with him after 6 months cause i couldnt deal with my parents anymore ( yes i am still young i know! ) things started out great with him. he was sweet, caring, loyal and undeniably cute. Best of all we went through school together too so i knew him as a friend. Well after i had been living with him for a couple of months we moved into another apartment, we really started making something for ourselves finally. Once we had moved into the new apartment things started to change, im not sure what caused it, it might have been something i had done, but i still cant figure it out. he started being rude, inconsiderate, and when i lost my job he became a complete control freak about everything. Well about 3 months ago he ended things with me and i moved out. Since we moved out i found out from him that his new "friend" meaning the girl he apparently cheated on me with(found this out a month ago!) , had moved in with him the day i moved out. Real considerate guy he turned out to be, but the point is, since we have broken up, he has treated me like a whore, setting his new "girlfriends" theres been 2 so far, on me. They trash talk me call me fat, a whore all kinds of unnecessary things for no reason at all. He is currently 21 and dating a 16y/o, this girl honestly wont lay off. I was just wondering if anyone has any advice about this kind of situation. I am just so frustrated! Ive been polite asked them to leave me alone, ive ignored her, i have been rude, and nothing seems to work. I feel like i am out of options and have no where to go. I have been trying to pick up the peices of my life and move on after being with this guy for a year, but he and his friends who used to be my friends, won't just let me be, and let me move on. He has even gone to the extreme to show up at parties where i am, threating me and whoever i am dating! I'm just not sure what to take that as? should i be more concerened? I like to think that he is a decent person on the inside and wouldnt do anything too stupid despite he has a bad temper, but it seems like he is mad and jealous even though he has no reason to be. Please send some advice my way. I cant seem to move on, with them pressuring me so much. Its been really hard and i appreciate any advice! | |
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| How Can I Move on when they follow my every step in life?
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:30:51 PM | Not sure what the laws are in Canada, but here in the US if someone is seriously threatening you it can be considered a terrorist threat and will be treated as a fedral offence. As for the girls that are talking Sh*t about you, don't condone any disrespect.
If you have exausted all other diplomatic possiblites to no avail. Then you will have to resort to vilolence.
I hate to say it, but sometimes violence is the only thing some people understand.
Thats why we are in war in Iraq.
Just beat the shit out of the girl that is talking shit about you. Once you whip her, the other ones will shut-up and you will feel much better about yourself. Don't be a scape goat for this guy. Your young and pretty, just go out and find a nice BIG muscle bound boyfriend to escort you to the parties, and when your EX insults you and starts acting out, your new guy should knock him out.
It's simple really
Hope this helps,
JMBBO
BadBoy~ | |
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| How Can I Move on when they follow my every step in life?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:58:19 AM | | you need to really open your eyes and wake up a little bit, they are getting out of you what they want, you just need to pull yourself away from this situation and have no further communication with any of them in the future no matter what they say about you. if you decide to continue, be prepared, things will get worse | |
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| How Can I Move on when they follow my every step in life?
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:56:19 AM |
I like to think that he is a decent person on the inside and wouldnt do anything too stupid despite he has a bad temper, but it seems like he is mad and jealous even though he has no reason to be.
You are a classic example of girl who date a jerk who think there is goodness inside the jerks. guess what, there isn't.
Stop crying, to him, you are just piece of meat, when he found someone cuter than you, he dumped you right away. He doesn't love you, you are stupid to love someone who doesn't love you.
You are 21, no job, no place to stay, no education. It is better to stop dating for couple year, because you simply aren't mature enough to pick a good guy who will treat you with respect in the long run. yeah there are some hot guys who treat you nice in the beginning just to get into your pants, but in the end they will become somone just like your ex. go find a nice guy. | |
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