| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/11/2008 1:56:06 PM | First off, this thread isn't about whether they are a turn on or turn off or whether you like them or not. Some do, some don't, yada yada yada. If you wanna discuss that, I'd humbly suggest any of several other threads concerning that.
What I wanna know is, when do you prefer to learn that a guy has piercings below the belt?
Would you rather find out in the first few convos, discover it the first time you had sex (if it got that far?) or somewhere in between? | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/11/2008 2:10:13 PM | In my experience, it usually comes out in the getting to know you chats.
A common question is, "Do you have any tattoos or interesting piercings?"
Seems like the perfect time to say it then. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/11/2008 2:20:59 PM | While I think I would like to know ahead of time, the only guy I've ever been with that was pierced I found out the first time we were together sexually...... wowwwwwwwwwiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeee...... what a treat to come across that when I went down on him!! It was so HAWT!!!
So, to answer your question..... I don't really care.... knowing he has one ahead of time will not make me want him any more or any less...... the only thing that makes me want him is him.... not his piercings or lack thereof.
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/11/2008 2:51:21 PM | 
Have to admit I have never came across this situation.
However if I was into a guy, it wouldn't really matter when I found out, I mean really, unless it came with a really nasty infection of some sort of STD, it isn't something that really matters one way or another.
I guess for some people they may take issue, but personally I wouldn't... | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/11/2008 3:20:05 PM | | This is really going to depend on the girl in question. I would assume that a girl who doesn't like that kind of piercing would rather be told ahead of time than find the surprise. Girls who do like it probably won't mind the surprise. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 6/25/2008 5:05:29 PM | | I have a prince albert with a CBR. I didn't bring it up until it was clear that we were going to have sex, then I made it clear I could take it out if it freaked her. I must say, she was intrigued. Now she loves it and says it gives added sensation that she really likes. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:18:50 PM | | lol, yeah, I have a zero guage PA. I've had a few women that weren't bothered at all by the fact that I had a PA, but it really bugged them that it was a zero guage. I wasn't aware there was some kinda line there that I crossed from sane into crazy, not that I hadn't actually crossed it years ago lol | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:39:30 PM | It doesn't matter to me. Share prior to getting naked. Surprise me with it. The reaction will be the same. I sometimes don't tell people about mine, but it's been there ages and I tend to forget about it most of the time.
Now... a 0 (zero) gauge is mighty large, so it's shocking for the majority of people to see it. It's shocking in an ear.. more so in a penis. I think 10-14 are the more common sizes. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:45:36 PM | | Yeah, Pretty much the only time I think about mine is when the subject of sex comes up, or I have to go to the bathroom lol. Kinda hard for guys to not notice it then. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:14:31 PM | | I think it's a safe assumption that if they have facial piercings and body piercings, they may have piercings elsewhere. Personally I don't mind a PA although the fact that it's a 0 gauge that's... wow um kinda scary. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:23:54 PM | Only piercings I have are in the ears and below the belt. Simple 10 guage hoops in each lobe. The jewelry I wear keeps you from seeing it's that big. It's pretty much just a ball against the skin on each end. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:47:48 PM | Oooh. Damn dude, should I take this new found info back to Arfcom and share it with the old codgers there? I could just imagine some of the replies.
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:00:19 PM | | OP, though I've yet to encounter this personally, I would definitely want to know before clothes come off. That would be a bit of a surprise, and to be honest, I'd probably have a lot of questions beforehand, such as successful condom use, etc. Having had friends with all sorts of interesting piercings, I've heard just about every horror story imaginable. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:39:30 PM | | I'll add my vote for telling a girl about the piercing before any sexual action happens, sometime in between the first few dates and that point. A girl with piercings that go beyond the "norm" (navel, tongue, nose stud), if she had stretchers in her ears, for example, I can't see someone into piercings like that being too shocked by it if they didn't know beforehand, if you didn't feel like telling them until the act. Although a 0 gauge piercing sounds like something you might want to tell anyone you are going to have sex with about well beforehand anyway. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:07:19 AM | lol Jim, they already all know. ONE chick there found out, told the rest of em (there were pics involved) and then it spread like wildfire lol
RE: Condom use, in the past I've never had an issue, nor has it torn one. That comes either from wearing the wrong jewelry, or cheap jewelry where the balls came un done. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:25:11 AM |
What I wanna know is, when do you prefer to learn that a guy has piercings below the belt?
Personally, I need to know this upfront. I've experienced the prince albert before and it hurt like hell. Too tight + metal being rubbed against the walls = NOT pleasurable. So anyone who has that isn't someone I want to/can be with. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:08:08 AM | Sweetkisses, 0 guage is pretty big. about 1.5 times the diameter of a number 2 pencil.
Getting it was one of the most painful things I'd ever been through, but the pain lasted a whole 10 seconds. Since then I've been in MUCH worse pain, that lasted much longeer  It healed up over time and hasn't hurt since. Except when I stretched it, but even that wasn't very bad.
Selena, it's not like a man can't take it out, though I do understand where you're coming from. | |
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| Learning about a new guys genital piercings.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:21:03 AM | PA, 0 guage........prince albert with a CBR-- what ARE these things? And will they hurt me?
If so, I'd like to know before intimacy but then again being ignorant AND curious- I might just wanna look and see. | |
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