| I am so done
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:17:19 PM | I had this postingt a long time ago and have gone back to my wife. i have found that this is not a way to make a life with someone with a back door and so I have deciede that it would be ok to work my way back to my wife.
I will be working on a better relationship and I will not get back on this site. I have made some good friends and I am happy to say goodbye to all of them. So to all of you work it out it is worth it and so you should be happy like I am. | |
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| I am so done
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:26:08 PM | | You do realize that you are going back to the same person, right? You will face the same problems that you did before. Are you going to pretend that they don't exist, and try to just suck it up? | |
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| I am so done
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:50:09 PM | | i'm sure mr. markus is crying that you got away, he might only get $999,999,999.00 in revenue today without you | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 12:22:52 AM | | good luck mall. only you know whats best for you. if your heart is with your wife then follow it. just take your time and work things out this time. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 1:28:06 AM | Hi mallup63,
I think like many people before you,you have realised that the grass only looks greener on the other side. Good luck to both youm and your wife,and may all your problems be small ones(sounds smarmy,but I DO mean it) | |
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| I am so done
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:39:55 AM | I think were all here for the same reason, looking to find that special someone.
but go back to the ex.......jeez no way i been there tried that, didnt last and definately didnt work.
i would rather be single as i am, than have my head messed with every day | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 3:37:59 AM | | It's been said before, but they are an an ex for a reason, and that reason will likely still exist. Nevertheless good luck with that, but it isn't something I would ever consider doing. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 4:40:46 AM | Counseling would help both of you. I know many that have made the trip back a successful one. At least you can acknowledge some of what your downfalls were, that's a step in the right direction. It sounds like she is waiting for you by the way you have written this ,or she does not know. "It's so easy to live an honest life ", words I live by. I feel good for you, and the best to the both of you. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 1:36:18 AM | | i am to for now i may be back but i did not have any luck | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 2:58:23 PM | So, let me get this straight.
You woke up one lazy Sunday morning, shuffled into the kitchen, tattered yet comortable bathrobe clutched around you, wanting nothing so much as tall, cold glass of milk. You poured it from the carton into a glass, even as birds sang and a squirrel frolicked in the the branches of the tree outside your window. As you lifted the glass, already savoring that first frigid gulp... Blech! This milk's gone sour!
Then, regarding the offending carton, you trundled back to the refrigerator and as youplaced it back on its shelf, said to yourself: "Hmm... I think I'll save this -- I might want it again later!" | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 3:33:51 PM | Well mall I hope it was the case of "grass is greener"... rather than you going back to something that is a bad deal.
I do know a lot of couples though who have patched things up... and they were happier because they knew what was out there now..
I hope everything works out well for you and your wife. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 3:04:30 PM | tired of the on-line bs!
Chelle from Ltown | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 4:35:28 PM | | bs is everywhere - people be people no matter where they are! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 1:09:08 AM | as others have said going back can take some real work.. breaking the circles and patterns /habits the old water under the bridge.. counseling from a wise friend or professional may very well give you as a couple the power tools to rebuild a special successful partnership..
hope so for you and yours.. as repeating a crappy mistake can be worse than 9 impaired charges in 10 years.. I would think that the personal damage would hurt..
so go slow and work on who you were and who you are becoming. hold true and be one of those old couples that still are exciting and bring a special tear of joy and utmost respect to one eyes. | |
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| I am so done
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:44:49 AM | | As many here have pointed out exes are exes for a reason so do go into this with your eyes open and get the help needed to be successful the second time around. As much as we all remember the pain of the difficulties with our exes we also must admit there was some reason we fell in love with then the first place. It is a lot of hard work ahead of you making repairs but with love and the efforts of both partners it can be done. Best of luck Mallup. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:25:42 AM | Has anybody bothered to look at the OP's profile (which is still up 5 days after he said he was leaving)?
The ONLY thing it says is that he's looking for a blowjob.
I don't think the dude is saying he's going BACK TO his wife, I think he's saying he's decided not to cheat on her after all (or anymore, whichever the case may be). | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:55:42 AM | get offa the site a'ready pig! ur profile is disgusting...ur lazy n THATS y ur goin back to ur poor wife. Too lazy to do anything bout urself ...to get something better which u dont even deserve as ALL U ARE LOOKIN FOR IS ....well whateva kathi | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 6:58:13 AM | ^^^^^^ I noticed it. DUH! Maybe he should have just talked to the wifey about the issues in the bedroom?????
He says " I will be working on a better relationship" Well, DUH --don't think a BJ qualifies as a relationship in the first place.... | |
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Posted: 7/19/2008 10:48:56 AM | great post league. i myself have been to counseling..worth every cent i paid.. if i ever do the Marriage thing ill be more then willing to go back to counseling. till then i am gonna stay single and enjoy life.. i know that they will feel good and it will work.. if not theres still plenty of fish..
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