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Posted: 6/13/2008 8:46:52 PM | I wonder...how much fun you feel to have sex with stranger?
Whatever...it is first date or ten date?
Sex...it is intimate...just what you feel...in all your senses....with stranger?Do you like to wake up...in the morning with him/her? | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 9:21:15 PM |
how much fun you feel to have sex with stranger?
None.
it is first date or ten date?
If it were the tenth date, we wouldn't really be strangers anymore.
Sex...it is intimate...just what you feel...in all your senses....with stranger?
Experiencing feelings in all your senses is not synonymous with intimacy.
Do you like to wake up...in the morning with him/her?
With someone I don't know? Uh, no. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 9:52:52 PM | “I wonder...how much fun you feel to have sex with stranger?
It was fun when I was young. The few times since I got divorced (4.5 years ago) seemed ....... so weird there was no fun involved. I am pretty sure the next time (if there is a next time) the girl will be my REAL girlfriend or .............. nothing.
“Sex...it is intimate...just what you feel...in all your senses....with stranger?Do you like to wake up...in the morning with him/her?”
I am not interested in waking up with a stranger. In all my years that has never happened. I doubt very much if it ever does. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 3:44:02 AM | Your questions, my answers:
Do I have sex with strangers?
Seeing as I don't, when DO I have sex?
That's his and my decision... actually no one else's business.
Do I like to wake up to find a stranger in my bed?
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:52:44 AM | If and when I get me a partner. The sex will be a part of the intimacy.
To make sex fun, she could get a little strange and that'd be awesome!! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 6:07:54 AM | | Sex, at least for me, is not something I participate in lightly. By the time a relationship reaches the level of "connectedness" that I require before being intimate with someone, we care for one another and wish to take our bond to the next level. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 6:56:25 AM | Sex with a stranger? NO!
For me at least it is sharing a part of myself that only comes after a connection with a special someone. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 6:59:57 AM | OP, I'm not sure what you are asking. I am thinking you really don't mean a stranger, as you state, 1st date, or 10th. That to me, means perhaps you mean the first time you have sex with someone you are dating, not necessarily a stranger.
Correct me if I am wrong.. As you stated it, I don't have sex with a stranger, never have and no need to start now at my age, lol | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 7:06:26 AM | I did address it to people they have sex with strangers!
Too good...to be true...no one has experience like that! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 7:33:36 AM |
I did address it to people they have sex with strangers!
Too good...to be true...no one has experience like that!
It probably is, for some people, but I'll pass on that one. Sex with strangers is definitely dangerous with the rise in aids and std. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 8:02:38 AM | Sex with a stranger? I was taught to not talk to strangers, why would I have sex with one? | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 8:23:07 AM |
I did address it to people they have sex with strangers!
Too good...to be true...no one has experience like that!
I've had sex with relative strangers, and it's always been VERY good and has never turned into a negative experience after I got to know those lovers better over time. I guess I work a bit backwards from a lot of others: if I had to wait for a deep, emotional connection to have sex, I'd be stuck never having sex again. Deep, emotional connections take me a LONG time to develop. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:13:19 AM | I'm not really sure what you're trying to ask in this one...as usual...so I'll just go with my own thoughts...as usual.
I've had sex with strangers in my life, sometimes it was as thrilling as I'd hoped for, other times I was just lonely and looking for *some* kind of connection with someone, and ended up feeling disappointed and more lonely. Predictably so. But I don't really think sex has to be as holy as a lot of other people seem to believe it to be. Sometimes it's just little more than an activity shared. Other times it is the connection that reaches all the way down to your soul. But there are good and bad points to either type of sex. The connection to your soul kind is great for as long as it lasts, but can be devastating at the end (of the relationship, not the sexual encounter)...and that's when I might find myself looking for the type of sex that's just an activity shared, with no expectations beyond what's happening at the moment. But I guess that behavior is slutty, so we won't talk about that any more here | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 10:08:11 AM | I did back in pre-aids time.. but I don't any more.. ever..
I noticed back on the rare occasion when I did that kind of stuff that I became very bored with it very quickly.. so I quit doing it altogetther.
So my answer is no it isn't fun. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 12:21:09 PM | It has been a looong time since I did any such thing, and I would not do so now. When I was young in the 1960's it was a different story and I remember all sorts of feelings ranging from "OMG I think I am in love" all the way to "OMG what was I thinking?"
My second wife became a stranger and it was very upsetting to make love to someone I no longer knew. I don't think this is what OP is talking about.
I am open about myself and when I meet a lady that is the same, we lose the "strangerness" of it all very quickly. Since I believe in waiting for sex until other forms of intimacy are well established, it is just not going to happen. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 10:19:47 PM | I think all your questions can be answered with one quote...
"With age comes wisdom...But sometimes, It comes alone."
I think your rather strange questions, come down to one thing.
Have you gained wisdom as you grew older? | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 10:28:52 PM | Some people you have a *sense of knowing them forever, even if you have only known them for hours...they arent a stranger...my ex I was with 8 years, him, I never really knew...so at times those closest to us are the real strangers.
When I first read your opening statement I thought of that old double bagger rating, where one guy tells another ..she was a double bagger...he puts a bag over his face in cause her's comes off....its harsh but that is what I would think of sex with a stranger...someone you dont know, dont want to like, and are just using to have sex. I didnt think people who engaged in that type of sex actually spend the night...most sorta slink off in the middle of the night, so you dont wake up in the morning with them around. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:02:54 AM | hi
I could not agree more with you *cuddlybuddy*
Waking up next to a complete stranger ... I would begin to wonder
if I was an alcoholic or druggie without even knowing about it 
lolol....  | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 8:47:26 AM | I never had sex with a stranger. I've known some more than other but they were never strangers by the time we had sex. Well... ok.. one was a stranger. And is was really fun! lol.
If I slept with her on the 1st or 20th date, it was intimate and never just for sex. If I have sex with her, I want to wake up next to her. Absolutely. (Except for that one stranger. It was all about sex and we were pretty far from a bed.). While sex is still important, it's in the right context now. She has to be pretty special for me to sleep with her now. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 10:52:06 AM | ...In all honesty...never slept with a stranger. Got into a pretty good, heart pounding, blood racing, necking session...... but I couldn't bring myself to do the deed.
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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:20:34 AM | Sex always gets better the more you know your partner. Generally I find it not that great with someone you don't know, and usually not that great the first few times you do it with someone.
I doubt that I could even get into it with a stranger these days, although it was quite the rage at one point in my youth.
On the other hand, its fun to fantasize about how good it would be to have an empty meaningless counter with a suddenly attractive woman. But then, the imagination is always more exciting that the reality. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:37:51 AM | I haven't had sex with a stranger since I was in my early 20's so thats so many years ago I don't remember.  | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 11:56:02 AM | | I don't have sex with strangers. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 12:25:45 PM | When I was younger it did not matter but now that I'm older I want that intimacy or nothing at all.
I guess as we get older we tend to appreciate some things more than others and our values change as well. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 12:42:16 PM | | In the case of older males, it takes so long to get into the mood, that whoever is no longer a really a stranger by the time it happens..... | |
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