| The "So do you like sex?" question
Posted: 6/17/2008 4:30:22 AM | | What is the purpose of this? How many women actually answer you with "No, I hate it and you will not be getting any, EVER."? I have been asked this question so much via chat and it just leaves me thinking "This guy is a moron." Are there so many women out there that don't like sex that you are really concerned about it? | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 4:46:10 AM | I don't think it's so much that they are wondering if a woman likes sex.... but how high her sex drive is. Personally, I think it's a valid question (maybe not on the first date ) because sexual relations are important..... if one person only likes sex once or twice a month and the other likes it one or twice every 12 hours, then there is going to be a problem.
And yes.... there are men and women that do not enjoy sex.... rare... but it does happen.
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 5:37:16 AM | Maybe they are just making sure you aren't asexual. 
More than likely though it's a hint, like if someone asks you "Hey, do you like pizza?" The hint is get some pizza. So I think that's what they are more getting to, in a less than suave manner. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 5:46:23 AM | | Oddly enough, no one has asked me if I like pizza. Although I can see the correlation. I have not yet had bad sex or bad pizza... | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 6:01:15 AM | | You know it's funny I just remarked to a guy not to long ago that it was REFRESHING that he didn't bring up sex in the first conversation. I have to say I'm fairly sick of it as well. Is it valid question? Sure. But you don't even know my last name yet. I've also been contacted SEVERAL times asking if I would like to strictly talk about sex. Although I guess in retrospect it's a great way to weed out the guys that really only want one thing. It certainly sends up a red flag for me - and I also have begun to think it's a bit disrespectful as well. But hey that's just me! | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 12:49:31 PM | Most people do like sex,so its a silly question realy.
Whats wrong with asking do you like bjs or do you like anal,or do you like a man in a batman outfit. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 12:49:42 PM |
What is the purpose of this?
Answer 1
There are some who don't like sex or for some other reason are not interested in sex. Maybe they've run into enough people like that that's it's a reasonable thing TO THEM to ask.
Answer 2
What they're asking is "Would you like to have sex....with me?"
Saying it like "Do you like sex?" is a round about, semi polite way of asking... and the people mentioned in answer 1 are a good fallback excuse in case you get pissy about being asked that.
Answer 3
If the convos have progressed enough that they feel there's some chemistry or at least lust shared.... then that's a good intro to discussing the specific details of the deed.... | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 1:30:03 PM | Oh man, I must be getting old, I'm really tired of this. Everybody's so freakin' sex obsessed. I consider myself a normal, healthy woman but gosh, take it easy, let's get to know each other a little first. Otherwise, just go buy it on the street corner. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 2:40:13 PM | "How many women actually answer you with "No, I hate it and you will not be getting any, EVER."?"
only the honest ones....
make that - none....
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 3:28:38 PM | | It's guy code for "Are you gonna put out after I lay out some cash for a date?" It's right there on page 57 of the guy manual. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 3:59:12 PM |
What is the purpose of this? How many women actually answer you with "No, I hate it and you will not be getting any, EVER."? I have been asked this question so much via chat and it just leaves me thinking "This guy is a moron." Are there so many women out there that don't like sex that you are really concerned about it?
That is so funny. I was actually asked that by a woman. I said I wanted to date and get to know women, have a respectful friendship and just hang out and have fun. She asked me if I was looking for sex.
Taken aback, I said what healthy man doesn't want sex? Sure, I love sex, but I don't want the BS drama that goes with it. I don't want to have sex with a woman then be called an ***hole because I don't text/email/call her every day afterwards.
I don't want to be accussed of "using her for one thing", so I rather just hang socially and just enjoy being single for awhile.
Did something happen in the last couple of years, becasue while I was married, there were suppose to be all these "empowered, sexually active women" out there like Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha (yeah it is scary I know those names) that believed they are just as entitled to enjoy sex just like us guys.
Now, it just seem like it's all or nothing lately. Either I'm suppose to be by myself, be the nice gentleman that sits home and talks to the cats or I'm suppose to be on the scheduled timeline whenever I meet someone for a drink, go out for dinner, then snatch my profiles off all the dating sites, because the first woman that agree to spend time with me from a dating site is "the one". | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 4:03:55 PM |
just leaves me thinking "This guy is a moron." I quite agree. I would think an appropriate answer would be, "I love sex, unless it's with a moron." Then I'd leave the conversation. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 4:49:35 PM | Reminds me of a joke I read years ago, A man a woman are standing at the alter.
The priest is about to begin the ceremony, the man is thinking " starting tonight I'm gonna have sex for the rest of my life, at the same time the woman is thinking, "after tonight I never have to have sex again".
Men ask this question because they know that they want sex "X" amount of times a week/month and they don't want to find themselves in a relationship with a woman who is okay with sex much less frequently. I think frequency is more important to men and quality is more important to women. If a woman sucks in bed but is always willing, men will stick around forever. Or at least a very long time. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 4:50:29 PM | I can't tell you how many women I have heard complaining about how forward guys are. I think many guys troll around dating sites like this just looking for sex with no commitments.
The way I would be looking at it if I were you? They just helped weed themselves out for you. Unless, of course, you want the same thing they do. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 5:58:39 PM |
And yes.... there are men and women that do not enjoy sex.... rare... but it does happen.
I see you have met my ex! Oh wait, that was just not liking sex WITH ME!
OP: Some of the guys may be trying to "feel" you out, so to speak to find out WHAT kind of sex you like. There are those of us out there that get very bored with regular "vanilla" sex and are looking for a partner that is as experimental in the bedroom as we are. And before anyone else says "well you can find that out after the relationship begins" ... Wrong! For some anything that borders on freaky is TOO freaky for them to handle. Kind of like if a guy just LOVES blow jobs and he hooks up with a woman who thinks blow jobs are disgusting, then they have both wasted their time. Why not cut to the chase and make sure that the two of you are going to be compatible before getting that far? | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 6:48:55 PM |
I have not yet had bad sex or bad pizza... Apparently you have not yet had the joy of eating at Chuck E. Cheese.
There is a time and a place for questions like that, for the most part, that is after you have gotten to know them a little bit. Not before you have met them in person, via message or e-mail.
You can pretty much assume that someone who does not understand that difference, is very likely not very good dating material. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 6:51:25 PM |
Oddly enough, no one has asked me if I like pizza. Although I can see the correlation. I have not yet had bad sex or bad pizza...
"Sex is like Pizza...
When it's good, it's really good...
When it's bad, it's still pretty good."
Random sticker on a locker at work
OT : It could be just a conversation starter than anything else. For a dull moment of chatting. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 7:06:37 PM |
Whats wrong with asking do you like bjs or do you like anal,or do you like a man in a batman outfit.
For me, there's lots wrong with this. I don't go there while chatting to people online; never have, never will. I think it's raunchy and classless and not something I would participate in.
Now, for people just looking for virtual sex or intimate encounters, knock yourselves out. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 7:29:36 PM | | I love sex. I enjoy exchanging dirty talk while having sex. I do not care for sex as a conversation topic unless I am actually instigating sex. At that very moment. As far as getting into a whole theoretical conversation about likes/dislikes/frequency/positions with a guy I don't know....online....zero chance. IRL the chances are slightly higher, because of the chemistry factor, but trust me, if I start talking about sex, it means I want to get some within the next ten minutes. Otherwise, why talk about it? | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 7:31:56 PM |
Whats wrong with asking do you like bjs or do you like anal,or do you like a man in a batman outfit. The problem here is with the first questions... it should be, do you like having oral or anal sex performed on you?
Sure I like anal. I will be right over with my strap on boys...
As for the Batman suit... woof. Tres sexy. | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 8:42:45 PM | ^^^^^^ Ok ill word things better next time.
I will be right over with my strap on boys...
ER no thanks,Ill skip that | |
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| The So do you like sex? question
Posted: 6/17/2008 11:43:05 PM | | So, do you like sex?. Do you?. Kidding aside, it is a retorical question for most. Ofcourse we like sex , 99 percent of the people on this website does, but you'll always find the few who must ask. If I may, the question I would like to ask is: is it that big a deal?. For example;... guy's can tell you the new " Sex and the City" was a great movie considering it was a TV show at first, and it's RARE that that kinda of jump makes a smash hit at the box office, so really, is it that big a deal we ask stupid questions sometimes?. We are all human. | |
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