| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 4:46:33 PM | | well i always hear guys say yea they like curves. so where are they really. i can never find one. i dated a few, who said yup i like it. then a few months down the line, they got on my case, trying to get me to lose weight. so do you think big girls are nicer, cause we have to be to get a man? and then we willlose weight when your in? what exactly are you thinking? this goes for ladies who do the same thing too. why do you all do this?> | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 6:15:21 PM | Yes I am one of those evil ones too ,
got my wife (RIP) to work out surf with me eat better and healthier , ride bikes , swim , did all of this when we first got married , got down from a size 10 or something to a 3 .
She became an athelete a good one was chosen to train and see if she was to be accepted at a olympic training center here. She was very flexible, hehehehe.
Yes I thought she was so smoking hot , much more than when we first married , she was more active than I , no more a couch potato eating chips and cheese cake .
I do not know if it was bad on my part to really press for this but I think her self worth went up 1000 percent .
Maybe I am an ass or something , but babe , if you feel good about yourself why should you care ?
You probably had way more dates than I , being bigger lady is better than being a shorter guy , I cannot fix that ,
If the guy does not like they way your body size is , then he is not worth it , I may be one of them ... I like them athletic eventually .
Babe you are so cute and you live nearby | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 6:23:21 PM | well put sddude !
I dont think I lie lie about big women, I like fuller woman to begin with, not extreme over weight tho. I make them feel good sometimes, my wife used to think she is the most beautiful women in the world , I used to make her beleive she is. I am sure women do that to men sometimes. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 6:50:29 PM | | I like curves... leg curves, thigh curves, waist curves (like hourglass-like curves), butt curves... when a guy says he likes a woman to be curvy that's usually what he's talking about. And no, guys don't and shouldn't expect a girl to lose weight when she's "in"... she should have stopped going to mcdonalds and done away with the excess long before then. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 7:14:54 PM | Im offended by that last part "she should have stopped going to mcdonalds and done away with the excess long before then."
First of all not all women of size eat at McDonalds (really stupid thing to say), second some women do try to lose weight but it can be hard when "some" people whisper nasty comments when they try to get fit.
Speaking as a curvy women, if the body is all you look at then when you get screwed over and meet women who you regret then you have only your self to blame. I think a heart and soul should count for more than looks. But if you bring it up in the right way and talk to them about getting fit if the women is up for it then that a different story. but no one has the right to tell someone to lose weight, man or women. | |
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zgirl
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Joined: 5/30/2005
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 7:22:02 PM | | iamsweetnotstupid: you took the words right out of my mouth! Why is it when a woman asks a completely legitimate question they get idiots on here who have to pump up their ego or whatever by bashing heavier women by saying we eat too much? If you don't have anything nice to say....you know the rest! | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 9:08:46 PM | i dont lie. I actually find larger woman attractive. More cushion for the pushin! anyway, gettinh an hug from an large woman feels soooooo good.! | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 9:24:51 PM | Speaking as a big woman,
I don't really believe in men prefering big women.People don't fall in love with each other based on appearance.I know my husband didn't set out to find himself a big woman to spend the rest of his life with.He fell in love with ME the person. Men can fantsasize all they want about thier ideal woman.I know I'm not the ideal woman in body but I also know that I'm 1 hell of a woman inside. | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 12 | |
| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/6/2005 9:37:36 PM | I have been involved with women of all shapes and sizes. I don't have a preference and I have never chosen one size over the other. It's the person who makes themself appear attractive on both sides of the skin that appeal to me.
For women who complain about being ignored because they are BBW - it's a hang up.
For guys who ignore BBW - it's a hang up.
Regardless of size, you should always live a healthy lifestyle. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 3:33:52 PM | | I've been with both and although both are very nice I find that smaller woman have more confidence in themselves. I also find that most of the woman I know that are overweight like to put themselves down far too much. I do prefer to see a skinny person because I don't find rolls of fat very attractive on anyone of either sex. We all have our own preferances as to what we like in a person and we can never ever please everyone so my suggestion is to be who you are and the hell with what other people think. If anyone is lying about liking big woman then there probably lying to save hurting their feelings. | |
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krayon
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Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 15 | |
| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 3:44:09 PM | Blunt truth is a lot of ppl will try to change something about someone else. Blessed are those who just take ppl for who they are. If you're going to start dating someone who is large, thin, short hair, long hair, smoker, non smoker, etc. etc.,... why expect them to try to change it later. If you know something up front and accept it, then, that's the way it's probably going to stay, so to expect any different is setting up the relationship for failure from the get go.
Oh... btw, while I'm posting, has anyone noticed that these "sexy" pics (both female and male) a lot of times will not have an actual "face" shot in their profile. Duh!  | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:04:09 PM | | in my experience big sexy curvy women make better lovers than skinny ladies, theyre more loving on an emotional level to, maybe its a genetic thing i dunno. society puts an awful lot of pressure on ppl and brainwashes them to think skinny is beautiful, skinny is best. then guys ego's kick in and tell them they gotta have wot's deamed best so they go for the skinny gals. i on the other hand tend to snap skinny women in bed so i go for curves every time | |
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Xann
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Joined: 6/15/2004
Msg: 17 | |
| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:05:19 PM | | i dont really care as long as the girl is happy with herself or if i can make her feel happy with herself. im a big guy and happy with myself and a girl shouldn't hate herself because she isn't a supermodel despite what popular culture may want you to believe. i love a girl for who she is, not how much or how little she weighs | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:12:15 PM | I don't lie, I need my partner to be fit so they can keep up with me. Do I see other guys here that lie? Dam rights I do! If you guys like the chubby chicks then why are they all single?
I have some wonderful heavy woman friends and I love them as they are great to talk to and hang out with but as for being with them full time it would never work. | |
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krayon
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Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 19 | |
| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:17:03 PM | bizie, would you care to expound on your reasons for not being with a large woman.
(no need to think I'm on the defensive. Am 5'1" and 117 lbs)
Just curious, since you're being so honest, as to why? | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:17:17 PM | | I have a close friend who is very much attracted to BBW's and he's as skinny as a pole!. It doesn't do it for me.. Two very good friends of mine are quite large... terrific gals, but there simply is no physical attraction whatsoever in terms of anything romantic.. Don't need a centerfold model or anything, not even looking for perfection... Dislike sharp edges anyway... | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:18:27 PM | | If a man tries to get you to change for HIM...then he is not worth your time. If a guy fixates too much on your appearance then that is a bad thing, regardless if he likes or not. Shallow is shallow. The first time a man says to you "I think you need to lose weight" he needs a swift boot in the ass and directions to the door. And smilincaligal198...you're bloody gorgeous, some guy is going to appreciate that, it just may take some time to weed out the jerks. | |
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krayon
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Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 22 | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:23:28 PM | | icteagirl Hey sweety!! I've dated some guys that were heavier. They had awesome personalities and weren't that hung up about their size, it wasn't an issue. Last one though, played tennis with me every Monday night, he was wanting to get into better shape and I felt so sorry for him, he'd be sweating like heck after the first 20 minutes. Personally, I would like to have someone who could do some of the physical things I like to do, like tennis, not a requirement, but it's fun to have a regular tennis partner. | |
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