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 Melty Chocolate

Joined: 6/14/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 2:37:22 AM
When I was growing up a little old lady told me "woman will outsmart you, and will always think ten steps ahead of you... and the best thing is you will never even know"

Hell!! she was right. I see it everyday... but its the small things that impress me. for example take at the 'TITS INCREASE HITS' theory. A very large proportion of woman will choose a profile picture showing anything from an enticing full cleavage shot to a full scale birdseye view. You look further down on the profile and it will say 'if your looking for dirty talk or more just move right on'. Some woman have mastered the art of using 'sex' to market themselves just as a form of bait. If you still dont believe me, look for a profile with a cleavage shot, then look at the other pictures next to it... no cleavage there at all!!

My point is woman do work on a level us men seldom notice

Pure genius... or are us men just bloody thick

If you know any another examples Id like to know.... just for fun

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 mustbpatient

Joined: 6/12/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 2:45:20 AM

When I was growing up a little old lady told me "woman will outsmart you, and will always think ten steps ahead of you... and the best thing is you will never even know"


When I was young, my Grandmother told me - "A man can be awful, God knows he can... but a woman can be worse than the Devil himself. Remember that".

The little old lady advising you OP, is wise. It takes a very special and rare woman that is willing to share her true insight on life... regardless of their age, when you encounter them, they're worth listening to.
 Paumanok

Joined: 6/15/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 3:25:33 AM
The truth in what she said is not that they actually outsmart you, it's that they work at it and think they do. Women usually think in emotional terms and that is the long road around, so they take more steps. It is a great task to make sense of something emotionally, just like it is to experience an emotion using reason. When men have emotions words fall silent, but women's purpose for words is to evoke and coddle emotion. It's remarkable when a rational mind expresses emotion or when an emotional perspective stumbles upon making sense. The crossroads where men and women meet as they wander will let women count those extra steps as being ahead, as she zigs and zags across his straighter path. I'll grant women the extra steps they take. I'll suggest though that if they are meeting at the same place, she's not actually ahead.
 funny bones

Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 3:31:09 AM
oooooo.. Mister Melty Chocolate... See... fish can eat bait... fish can not eat fishing rod lol... Allure, and seduction is an art lol... In some other cases, it's about leaving the options open...
Besides.. It's all your fault.. yes you... Cleavage is also for feeding babies.. why do you have to look at it from one and the same point of view LMAO
 Melty Chocolate

Joined: 6/14/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 4:02:33 AM
Ahhh yes but women are fully aware us men are genetically predisposed to react to the site of any sexual part of a woman. There is no choice in the matter!! So fish will always react to bait (but doesnt mean we will bite though) lol

What really amazes me is the psychological and tactical gain of woman in general. Trust me guys you gotta step back one second and watch whats going on....

.... thats why I love woman. lol
 Paumanok

Joined: 6/15/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 4:31:21 AM
Sex stupefies men and women alike. In your awe it may seem the woman has planned and schemed, but that is because when you're aroused anything at all would seem ingenious. It's no different than when you smoke weed and discover how clever it is that just by flipping a wall switch the light in the room changes from on to off and back again. Wow, look at that! The reason women seem to be clever is because sex induces idiocy. In that impaired state you can easily make the mistake of attributing to women all kinds of cunning. O, the power she has over you! She must be very powerful! No, she is female. You are very susceptible. If you don't believe me, explain why when you were a teenager walking through a department store, you got a boner over a mannequin. If you want to seem as clever as women do just remain silent when you are aroused.
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 4:45:50 AM

"woman will outsmart you, and will always think ten steps ahead of you... and the best thing is you will never even know"


Believe me there's men who will put any woman to shame. Women are still emotional creatures. A smart man can use this to his advantage and make her feel emotionally happy and safe and do whatever he wants with her. Do you know how common it is for women to be abused by men but when the police comes and tries to make an arrest the women beg for the man not to be arrested? Just proves that men can be more vindicative.
 Melty Chocolate

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Posted: 6/24/2008 4:58:53 AM
There are also men out there with bigger breasts than woman!!
but on the whole I wouldnt underestimate any woman

:)
 gtomustang

Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:00:10 AM
The old lady may have been talking about you when she said what she said, or she may have been talking about the other men who were in her life.... but if women in general were far ahead of men in general, then why are so many women complaining that they misled by men, don't get what they want out of relationships...or post in their profiles, "if you want just sex, move on"?

All men aren't denser...some are just more focused. Some want only what they want, and don't worry how they get to their goal. If they want her breasts, they don't worry how they get 'em.
 funny bones

Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:02:48 AM
Ok... Justify why by equal measures a guy would pose on his profile nearly naked and mention his intimate details and 'measurements' in full then say he does not want to be contacted by women looking for an intimate encouter or who messaged others looking for one, he is not up for cybersex or a dirty chat? The simple fact in my opinion is that people come on POF and take covers just like in real life... for what purpose God only knows.. May be they are compulsive liars or think everyone else is stupid...
 DA ROCC

Joined: 4/27/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:05:14 AM
when i was growning up girls said that boys was from jupiter and they get more stupidier...
 gtadaizee

Joined: 10/22/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:34:47 AM
OK what exactly is it that you don't 'get' about the differences (not battle) between the fairer gender and that other gender? All you really have to remember is that God is a she, that should unconfuse you easily.


I answer in gest, I'm definitely fine with the differences between the genders. I just have to find that man! People of both genders complicate the matter by trying to autopsy it.
 ramdael

Joined: 3/29/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:55:51 AM
i totaly get u when u say women r smarter ...even king Solomon said that and he was the wiseset human alive hahah...he had 1000 women to himself so i think he knew few things about women hey?...
 john.duke12

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 5:57:44 AM

i totaly get u when u say women r smarter


The average woman might be smarter than the average man and more cunning but the most cunning and intelligent people are men and always will be. Men will always be at the top and bottom of society whereas women are more likely to fall in the middle.
 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:01:43 AM
Women can be smarter and more cunning at times... HOWEVER women will NEVER rule the world because they simply can't get along with each other.. Could you imagine how dangersous women would be if they could learn to work TOGETHER instead of always drag'n each other down...
 Professional Lurker

Joined: 4/26/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:07:55 AM
Much as I hate to admit it Masked Hero, you are right. We've not been socialized to work together, but to see one another as competitors. In what, I'm not sure.
 gtomustang

Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:23:06 AM
"when i was growning up girls said that boys was from jupiter and they get more stupidier... "

dude, that's funny, did you pull it from Uranus?



'couldn't help it, did like the ryhme, tho :)
 PirateOB

Joined: 5/22/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:27:44 AM
The problem is women like to sand bag they let you think you're in charge. Who knew
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:46:08 AM
I caught my man with my smile! Then again who really knows what's behind my smile except me - Oh and my hubby now!! The prowess of a woman is very strong and the woman who knows how to use it is even stronger. She doesn't need to show her tits to attract a man. He is drawn to her regardless - because she has magic and it's that little twinkle in her eye that matches her smile!
 BorneoBabe

Joined: 12/3/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:51:19 AM
I tend to agree with your theory. How is it working for you?? I see the only bare chested shot is your profile picture. So I assume your just testing this theory of NUDITY SELLS??
 Melty Chocolate

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Posted: 6/24/2008 12:21:45 PM
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 xdamianax

Joined: 5/27/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2008 12:48:17 PM
Damn, gals, the guys are onto us now!!!

Quick... Plan "B"

 Blonde_charm

Joined: 9/18/2007
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Posted: 6/24/2008 1:19:24 PM
lol well there is no hiding my cleavage... hell I even put up my size (since generally speaking the most frequent emails I get are asking the size... cut down on my initial emails and am thankful I give the info up front). You are right, I am marketing myself!!!

And for those all high and mighty that love doesn't require a boob shot, guess what darlings.... I am not looking for love lol.

Women are manipulative by nature, mothering.... prime example. It's what we choose to do with this oh so special skill. Some use it for good, while others use it for naughty (me I suppose) and yet the last might use it for evil.

But OP, I see you are marketing yourself as well!!! Made me look.
 gtadaizee

Joined: 10/22/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2008 4:57:45 AM
So men are trained to get along and women aren't?????

Ever watched the British Parliament or the Korean Parliament? The latter actually get into physical fights and its not a pretty fight.

There are many success women leaders, especially in the northern hemisphere.

I think terms like "battle of the Sexes" contribute and prolong this fallicy. And ps if women get into a fight at least its more interesting that a hoard of men brawling and they represent the people!

I find this issue is often referred to by men who deep down are threatened by a female boss. You think Bill Clinton was the real president during his reign. Noway, it was Hiliary all the way. Oh and that's not an endorsement. Some people should NEVER be president regardless of their gender. but seriously
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 6/28/2008 1:02:35 PM

Hell!! she was right. I see it everyday... but its the small things that impress me. for example take at the 'TITS INCREASE HITS' theory. A very large proportion of woman will choose a profile picture showing anything from an enticing full cleavage shot to a full scale birdseye view.


Or perhaps they outsmart themselves. Women often complain that guys focus too much on tits, so what's the point of trying to attract hits from guys whose reason for looking is her tits? You get the kind of traffic that your advertising attracts.
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