| Cave man days, bring'em back
Posted: 6/25/2008 5:58:12 PM | It's been my experience that many women if not most women like an assertive, aggressive man. A man who can make decisions without asking his female partner what she thinks, what does she want to do or leaving the decision up to her. Back in the cave man days a man clubbed a girl over the head, took her to his cave and the rest ws history. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not in favor of clubbing anyone over the head except in self defense. But I do believe women want to be somewhat controlled in a limited way. If a man is trying to get with a woman, no matter how good looking he is it wil be hard for him if he doesn't step up to the plate. So, I guess in some weird, limited way women like the cave man way of doing things.
We need more of a caveman attitude!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:00:55 PM | Ummmm.......yeah. If a man can be that way...it would be nice to see for sure....but when he's sitting in the driver's seat while you're pushing the stalled car.....cavemen days...those days unfortunately are long, dead and gone...LOL | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:13:44 PM | A little old fashion is nice...but if anyone thinks they're going to knock me out... Look Out... | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:13:49 PM | I dislike aggressiveness in both men and women.
And I'm serious when I say that I would rather die than to be controlled by another.
And yes I know and I don't need to hear how I'm already being controlled by the media my boss yadayada...I KNOW that already.
That's probably why the mere thought of being controlled by an aggressive man in my own home is ridiculous?
I think I'll pass thank you.
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:13:56 PM | The only way I want to be controlled is if we're doing a little role playing in the boudoir and he's my Master. However.... what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom!
I will not be controlled again... I was to a degree.... and that is exactly the reason I'm single now.... because he tried to control me too much. Now, I'm willing to compromise and I'm willing to pick and chose my battles but a relationship is a partnership, IMO.... and that means both parties should be involved in all decisions.
Give me a caveman in the bedroom..... oh yeah..... but a caveman in the rest of the house is going to find his club shoved right up his arse.
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:19:32 PM | If you feel the need to control your partner, there is something wrong with you. Something inside of you is either missing or out of control. Don't you think you should fix that before swingging that club around?
The only way I want to be controlled is if we're doing a little role playing in the boudoir and he's my Master. However.... what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom!
However, there is nothing wrong with a little role playing.
Nice job libra | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:23:14 PM | Most men do not understand masculinity. They relate it to control and aggression.
Not going to work, OP. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:39:33 PM | Yup... that's what I need...
A man that will whack me over the head with a club and drag me off to his cave so I can spend the rest of my life in servitude.
*swoon* What more could a gal ask for?  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:46:53 PM | Agressive and self confident = sexy
Controlling will get your ass clubbed right out the door.  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:46:58 PM | Put on your loin cloth, get an inflatable club and see how many swoon under your battering appeal.
To the one that said of masculinity and its misunderstanding, many men? or many people?
All people seem equal in their capacity to misunderstand. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:49:28 PM |
A man that will whack me over the head with a club and drag me off to his cave so I can spend the rest of my life in servitude. MeThinks we should whack OP on his head ourselves and drag him off to Red's dungeon and show him, 'er brainwash him I mean..
No OP, not controlling and I think you need to omit the word "aggressive"......."assertive" yes, "aggressive", no.
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:53:35 PM | Um, yeah...ok...no.
Are you trying to somehow justify your controlling nature by trying to convince yourself that women want to be "controlled?" You try that out and let us know how that works out for ya, ok? | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:57:57 PM | Ha, I'm with ya Libra on this one.... Cavemen?? Good Lord !! Well, if that's what he wants..... more power to him. OP, in this day and time.. I doubt you will find a woman alive that will want to be treated like that. We ladies have come a long way from there in the equality thing ya know. That's a good thing too.
Ha, club me and I will return the favor !!!
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:59:33 PM |
All people seem equal in their capacity to misunderstand.
Fair enough. I concede to your statement. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:02:40 PM | Ok Ok, Op...... do you really believe there are women out there that want to be controlled????? Hmmmmm.... Good Luck then.
Really OP, most of us ladies would love a man that can stand on his own two feet. Just don't make all the decissions, we do like to be consulted on some stuff ya know.
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:05:41 PM | I can't resist....
Something inside of you is either missing or out of control. Don't you think you should fix that before swingging that club around?
Maybe it's his club that needs fixing hence the need to go all caveman like to grab a woman. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:08:27 PM | | Do you have any evidence of cavemen doing any of these things? That's cartoon stuff. Anytime you make such generalization you are bound to be wrong. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:09:32 PM | Oh I can see the manbats coming out tonight...........
OP ....You can take control while cooking the dinner, lighting the candles, and running the bath after that she takes charge of the whip, the handcuffs, and the manbat................and in the end it all equals out  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:10:06 PM | | Speaking of cave man days I've just started watching the mini-series Mad Men. It's scary to think men in the 60's thought and acted like that. Not to mention pregnant women smoking! | |
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| Cave man days, bring'em back
Posted: 6/25/2008 7:10:22 PM |
Do you have any evidence of cavemen doing any of these things? That's a cartoon stuff. Anytime you make such generalization you are bound to be wrong
I'm guessing he just watched his first episdode of the Flintstones but swtched channels before Wilma laid down the law. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:10:44 PM | And just how well has this Neanderthal attitude worked for you, dear OP?!
An assertive man is fine. One who thinks that his partner's opinion, wants and desires are of no importance in a relationship will not be on my interest radar.
The cave man days are long gone for a reason. May they RIP.
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:11:56 PM | See dude, you lost them all with the one word. "Control" I understand what you are saying and to a certain extent I agree. But, No one wants to be controlled.
Must be careful in the forums brother. Choose your words wisely. You notice that not alot has beend said to disagree with your overall statement but all comments have been directed at the use of That word. The new "C" word. Control was what the women's movement was all about anyway. | |
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