| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:07:34 AM | It's So refreshing to talk to a Lady that can discuss ANYthing....
Even Sexual issues..!!
Most people I work with are in their early-to-mid 20's...and talk about Sex...like 12-year-olds..!!
I like chatting with a _Lady_ . . that doesn't think that H0rny isn't a Dirty word !!
From Kissing to Cunni- . . . Real Adults are Open and Honest about their sexuality...
and should be able to have an Adult conversation...about their feelings, emotions and fantasies..!!! | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:18:16 AM | I am open to discussing sexual topics (yeah, I know.... big suprise!! ), but unfortunately there have been men that mistake my straightforwardness and honesty on the forums as an open door for cybersex.
~sigh~ Oh well..... I've not had one yet get pissy because I've let them know that that is not an option with me.
I enjoy having frank discussions about sexual topics as well, Namats.... we are sexual creatures afterall.... granted, some more than others.... to each their own! Using proper terminology and not giggling (as you said) like a 12 year old is important.... open discussions are wonderful and I've learned and shared a lot over the years.
Who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks????
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:31:42 AM | [???]
Oh!!...Would *Woof-Woof* be more appropriate..??
A little Adult Humor can be disarming and Break te Ice, too...!!
..something Adult Ladies Look for in a partner..!! | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:39:49 AM | If I had a middle aged co-worker that approached me and started a conversation with "ohhhh ****, I'm so horny", or " so, you guys got any sexual fantasies you want to share?" I'd be a little creeped out.
Did it ever occur to you that these people in their early/mid twenties , just don't want to talk about sex with you. It's creepy.
and btw, that's sexual harrasment. All it takes is one complaint and you could be out of a job. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 8:20:13 AM |
I am open to discussing sexual topics (yeah, I know.... big suprise!! ), but unfortunately there have been men that mistake my straightforwardness and honesty on the forums as an open door for cybersex.
Exactly. Same here. I can talk about sex like anything else - but when I don't know a man from Adam I like to keep it general (means I don't care what you like and it's not relevant what I like unless we meet, like each other or know each other well enough to do so)...
I also like to be able to switch gears and change the subject eventually - but I have yet to discuss sex with anyone that early on and then be able to talk about something else....most men just get stuck in that gear and stay there if I continue talking to them. It gets boring/predictable. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 11:42:52 AM | Young people take everything personally.
They think everybodys talking about them.
They think every topic is about them.
Mature people are able to step outside the personal and talk objectively about subjects.
Mature people know where they end and the rest of the world begins. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 12:02:11 PM | ..^5,'nip'...
I won't even respond to someone that can't read...
or those that make their own rules..in the middle of a game...
But, I appreciate the trust and honesty displayed by some nice letters I've received since
posting this..!!
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 12:09:45 PM | I'm glad most men (or at least the ones posting on this thread) understand what OP doesn't seem to be able to grasp!
Blechhhhhhh.......
That kind of juvenile, icky behavior first repels me, then starts just makin' me mad.
Who would have sex with these kinds of people?!! They shouldn't get any sort of encouragement. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 12:10:21 PM | I love cybersex, but you don't go straight in with "wanna have cybersex?"
Say hi, talk, ask about work, tell them they're pretty, just act interested.
It could take a while, but nothing worth having comes easy. You can tell if they're ok with it if you go light with "You're cleavage is big in your pic, hehe."
Her: "Naughty boy."
You: "Do you mind if I ask their size?"
Her: "No. They're D's."
You: "Wow"
Her: "What do you mean, Wow?"
You: "I could have some fun with those."
Her: "Oh, really. And what exactly would you do?"
You're in like Flynn. I've had some really good cyber. Women are filthy. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 12:13:30 PM | I'm agreeing with Fun FL: "as long as the conversation doesnt start off sexual".
Act like you're interested in what they're saying, then go sexual. Am I right, Fun FL? | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 12:53:11 PM | If you're 'Acting' interested....she'll probably see Right Through it...and start Testing you...
Then, you're in DEEP-Stuff..!!!
I'd really _Prefer_ to save the Personal stuff for a Face-to-Face conversation...
[I never mentioned Cyber-....did I??..Nor did I say that any 20-yr-olds discussed Sex...with ME...]
..but, if we're 900 miles apart...we can Still have a Frank[or Burt, or Jack, or Rick, or...]
Conversation about Many things...!
I like Kissing....Let's go from there..!!... | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:12:43 PM | | Again I'm with laughinglibra! My sexual openess has been like honey to bees for most men - who think they can get an explicit cyber chat from me! I simply think it's important to share sexual information to support & educate - especially for the very young and inexperienced who may be reading the forums! There are many confused and scared people out there when it comes so sex and sexuality - and body image! I would never say any of us are sexperts - but sharing is important none the less! | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:00:46 PM | | Well I, for one, have learned quite a bit from reading various posts on this topic by the ladies. I thought I was pretty well informed, but you all made it personal and that was very helpful. It is too bad that other men take your openness mean you are interested in cyber. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:07:37 PM |
Most people I work with are in their early-to-mid 20's...and talk about Sex...like 12-year-olds..! Ok, the question that begs to be asked now is "how do 12 year olds talk about sex?" | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:48:34 PM | as an adult,I prefer to have a sense of humour,when discussing sexual topics..butt not nasacelery all the time..I work with a much younger crowd than I am..if I do say something sexual,they look at me like and old perv.. ...butt again they know me very well...and get that it was funny...butt they don't get it cause,they have yet to experience the same kind of sexperience I have....which is just normal (lol) | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 7:05:52 PM | There is a time and a place for giggling like 12 years olds
as well as a deep discussions on Sexual Politics or forced circumcision
of women in Africa , yes ? The true art is in finding someone
whose timing fits with your own.
Adult Discussions may be wonderful , but that doesn’t mean we
can’t laugh like children over the joys that sex can bring.
For me , at least, there should be room for booth. | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/26/2008 9:10:09 PM | There y' Go..!!
~ Laughing like children...
Living like Lovers...
Rolling like Thunder...
Under the Covers...!!! ~
The only thing I left out of my initial post...!!
Thanx, 'esad'..!! . . ^5..!
- even if '...room for booth ' sounds a bit Canadian... ... | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/27/2008 4:20:04 AM | Hey laughing, some of these "old dogs" don't need to learn new tricks. They just need to learn to gauge whether or not a lady is ready, willing, or open to talking about sex.
Don't just jump into the subject willy-nilly. Read the signals. Then let the fun begin!!  
On the other hand, don't share your innermost fantasy with someone you couldn't imagine joining you in that fantasy! A long time ago I shared a sexual fantasy with my then boyfriend. Imagine my surprise when his best friend showed up a few hours later, keel over drunk and hoping to be the third party in my fantasy. Yuck!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Discussing Sexual topics.....like an _Adult_..!!
Posted: 6/27/2008 4:33:45 AM | We have earned the right to talk about anything as Adults..
We must have learned a thing or three along the way.
Trouble with a lot of adults they have not worked out they can let their hair down and live life to the max and its pleasures .. and if this is sex OK.. if its Ski diving OK.
Adults should have the maturity to communicate there needs and wants. | |
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