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 Synn
Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 1
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Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy ?

Ive read abit on here ...And have mixed feelings !!!!

What do you Ladies Think a MAN Sexy ???????????

What Attracts you to him....Eyes ? The way he dresses ?? Body Language ??

Let us guys KNOW... Me Anyways...

Oh and what makes you get those Goosebumps and Sweaty Palms

Thanks
 missie839303
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 2
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 2:49:43 PM
Self confidence is evident when you first meet a guy......that's really sexy to me. Not arrogance! After that it comes from within...usually right after he starts talking.



 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 3
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 3:44:50 PM
Well shucks....your pic there just done it for me! Heck of a good start buddy!
 PourSugarOnMe
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 4
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:01:20 PM
First off Synn YOU, are sexy as a MF....



Blue color men who like to take walks ,go biking and spend quiet moments with their partner... *palms are already sweaty*

Okay OT~ It could rain men right now and I'd be happy so I may get a little carried away with the post.. .. just warning you in advance.. ..you ask for it.

~SEXY MEN~
Their eyes
Their smile
Their scent
Their hard bodies
Their strength
The way their butt looks in a pair of tight jeans

A man is sexy as he*ll when he feels that he is sexy.. ..

A sexy man comes in all different shapes and sizes.. .. he could be tall dark and handsome or short stalky and gruff. His confidence and personality will spark the intitial attaction and his honor and dignity will keep the flame burning.. .. .. a simple sideways glance from a set of sultry eyes can do wonders to a woman's heart and imaganiation.. .. .. a little mystery will make us curious and wanting more. That sly little grin ,you know the one that just creeps up one side of you cheek and you show a little teeth with a slight head raise to jesture that you see us and want us to see you back.. .. that slow purposeful fisrt approach.. .. the scent that wiffs off your body and makes itS way to our senses before you do......that first touch of your flesh to our flesh. . . .just give me a man that looks good in his clothes no matter the label or the lack of one.. .. knows how to groom himself and has sweet breath and I'm saying "HELLO MR SEXY MAN YOU "
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 5
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 4:07:04 PM
^^^^ OH My God YES!! Keep pouring that sugar on Honey! Oh I like the idea of it pouring men here too. hehehehheeeeee You said it all. That is it. All tied up in a nice lil package. All men have this ability too.
 wishful
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 6
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 8:54:18 PM
There is something about a smile and eyes. Of course there are the blatantly sexy ones,... then there are the ones that people don't always notice. Personality always shows a sex appeal that you can't miss. There is one thing I don't find sexy. I have had this happen, and maybe I am oldfashioned, sexy guy, the look, open mouth and foul language spills out. Turn Off, I don't care how sexy the package is.
 wishful
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 7
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 8:57:22 PM
Oh yeah, sweaty palms? Ask about my car. There is a guy I am chatting with that figured that out in minutes! Might not work for all the ladies.
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 8
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 9:12:29 PM
(Pats his soft body) Hard bodies eh? Good bye to my chances.
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 9
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/7/2005 10:11:20 PM
^^^^^ LOL Now Jet. You must have a hard part there somewhere? hehehehe
 sarahb
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 10
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 5:57:58 AM
confidence, eyes, nice tight butt, the way they carry themselves....
 x4livin
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 11
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:42:55 AM
Beautiful smile(even joking), eye contact(honor), leadership style(gentle authority/confidence), nice arms(great hugs).

Goosebumps and sweaty palms....big hugs under stars....ok...maybe that's more a heart thing...

Goosebumps and sweaty palms huh? great cologne?
 Dell
Joined: 1/21/2004
Msg: 12
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 7:06:05 AM
Have to say that honesty, self confidence (not arrogance), decisiveness, courage, ability to trust, good hygiene (sp) are all really big turn ons for me.
 trshgll
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 13
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 8:32:33 AM
confidence
charisma
charm
and a warm genuine smile

....mmmm.... that is a sexy man!
 wishful
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 14
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 8:40:10 AM
Ah, Ruby, you are amazing! I know a Ruby and there must be something with the name! You have a great sense of humor!
 Synn
Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 15
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 8:42:21 AM
Wow ...You ladies seem to all have the same idea's......Thats kewl atleast were along the same PATH !!!!

Now Lets move this forward into a DATE !!!

What Body Language or Eye Movement or maybe even a Sentence Makes you Hottt for this New Romeo ????

Not all guys know what the next move is !!! Without putting our foot in our mouth How do we Stupid or Nervous MEN Know what to do next ???

No MAN likes rejection or wants to feel stupid making the next move .....
 aynie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 16
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 9:05:18 AM
I saw a man yesterday, that I HAD to stop and stare at....and then I was embarrassed. He was tanned, kinda sweaty, 5 O'clock shadow over a thin mustash, white T-shirt and blue jean shorts....just enough body hair, and sunglasses, OH, and he was HOT HOT HOT. I like big beefy guys, and he was smaller, but nice in every area. I think he heard me say "Holy Sh*t".... and he drove a truck
 sarahb
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 17
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 11:30:48 AM
it's all about attitude
 greeneyeskes
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 18
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 2:46:14 PM
hmm good question. I say the eyes have it first. Then nice teeth and nice hair. I would also have to go with clean appearance. Rugged is ok as long as its not dirty. I prefer dark hair and blue eyes. Personality would be assertive, bold (in a good way) fun, respectful, positive. I think negative people are a real turn off. So thats it for me
greeneyeskes
 sweetpntx
Joined: 10/28/2004
Msg: 19
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 3:10:44 PM
These ladies have pretty much said it all! mmm love sexy men! On a date? Well, it's so nice when a man has his full attention on me! Great conversation, humor, charm, honesty, intelligence are all things that would make me want a second date! He should know how to dress for the occassion whether it be for a hike or a dinner theater... ok.. and when to not be dressed at all! hehehe I had to say it. LOL and.. yes Synn.. you seem to fit that description quiet well!
 bluerunningbunny
Joined: 11/12/2004
Msg: 20
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:21:02 PM
what body language?

a big grin that lights up his whole face & suggests he's thinking of something mischevious

making eye contact for a hint longer than normal

compliments are ALWAYS good - but they can't be cheesy "lines" - just a genuine simple compliement

next move/ depends where the meeting is - an offer of coffee or beer is an easy opener - keep it casual if you're not sure!
 RapunzelRapunzel
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 21
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:45:22 PM
What, you need more research? You could already write the book on sexy, if your pic is any indication.

What do I think is sexy? Well, I've dated young, old, body builders, middle aged accountants, lithe twenty somethings with the bods of teenagers. Short hair, long locks, blonde, black, brunette. Most ethnicities. I've never had a type, per se, though I am partial to Latinos. Sexy, though, crosses all boundaries.

A sexy man to me has his own sense of style, he knows how to dress to fit his personality. It can be Urban Cowboy (but NOT redneck baseball cap and sleeveless t-shirt) or L.L. Bean or Metrosexual (a date last week showed up in a peach colored Pierre Cardin madras shirt and I am SO going out with him Friday, yum!) or corporate suit and interesting tie. He should smell good. He should be very in tuned to whether or not I want to be touched, shouldn't assume and grab my hand across the table, should watch my body language and listen to my cues (I don't play games, I'm so transparent I'm Mrs. Cellophane.) He should have a wry view of the world. No "issue-oriented" political junkies please. It's okay to have a passion, just don't make everything a debate. He should love his mother, kids, even respect his Ex. He should feel the world owes him anything. Instead he conquers it with joy and shares in the benefits. He should be confident but not blindly arrogant. He should communicate beyond the level of Caveman 101. He can cry at movies but not cry at every disagreement, especially as a way to fake me off that he really has no intention of following through, but will bemoan the cause to make himself look good. LOL! Oops, sorry, ancient history creeping in.

And the number one thing - he should never ever really be aware of how sexy he is.

Rap
 WickedZoot
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 22
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:54:58 PM
Confidence makes a man sexy. Aint got nothing to do with looks either.

Goosebumps and Sweaty Palms? The "Ping." Just being so into that person that you can't stop thinking about them when you aren't with them and you get that dropping-elevator feeling in your stomach every time you think about kissing them and you are sitting at your computer at work feeling all ditzy and goobery, even though you know you are supposed to be concentrating.

Okay....that's enough to answer your questions...off to take a shower. LOL
 Dell
Joined: 1/21/2004
Msg: 23
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:57:30 PM
Thanks for that Zoot! lol You been peeking?
 RapunzelRapunzel
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 24
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/8/2005 6:57:45 PM
Oops, meant to say "He should NOT feel the world owes him anything."

The actions or words that get to me, Synn? Well, depends on the guy of course, but I like someone who looks deep into my eyes when we converse, who leans in if I lean in, who tickles the inside of my forearm as we talk about nothing in particular. Someone who talks about everything, not just sex. I hate sex talkers. So boring. Flirting doesn't have to be about sexual positions, ya know? And if he gets up the courage to kiss me, no tongue the first time. Just a nibble and a nuzzle, perhaps our noses rub. A man turns me on so much more by holding back and just tasting the moment like great food or wine. If a man passes the kiss test, he's on second base already. He should be a cuddler not a groper. There is a big difference, and most men haven't learned that.

The Peach Madras shirt guy kissed my neck and I actually got the high school shiver. This guy is well put together, but not nearly as gorgeous as my "Friend With Benefits" here in town. But I have never gotten that shiver with FWB. It's all in the technique. I can't comment on the sincerety of it cause this guy could end up one big player but I'm just saying, as far as sexy and turning me on, he had it goin' on!

Rap
 ticky
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 25
Well Ladies What Makes a Man Sexy
Posted: 6/14/2005 3:42:31 AM
HIS PERSONALITY.. the way he moves...intelligence...looks are just that something to look at..i have met men that have GQ looks..but it there attitude is bad they appear ugly to me..i alway find kindness..a good sense of humor..to be sexy...as well as nicely dressed and smellin pretty...
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