| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:30:13 PM | | Ok heres my problem i have no problems getting it up the act of putting one turns me off and and the sensation with one on is a turn off. So if im to have casual sex how do i over come this. I'm sure that there are others out there that might have a solution to my Dalema. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:45:15 PM | Practice, practice, practice..
How about having her put it on.. using her mouth..
Try a different brand of condom.. some are thinner then others and transmit the heat and sensations better. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 3:57:21 PM | Really! Really!????
ok kiddo. while I cannot deny that unprotected sex feels like nothing else in the world (chocolate vanilla bean swirl creme brulee aside). There are freaking alternatives. number 1. Lube is an under used device. That warming stuff plus one of those super thins... AMAZING.
Go to your local drug store
try some different things out
make a night of it.
she'll like it
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 7:55:37 PM |
Practice, practice, practice..
^^^ Best advice possible.
Practice by using condoms while masturbating. Get used to putting them on (properly) and wearing them. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 8:02:51 PM | Sweetness...
You already have 2 kids so I'm gonna guess you did find a way round that dilemma...
Most of the people have said try different brands. I second that and just ask that you DO use a condom of some sort. Casual sex as a goal is fine...but there's way too much out here to risk going without a condom. More kids isn't even the issue, it's the rest of it that I'd be worried about.
Oh, and a big thing is to take your time. If you're trying to rush and put a condom on, then you're rushing, frustrated and that will easily deflate things...
Good luck! | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 8:03:04 PM | | OP, I've heard that one way to resolve this dilemma is to wear a condom when you masturbate. Doing so acclimates you to the difference in sensation, and with familiarity comes more comfort. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 8:10:41 PM | Dude... You may be using a condom that is too small for you. I remember back when Magnums came out, I never thought of myself as large, but then when I tried them( a buddy gave me one at a moment in which I needed it...) I found that it was just what I needed. Yeah, rubbers suck, but I found with the Magnum that sensati0n was better, probably because I had better circulation in my Johnson without it being compressed by a too-small raincoat, lol. The "intervaginal'' feeling of "surroundedness" was more intense, too, and I suspect it was because the butcher hadn't "shrink-wrapped" the meat!
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 9:25:18 PM | Dude! I tried one of those weirdass plastic rubbers once. Those things are for pencildix! Stuff doesn't stretch like latex does, once I got it on, I thought never get it back off, lol. When I reached down to guide it in, I felt like I was grabbing a corpse's woody!
-Damon- | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 9:32:59 PM | Here are some options...
- Don't have sex.
- Only have sex with one woman forever.
- Get used to the 75% feeling the condom gives or the 100% no pleasure NOT having sex will give.
There is no casual sex without condoms. You are putting your partners in danger as well as yourself. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 9:37:35 PM | How do you get around it!?
Gaah.
Well, you could try other contraceptives, but the remaining problem is still that you won't be protected from STDs.
Maybe there's a more comfortable brand that you haven't tried yet.... but if you're having casual encounters, I would think that it would be a horrendously bad idea to nix it entirely... | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 9:51:29 PM | | The solution is: Get used to the idea of spending time at the clinic and that fewer women will have sex with you, expecially if they find out you make frequent visits to the clinic. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 10:17:46 PM | They do make female condoms, which might be a good option for you.
And, the female condom can be inserted up to 8 hours (thats right, I did my research) before intercourse, so you don't have to "ruin the moment" or whatever other excuse you might use. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 10:25:36 PM |
And, the female condom can be inserted up to 8 hours (thats right, I did my research) before intercourse, so you don't have to "ruin the moment" or whatever other excuse you might use.
Wow... Bad visual of sliding my finger into a Hefty Cinch-sack and wondering what the hell I had just touched,lol! Wrinkling my brow all up and going, "WTF?!"
Tell me- what happens if you're taking a walk in the moonlight and stop to make out, it gets hot and heavy and you get real wet... I reach down there and think I've just grabbed some leaky Tupperware...?
Ewwww!
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/29/2008 10:31:17 PM |
Wow... Bad visual of sliding my finger into a Hefty Cinch-sack and wondering what the hell I had just touched,lol! Wrinkling my brow all up and going, "WTF?!"
Tell me- what happens if you're taking a walk in the moonlight and stop to make out, it gets hot and heavy and you get real wet... I reach down there and think I've just grabbed some leaky Tupperware...?
Ewwww!
I'm hoping that if someone was comfortable enough with you that she was anticipating having sex with you that far in advance that she would also be comfortable enough with you to warn you ahead of time. | |
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| How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 6/30/2008 4:52:25 AM | Im convinced condoms are an evil creation by the Nazis leftover from the 2nd World War. Ive tried everything thats been suggested here (and more!) and flat-out nothing works. So for me, casual sex is simply not an option. Ive only had a very few partners, all within the confines of a relationship. For some of us, it really is the only option.
Until they finally invent the male pill. Id be all over that if someone made it!!!! | |
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