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 sarsss

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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:27:04 AM
I have read that from male’s prospective anal sex is more pleasurable than vaginal sex because anus is tighter and because it stimulates prostate for male receivers…definitely, anus visually looks tighter than vagina, even though it is just the entrance that looks tighter in non-urged state and not sure about its size in other states…

Do you prefer anal sex over vaginal and why you do or don’t?
 TheStefano

Joined: 6/15/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:26:29 AM
Very different sexual experiences in several ways, why choose?
 laughinglibra

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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:33:54 AM
I have read that from male’s prospective anal sex is more pleasurable than vaginal sex because anus is tighter and because it stimulates prostate for male receivers…



Huh??? You're asking whether anal is better than vaginal and then state it's because it stimulates the prostate for male receivers?? Sorry.... that statement struck me as quite funny!

I obviously can't give you a man's perspective, but from my point of view, it truly depends on the moment. Each produces completely different orgasms and it also depends on whether we're in the mood for the *f*ck-me-erotically* kind of sex or *slow-sensuous-and-loving* kind of sex.


EDIT to aguy2laff VVVVVV....... the OP is female.

 newblue1970

Joined: 3/7/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:41:33 AM
Uh... having anal sex on a woman doesnt have anything to do with the prostate on a man. You might need to read a little more about how things work down there.

As for the question, yes I prefer anal sex. It is such an intimate, erotic and still 'forbidden' act that really gets me off, even without the extra tight feeling. My partner has to be really into it though; any sense of real pain or discomfort from her an I lose my excitement for it.

I could NEVER give up vaginal sex, but there's something extra special about anal.
 aguy2laff

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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 5:45:03 AM
i also found the question unusual when i saw the prostrate stimulation remark. maybe it's something he learned while serving time? or, is this a question meant for bisexual men?
 x Tyler Durden x

Joined: 3/30/2008
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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 6:02:22 AM
Ive done that with 3 girls. 2 of the girls grabbed my member and put it in thier butt, I prefer vaginal so I'd take it out after a while and put it in the designated hole. Its nice to do anal but vaginal is better IMO
 BlondeDesertRat

Joined: 6/23/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:14:35 AM
Hahaha, how am I the only one who noticed that is says "male recievers"? yes there is the equivilant to the male clitoris inside the anus, would any straight male go as far as to stimulate it? probably wouldnt be straight then.

As to the concieved question, Ive never found it all that tabboo, and admittedly dont have any in depth experience pertaining to anal, but I think I prefer vaginal. Plus the pornstars that stretch it all out and just have this gaping orrifice turned me off good before even starting having sex.
 Tim61

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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:28:39 AM
Yuk !!! Ewww !!! I'm NOT into ANAL at all NO WAY !!! why do Guys want to go there as I certainly Don't !!! Want TO !!! I'm Very Happy with Normal Vaginal Sex with a Woman.

But eh each to there own BUT NOT FOR ME Thanx

Tim
 deerdog1

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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:33:17 AM
though i have tried anal sex on a couple occasions ..i just dont see the point...i guess its like all other positions /variations as well as oral sex ...for me anyway... its all good ..BUT its hard to beat good old face to face.... double lip lock ...penis in vagina ..sweat running down the crack of your butt ..if we were any closer I'd be behind you ..missionary position ...yea i like a little variety ...but i find that these games and positions are just foreplay ...I almost always end up finishing in the missionary position ...and when two people are in tune and can cum simultaneously /together in this position ...well thats just about as good as it gets ...well except for laying there in a puddle of sweat and other juices... quivering from the after glow... still intertwined.. smelling the sweet aroma of two peoples love mixed together

another thingy I dont get ..is this tight thing.....I have had lots of women by most standards... in my long life ...and i have never ...never been with a woman that her vagina was so loose as to cause a problem ...as a mater of fact when a woman loosens up and is dripping wet and melting hot ...that is when sex is at it's best JMO
 edster1224

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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:39:12 AM
I won't say that I prefer anal over vaginal, but it is a great change of pace from time to time. And yes, it typically is tighter, but usually too tight which is why most women I've known don't like it. In addition a woman's p***y can get really wet and lose after playing, fingering, licking, sucking and screwing it for quite awhile.

Ed
 laughinglibra

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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:40:35 AM
Hahaha, how am I the only one who noticed that is says "male recievers"? yes there is the equivilant to the male clitoris inside the anus, would any straight male go as far as to stimulate it? probably wouldnt be straight then.


First off, you need to actually read the other posts before standing up and hollering "Look at me!! I'm the only one that noticed this!!"

Secondly..... just because a man may enjoy his prostate being stimulated by a woman, that does not make him a homosexual. What it does make him is comfortable with his own sexuality to know that it is an amazing way to heighten the erotic experience.

OT: Obviously, the answer the OP is seeking is completely dependant on the person who answers..... some love it, some don't..... plain (or maybe not so 'nilla! ) and simple.


OMG... deerdog...... it's getting really hot in here!!


 deerdog1

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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:50:47 AM
yea laughing ...i myself got warmed up writing that post also... and t wasn't planed pornography ..it just kinda flowed out that way ...sometimes i get way too involved in these forums...im either going to have to get out of these forums.... or get laid one or the other LOL
 nightbird12

Joined: 6/2/2008
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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 7:02:00 AM
I can't say that I perfer one over the other. I have tried both, and most times
it depends on the lady your with and how she feels about it.
 Namats III

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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:14:42 AM
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 newblue1970

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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:17:56 AM
Deerdog - I'm sure LL knows this but that intensely erotic and sensual missionary position coupling you describe can also be done with anal sex. There's nothing like beign face to face, looking a woman right in the eyes, mouths open, lip biting, heavy breathing, sweat dripping as you slowly penetrate her backside! Mmmmm... its what good orgasms are made of!

All she has to do is tilt her pelvis up a bit more. Highly recommended!
 HarleyKat~

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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:43:38 AM
Why choose? LOL I would have to say all of the above, with several others thrown in as well! ;)

LaughingLibra...LOL...set that boy straight! ;O)

I think the OP is actually rather confusingly written...as if the poster is saying that anal sex with a female, stimulates the male prostate?! Maybe she got her info mixed up? To get to that glorious spot...you don't have to be homosexual, for cripes sake! Try a little anal play...not neccessarily taking your lovers dildo or rushing out and buying hamsters and PVC!

I appreciate different strokes for different folks...but when you have such hang ups about something that is perfectly normal...you sound ignorant.
 deerdog1

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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:48:30 AM
newblue like i said ...Its all good ...and if thats what you and your woman like then go for it ...it was asked which I perfer anal or vaginal sex ...I answered that i will take whats behind door number 1 ....and my reasons for it is that for me the closeness of vaginal sex in the missionary position is what i crave ...if you get that from having sex hanging from your toes i wish you many returns ...but the op asked what did it more for me ..i wasn't debating i was just answering the question .regards


hamsters and PVC ????.....cant compete with that
 myopinion

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Posted: 7/1/2008 7:56:21 AM
I can't decide, can I choose both. Heheheh!!
 swingpup

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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:06:07 AM
Providing Anal sex to a woman compared to being hit by a truck....let me seriously think about that one.
Anal sex compared to vaginal sex? It's vaginal sex 100%. Why? Anal sex is a dangerous practice from a medical prospective, do a little basic research and you'll certainly discover why.
 newblue1970

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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:15:10 AM
Deerdog - yes, you're right - it IS all good. I was just offering up that the fantastic position/scene you described can be enjoyed with both types of sex.

Swingpup - Dangerous? Carefully practiced anal sex is no more dangerous than any other type of sexual activity.
 HarleyKat~

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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:21:58 AM

Providing Anal sex to a woman compared to being hit by a truck....let me seriously think about that one.
Anal sex compared to vaginal sex? It's vaginal sex 100%. Why? Anal sex is a dangerous practice from a medical prospective, do a little basic research and you'll certainly discover why.


Ummm...I guarantee that, from a medical prospective, they will say getting hit by a truck is not a wise choice, either! ;)

Seriously...if you don't like it, then don't do it. But to act as if it is unhealthy, dangerous, or abnormal...is ridiculous!

Condoms, plenty of lubrication, practice/skill, patience, etc....and it is perfectly safe! I would strongly suggest removing any piercings from a man, prior to! But other than that...
 Pleasurelimits

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Do you prefer anal over vaginal sex?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:23:02 AM
The 'taboo' by society about anal sex just makes it interesting and if the lady likes it then go for it with a bit of discussion, before, during and ultimately while climaxing. It's all 'great' but never will replace vaginal sex when your lady is brought slowly to the boil with oral, penetration, leaving your enraged member pressed against her clit heating everything up then after she has cum she might just ask you to roll her over and f*** her in the but and that blows that mount JMO
 Pleasurelimits

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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:24:17 AM
The 'taboo' by society about anal sex just makes it interesting and if the lady likes it then go for it with a bit of discussion, before, during and ultimately while climaxing. It's all 'great' but never will replace vaginal sex when your lady is brought slowly to the boil with oral, penetration, leaving your enraged member pressed against her clit heating everything up then after she has cum she might just ask you to roll her over and f*** her in the butt and, that blows that mount JMO
 secret_agent_thing

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Posted: 7/1/2008 8:33:45 AM
This is one of those questions you can ask ten times and get ten different answers, different strokes for different folks I guess (literally). Never done the backdoor thing myself honestly, I always figured I'd cause too much discomfort for the girl and they weren't exactly gung ho about the idea either so I never thought much about it. If the girl didn't mind it though and was comfortable with it I don't see how there would be any benefit for either. It may be a little tighter (which could vary girl to girl) but in the end it's going to be all about the fact that as long as it satisfies her a hole is a hole (not to sound crass or anything).
 Kindredspirit07

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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:52:43 AM
I love to have my prostate stimulated- NOT! Probably because I don't have one either. It was a funny slip up though, op.

No, I don't prefer anal over vaginal as I think it's painful and disgusting. Personally, it's a big turnoff for me if the guy is into that kind of sex and pretty much a deal breaker.

Tyler Durden- Performing vaginal sex after anal is a definite no, no. Think about it, you are putting your dick in her ass, now you have shite on your dick and are inserting it into her vagina. I don't understand why people don't realize how unsanitary and gross that is. Great way to get a bladder or yeast infection!
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