| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 9:38:15 AM | This might sound very odd, but I've noticed that women who turn their head at an angle in photos, tilting it one way or another, are more often more shallow in real life.
I've observed that women who post pictures of them taking their own picture in a mirror with a flash camera tend to be more introverted and odd in real life.
Women with a lot of pictures in sunglasses are covering something up. If there's one pic with sunglasses and others without, they aren't.
My observations are based on people I've seen online (particularly here) and what they're like when I meet them in real life. Generally any more when I see a woman picture with a bunch of tilted head big smile pictures I think this woman's potential trouble, very self-absorbed.
The people I tend to pick and try to go out with don't so much do "model poses" - they just let their picture get taken, smiling or not.
Wondered what other people's experiences are. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:11:40 AM | That's interesting. I know a tilted head is either supposed to be flirtacious (or a sign of interest), or show confidence.
I'll agree with the sunglasses part, though that experience had nothing to do with the internet and was quite a shock.
For me, I used to do school photos in september for extra money, and we made all the kidlets tilt their heads to some extent. It's more flattering to have your head turned about 3/4 and with a slight tilt | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:31:37 AM | wow - op, judgmental much? lol
Here I thought I was just a positive happy person who's usually smiling and laughing - I hardly have photos of myself not smiling. I had no idea this equals shallow and self -absorved.
Op - you should try smiling, it feels good, really it does, lol
I've heard it all now... | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:35:28 AM | Wouldn't the meaning be more likely found in the pictures they choose to post, rather than the way they pose (or didn't)? Not everyone has lots of pictures to select from--which is a whole other topic (they don't have any friends with cameras?). But won't most people pick the photos they think are most flattering? Or that are the most fun for others to look at?
—Ms. Flis | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:45:37 AM | So, what does it mean that I have my picture up on my profile where I am posing with a life-sized model of the Simpson family…a promotional display in the lobby of the movie theater before the big movie hit?
Or with my first guide dog that died last year?
Just wondering. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:48:53 AM |
This might sound very odd, but I've noticed that women who turn their head at an angle in photos, tilting it one way or another, are more often more shallow in real life.
I think that this is more of an "artistry" or "composition" issue, as opposed to "shallowness" (there are dozens of other things that are more suggestive of being shallow). Look at a piece of artwork, be it a painting, a sculpture, or even an artistic photograph. They are always more interesting, and look more casual (less stiff or "posed") if a person's head is turned.
I've observed that women who post pictures of them taking their own picture in a mirror with a flash camera tend to be more introverted and odd in real life.
Possibly, but "introverted" is "sexy"...lol. There is nothing *less* attractive than a person who tries to be the center-of-attention in a gathering of people.
Women with a lot of pictures in sunglasses are covering something up.
That seems to be more of a case of "vanity" than covering something up. But, "vanity" is worse than the "Seven deadly Sins" - combined.
One thing that you did not mention, which is a huge red-flag about less-than-desirable qualities, is someone (male or female) posing with a beer in their hand...lol. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:50:03 AM |
Women with a lot of pictures in sunglasses are covering something up. Their eyes?
My picture reveals that I have a deep seated fear of being blinded by a June bug at 70 MPH. If I was brave or cavalier and an outlaw to boot, I would not wear sunglasses while riding a motorcycle. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:55:00 AM | I see it as more of what they are wearing or not as a clue to their personalities.
A woman who has alot of revealing pics and model poses is prob very much
self centered and interested only in internet validation,so I usually skip these.
Then I see if the pic matches the prof info,if it doesn't it's prob a fake account. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 10:55:31 AM | Hmm
From my experience, having my head tilted in a picture probably means one of my children were trying to take my picture and kept cutting off my head in the process and I was trying to "shrink" a bit. Absolutely nothing shallow about that.
The only thing I think I would get from a picture of a woman who took her own photo in the mirror is that her camera doesn't have a timer shot on it, or she feels a bit weird having someone just snap her picture to post on the net -nothing introverted or odd about that.
As far as women with sunglasses in a lot of pictures, perhaps they just really like the outdoors and are protecting their corneas from UV rays. It IS summer time you know.
The same goes for men who have hats on in all the pictures, doesn't mean they are bald (of course doesn't mean they aren't etiher).
My thinking is that you have just met a lot of women that aren't your cup of tea. Judging a book by its cover (or w oman from her photo) seems a bit silly to me. You may be passing up a great catch! | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 11:05:01 AM | OP, I agree with a few others, regarding the attitude of yours that shows through with that post.
I think that the "poses" you talk about can potentially have many meanings, vs. branding them all negatively as you have done.
One might ask just what your qualifications are for making these conclusions? I don't see any PhD in psychology or behavioral analysis in your background. And I don't think generalizing from a handful of women you've (tried to) date qualifies you.
This is just yet another ridiculous generalization, no better than any of the other "all women are ______" or "all men are _______" ones you see here all too often. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 2:53:37 PM | Didn't know you needed a degree to post questions here, DallasFlier. Is that in the bylaws or something?
I pointed out what I've noticed in pictures relating to PEOPLE I HAVE MET. If that wasn't clear, then it should be now.
The one particular photo style I wonder about is women who very obviously tilt their head forward or****it to the side when they know their picture is being taken. I've noticed that a lot here but in retrospect I don't remember dating anyone with a pic like that.
I've also learned from experience that overweight women take pictures smiling up at the camera and focus on their face. Can't blame them - everyone wants to look as good as possible - but I wondered about what other folks have noticed. Note I said "people" in the post, though, not women.
Some people have short fuses when these things are mentioned, which is revealing. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:01:41 PM | I like pnutshell's answer about the kids. Never considered that, but the pictures of head tilt I had in mind were mostly taken at parties from what I could tell. I found a couple of articles that could be very relevant, particularly this quote from this one (Ss means subjects I believe) -
http://psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=main.doiLanding&uid=2001-17163-005
There was a positive relationship between the general attractiveness evaluation of Ss and the rating of each shot for both self and others. 71% of Ss exhibited head canting, possibly the result of a sense of embarrassment and discomfort usually experienced in a photographic setting.
This one's also interesting -
http://www.springerlink.com/content/j7177600v5541071/ | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:09:59 PM | hmmmmmmm. This is very interesting. I hope you don't think I am shallow because of the pictures on my profile. I am probably the most down to earth girl in town.
Now, I will say this... what is up with men thinking they need to have pics with no shirts on? I really find it humorous when they have their shirt half off. but the kicker was the guy in his underwear looking for long term... long term what? Infections???? Now I know I am being terribly judgmental but... I think that the red flag is definitely what people are or are not for that matter wearing.
Please- and I am not asking this for validation, but if anyone thinks any of my pics are indicators of red flag rising... let me know. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:16:27 PM | my picture shows confidence and cool woman,im not shallow. and yes, i do drink and party what's wrong with drinking if you knew to drink responsibly?
My job is stressful , i deserve to treat myself after working 12 hours(its a long day,ya know).
Probably some people wear sunglasses because they are not comfortable exposing themselves here.
I dont judge people the way they pose in thier picture--thats too shallow. I will assess people through thier character once i meet them for a long time.
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:19:04 PM |
but I've noticed that women who turn their head at an angle in photos, tilting it one way or another, are more often more shallow in real life.
Of course, some women wear glasses and take their pictures with a webcam. If they don't tilt their heads at a certain angle, the monitor reflects in their glasses and obscures their eyes.
Ol' shallow Gwen observes that men who post pictures of themselves standing, hands in pockets, kinda wait around on corners thinking of generalized topics to posts in forums on POF. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:19:19 PM |
This might sound very odd, but I've noticed that women who turn their head at an angle in photos, tilting it one way or another, are more often more shallow in real life
I find that one of my sides of my face photographs better and you look a bit more attractive (sometimes) if your head is angled. I don't know what you mean when you say tilted but tucking your chin under doing a photo is just more attractive.
I don't think I'm shallow at all. I've just figured out how to pose for a camera so that it captures my face at the best angle. True most pics are better when you don't realize you're being photographed. I tend to take my own so they aren't as 'fun'.
Paula | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:32:58 PM | Will someone please validate me???????????????
OMG really ...if you were looking at driver license pictures and saying these things then I would say you might be on to something but alot of people only have limited ways to have pictures taken...ie my daughter took mine...the way she is used to taking picures for her and her friends myspaces...nothing to special about it, she was looking thru the lense not me. I was just happy to have a few minutes of her time and most of the time it was one picture of me and then 4 or 5 of herself until we both started laughing and that was when she got the best picture of me...
Sunglasses...your choice squinty eyes or the shades..go for the shades. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:48:07 PM | OP.... does a pic pose give a clue as to one's mentality? Well, certainly it MIGHT, but I think you probably are referring to a person's personal outlook and perspectives (personality) rather than their actual mental state.
I feel anyone has the right to pose in whatever fashion they choose (within the framework of this website's rules, of course). Tilt your head, lie seductively on a sofa or bed, or in whatever "come hither" pose you wish. I won't judge you. Cheesecake shots? Not a problem. Lying half naked on a Harley or wrapped in nothing but a boa constrictor. Makes no diff to me.  
However, if you do opt for a playful, suggestive/salacious, flirtatious pose in your pic(s), while simultaneously describing yourself (in the profile) as demure, shy, old-fashioned, conservative, please don't be surprised if you get accused of sending "mixed signals."
Indeed, I observed one attractive lady (won't mention names) with a series of photos in her profile, a couple of which depict her posed on a sofa simulating--or at least what may be inferred as--an autoerotic act. This lady apparently has 1700+ guys tagging her as a favorite (Gee I wonder why?). Nevertheless, she narrates in her profile "Please, all you guys bombarding me with nasty propositions--I will not respond! I am not that kind of girl!".
Now if I WERE to judge this person's "mentality", it would not be based on her photo but on her lack of insight/perspective as reflected in her words.
TJ | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:17:53 PM | Hmm, I wonder if I'm shallow...I tilt my head in my pictures, but I am also near my books. Could I be a shallow bookworm? Maybe I only read the beginning and endings of books? There are so many layers to this...oh...layers would mean there is something below the surface. I guess I don't fall in the shallow catagory.
I think OP you are overthinking this one. | |
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| Does the way people pose in photos reveal their mentality?
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:33:22 PM | "I've observed that women who post pictures of them taking their own picture in a mirror with a flash camera tend to be more introverted and odd in real life."
I have seen a lot of guys do this, but I assumed they had no friends to take the pic. | |
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