| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:17:42 PM | | I know women like oral sex and intercourse using different positions for having orgasms. But the last 2 girlfriends I had said that they usually had orgasms when they (themselves) or their partner used the 'O' technique as I call it. They both described that I take my finger and put it on the clitoris and make little circles on it and around it (usually in a counterclockwise motion). I did as they described and after a little while they had a terrific orgasm. I asked one girl, how about if I write the alphabet on your clit - starting with A, then B then C ... - she said you can make any letters you want as long as their 'O's'. They both said it was harder for them to have orgasms with oral sex or intercourse, but the manual (finger) 'O' technique always works for them. Anyone else have this experience? I've had one girlfriend who could usually come thru intercourse and a couple who could only come thru oral sex, but the last 2 girlfriends both enjoyed the 'O' technique best. I'd be interested to know women's opinions on what turns them on most in having orgasms with their partners. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:44:34 PM | | Bottonsone1, yes that makes sense. Thanks, I learned something. Why are people in Canada so sexually open and knowledgeable (seems like people, from Canada, who respond to these forums are a little more sexual and/or understand and have insiteful answers to sexual questions and experiences). Is the environment different in Canada than the US (I know Europe is different, but I never thought about Canada in that way). | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:49:35 PM | Yeah, that's interesting. Maybe you could try some classical conditioning.
Recite the alphabet slowly, while doing the O thing, so the alphabet gets to O the same time she gets to O.
After a while maybe simply reciting the alphabet will do the trick for her.
Then you could get more inventive. Like saying the alphabet slowly, or saying two letters quickly or what will probably be her favorite ....
M M MN MN MN N N N N OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:55:44 PM | | Try this use your left hand, 'fingers', using the O technique and use two of your right hand fingers, as far in as you can, making a come here motion ie: rapidly bending them towards the palm but be ready for the flood of Noah type proportions. This is a learned technique but once mastered 'look out' nothing better than making a woman squirm with pleasure before the uncontrolled flood | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 4:56:47 PM | | I really think that a big part of sex is in the head. If I am really into a man, and I don't mean just physically, I really do mentally, I want him to want me, I want him to touch me and I want to do the same to/with him. I am old school, I guess, I want to make love, I don't do just sex. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:30:12 PM | | The reason Canadians are more knowledgeable when it comes to sex and relationships is because we have so many orgies. There, now the secret's out. Come to Canada. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:46:08 PM | Justem, I agree. The sex with my current beau is the best I've ever had, still, after 15 months. And I think its because I really care strongly and deeply for him in an emotional way that I havent felt with anyone else.
And I think its really sad for these girls if they get the best sex from fingers!!! I dont mind finger or tongue foreplay, or even cumming from it occassionally... but when all is said and done, I want a penis in me. That will give me the kind of satisfaction nothing else can. I think its equally weird when women get into toys more than their men. Must not have very good men! Toys, fingers, whatever else can be fun to play with... but I want to feel HIM inside me more than anything else. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:57:09 PM | one of the most common mistakes i see guys make is they think that one magic technique will work for every woman.
every woman is different! just because a technique worked on girl "A" and "B" doesnt mean it will work on girl "C".
if she cant just flat out tell you what she likes best (some women just feel shy talking about it at first), watch her masturbate herself to an orgasm so you can see what technique she prefers, then replicate that with your finger/tongue. some like an O, some like a figure 8, some like side to side or up and down.
theres no perfect move for all girls, but there is a move perfect for the girl youre with.
BTW, proper preparation of her mood and body before ever even getting down to that area can sometimes make an even bigger difference in success than the technique itself. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:58:21 PM |
The reason Canadians are more knowledgeable when it comes to sex and relationships is because we have so many orgies. There, now the secret's out. Come to Canada.
You weren't supposed to tell. I must alert the mounties that the secret is out.
We have to do it like bunny rabbits in Canada, it is the only source of heat. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:02:44 PM |
We have to do it like bunny rabbits in Canada, it is the only source of heat.
why do Canadians always have sex doggystyle?
so they can both watch the hockey game! | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:19:14 AM | I think you need to refer to the thread
"Squirting..can it be learned"....this is pretty new to me and well......omg.....it is undescribale.the Orgasm from it...and yes you better be ready for the flood... | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:28:10 AM |
theres no perfect move for all girls, but there is a move perfect for the girl you're with.
^^ could not have said that any better myself 
Personally, i dont think ive ever had a man bring me to orgasm with just his finger on my C. I prefer his wet warm tongue, and his fingers 'elsewhere' all at the same time. Fingers 'on top' just dont do anything for me. *shrugs* | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:29:22 AM | DC is bang ( ) on. I'd like to believe some are just naive (beyond belief!!) that they ask a FINITE question when it comes to techniques, likes, dislikes, norms, kinks, times, lengths, durations, frequency ... etc etc It seems like MOST of the question in these forums are asking what should be obvious. EVERYBODY is DIFFERENT. Not only that but the person you're with will change from one night to the next, from one mood to another, times of the month, stress levels, dealing with AH's at work, kids, sleep, mother in laws, house-breaking the puppie ... I mean EVERYTHING will affect how one responds to certain things.
The nice thing about a long term loving relationship is a) TRUST. You KNOW the person is trying t make you feel good - even if they're not at that time. b) Communication - if it's NOT working you can tell your partner that whatever they're doing just ain't makin it (tonight) so lets do this or try that. It's NOT an affront to their self esteem to let the other person know. It just makes for more fun when whatever you do to alter things so it IS working - works. c) Often because you know your partner so well just a kiss or tasting her skin will tell you what kind of mood she's in. It is NOT a bad thing to have a partner TELL you what they need but it just shows you're paying attention when you can kinda figure that out for yourself and do it slow and tender when that's what she really need OR a screaming, butt smakin, swing from the chandeliers, wild monkey-sex kind of night - all without her saying a word.
To ask what is RIGHT or NORMAL is like asking how many horsepower THE cars have when you're standing in a lot with (in this comparison at least) about 3 and a half BILLION completely dissimilar cars.
Re: the thread. As above. Find out what SHE likes - THAT night and either do it or let her show you what she likes OR try a whole buncha stuff and when her toes curl ... keep doing that. Again, if the communication is there she SHOULD be able to TELL YOU - ""YA ...RIGHT THERE !!! DON'T STOP!!!" That just might indicate she likes it and to continue.
One other MAJOR thing. NEVER EVER STOP what you're doing as soon as she starts to orgasm. Most women's orgasm will STOP as soon as you do. Keep doing it - whatever it is or she will crash mid way through a good O and she'll feel cheated to say the least. Of course with many women you can slow down right after an O and then start again and she'll come again and maybe again. Ask her if there's another one waiting. If she sezs YA then start again and she'll cum again in a few seconds. This is especially true for GSpot orgasms. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 12:34:09 PM |
note to self- MOVE to Canada!!
Ha.... I'm with you but for a different reason I think. Just look at all the hot Canadian babes. But wait... If you move there that will be one more.
God I love this planet.  | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 1:56:09 PM | This Canadian girl has another oral tecnique that drives women wild. Gently suck on her clit like u would suck thick milkshake thru a straw, drawing her clit into ur mouth, using ur tongue and lips. Omg, it feels incredible.  | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 4:50:59 PM | | Water-lili, Dave, pleasurelimits, - great ideas and techniques. Thanks, I'm learning all sorts of things. I thought I knew a lot of giving a girl a great orgasm (some by intercourse, some by oral and some by hands and fingers), but these ideas are great (you can always learn something new). I love giving a woman a good orgasm - nothing sexier than seeing the girl you're with, turned on and about to orgasm. I've tried the G-spot stimulation before, but not with the clit stimulation together. And the milkshake thru a straw example sounds great (I'm going to try it). Dave sounds like he's has a PHD in sex and orgasms. Maybe I will move to Canada - or at least visit more. | |
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| Orgasms for Women using the 'O' technique
Posted: 7/4/2008 5:14:43 PM | The reason Canadians are more knowledgeable when it comes to sex and relationships is because we have so many orgies. There, now the secret's out. Come to Canada.
Are you with the Chamber of commerce ?...sounds like an ad campaign....probably a very effective one. LOL
and yes, this works well....the best is to be going in and out of her real slow while doing this....BINGO! | |
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