| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 4:25:15 PM | | This dating site sucks, I haven't had any luck whatsoever. The one guy I did meet and liked ended up getting back with his girfriend, that really bites. I have emailed alot of guys and am lucky to hear from half of them, I've only actually met about a handful of them. How anyone gets lucky here is beyond me. What is wrong with this guys anyway, I have done everything possible and still no luck, what' s up with that. Like my username, I am playedout. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 5:28:06 PM | Maybe your expectations are too high.
I've had no luck either, I send messages and they get read but that's it. But hey, it's not the end of the world. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 5:32:07 PM | May I very kindly say to both of you that there is a profile review forum ... ask for help there and you will get it. Enjoy the process, nothing happens over night.
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 6:20:12 PM | | No matter how you go about finding someone special, there will always be times where things won't work out. it's not the sites fault that the guy din't see you for who you are. everyone has there own lives and they intertwine with some others in there own way, so it's just by chance and timings. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 7:51:53 PM | This dating site sucks, I haven't had any luck whatsoever.
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I have emailed alot of guys and am lucky to hear from half of them, I've only actually met about a handful of them. Some Dudes celebrate if they get a single Response after mailing 20 ...  |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/3/2008 9:41:21 PM | Okay, I haven't been married off or anything, either, but what can admin do? Hold our hands and take us out to meet people? It isn't the fault of the site.
Frankly, your profile is boring and bitter (I assume your profile was changed to reflect your bitterness after your bad experiences).
As for "the guys"...do you think women don't do some crappy things, too? It isn't just men or just women...it's some people.
Ask for a refund. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 7:00:57 AM | You think that’s bad, just wait until you develop crushes on the Moderators (see examples in message 4 & 5) then you are in big trouble as no one comes close.
Edit.....OOPS I meant 5 & 6.......sorry! Shoot me, it's a holiday in my neck of the continent! | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 9:01:49 AM | | How is it the sites problem because you can't get responses? Your profile needs lots of work dear. Remember, you are competing with others here and if you put up a poor attempt why would someone settle on a poor offering when the others are much better? Improve that profile and the pics and you're likely to find better results. Check out the Review tips and thread like the mods have suggested here. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 9:33:31 AM |
You think that’s bad, just wait until you develop crushes on the Moderators (see examples in message 5 & 6) then you are in big trouble as no one comes close.
I thought I was the only one who had crushes on the Moderators...dang!
Ah c'mon OP...this site is great and the forums are lots of fun. And it's all free. What more could you ask for?

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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 10:00:31 AM | | I am on 2 other dating sites and by far this one is the worst of the three, except that all the decent women except for one so far that I have met here and have been dating have been in a different state. It is free and people can treat it differently since there not paying it seems. The two pay sites I am on the women have been more responsive. As far as a profile goes it tells about 10% of what a person is really like, so if thats all a person goes by to respond or not then they will be here a long time. Before dating sites people talked and went out all the time. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 10:12:26 AM | I was on a couple of pay sites and actually found there to be more insincere and fake people. I think many have an attitude that it is easier to fool people on a paid site because others think “they must be genuine they paid for the membership”, I found that to be wrong most of the time with those that I actually met. Where on this site, most of the men I have actually met and dated the were decent men, even the ones that didn’t develop into a relationship.
I thought I was the only one who had crushes on the Moderators...dang!
Nope, there are at least two of us! | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 10:13:20 AM | tgj48^^^^^^there is no lock on the door you came in and it swings both ways...having said that do not assume i'm the biggest fan here but i get what i pay for.
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| this site sucks [CLOSED Thread] Posted: 7/4/2008 5:06:44 PM | | ok listn guys......do u understand whats going on here........this is female entertainment...are u following me? the only way to keep a level playing feild is not to indulge them..... | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/4/2008 9:16:28 PM | ^^^Seems a little too "conspiracy theory" there...
So, let's say that you're right...don't indulge any women...who wins? The women. Those of us who aren't here just for the entertainment will still get dates, but you'll sure show us. | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/17/2008 9:46:54 AM | I have been on this site over a year and I have met no one on here off the site in person. I cannot believe I cannot even get a date from this site!! I was completely honest about everything on my profile. I thought I did a good job of explaining myself and what I am looking for. I also know that looks are not everything but I am not a bad looking girl. I would consider myself to be pretty so I don't know what the problem is getting someone to meet me. It just seems that all the guys do on here is write back and forth to you in messages but they never actually ask you to meet up. I give up!!! I feel like I will be single for LIFE!!!!!  | |
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/17/2008 10:29:28 AM | ^^^^^ Interesting. You say on your profile that you weren't having any luck meeting people and getting dates in the real world, either. I'd say head over to the Profile Reviews forum and see if you can get some help crafting a profile that might be more appealing. You're right, you're a pretty girl, so something else must be going on that results in you not getting dates.
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| this site sucks Posted: 7/17/2008 10:39:50 AM | | It`s too bad you aren`t about 2000 miles closer and me a bit more single Sweetncute... I agree with Ursula. Get your profile checked over and tweaked. Maybe you aren`t aggressive enough and just seem to pick the passive men? | |
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