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 fugue

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:10:31 AM
When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.

Is this true.?

what is it with women and shoes?

why do you all like shoes so much

Do you see a handsome guy wearing bad shoes and say ''oh my god he's nice but the shoes kill the deal".
 dont poke the bear

Joined: 11/28/2006
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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:15:03 AM
We are scared he is wearing sandals with socks...white sport socks.

That would be the only shoe deal breaker for me.
 Caper143

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:18:04 AM
LMAO....this is too funny! It doesn't "kill" the deal...it might just injure it a bit.

I really can't tell you why...but yes...sometimes....seeing a man in ugly, out-dated, worn out, dirty, color faded, or ripped apart shoes is a bit of a turn off. If you can't wear decent shoes/clothes out to meet a woman on a first date...it kinda shows you just don't care and can't be bothered....so why should we?
 Kath111

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:18:52 AM

When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.


No but if she finds him unattractive she will look down to avoid eye contact thus hopefully avoiding having to converse with him.


Do you see a handsome guy wearing bad shoes and say ''oh my god he's nice but the shoes kill the deal".


No i would just ask if his mum was still dressing him
 fugue

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:23:06 AM

No i would just ask if his mum was still dressing him


But his mum might have better taste in footwear..?..
 IceQueen07

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 6:24:35 AM
Hmmmmm I didn't realize I was supposed to do that.
I usually look at his eyes and his smile.
Who knew!

Icey
 eatmanforlunch

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:03:12 AM
hmmmm really? is that what i have been doing wrong? i make sure from now on i look at the guys shoes.....jesus ....this is just to funny
guys and their warped ideas
 x Tyler Durden x

Joined: 3/30/2008
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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:15:08 AM
Yes they do. When you see a lady looking at you hold her gaze, you'll notice a lot of the time she'll scan you up and down with her eyes then back up to your eyes. This all happens in a split second. It happened to me yesterday when I had my crappy old trainers on that have holes in which I wear when I'm cycling (no brakes so use feet!). I doubt she was impressed haha!
It was also raining and I got wet feet.
 Orionican

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:28:11 AM
...no, the shoes doesn´t matter. Sneakers , loafers, sandals, boots - or even barefoot - anything goes if I like the guy.
 laughinglibra

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:33:56 AM
You only think we're lookin' at your shoes.... we're really checkin' out your package!!





VVVVVVVV EDIT: No.. we're lookin' directly at your package... your stuff... your PENIS AND BALLS.
 lightwaite

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 7:58:58 AM
What do you mean by package ?
does big feet really mean big package ,going to but some size 13 in the morning.. Or not big enough?
 The Artful Codger

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Shoes.
Posted: 7/4/2008 8:15:18 AM
Shoes are one of the first things I notice. Man or woman. Attracted to the latter, or not.
Whether or not the footwear is appropriate for the weather or activity, for instance, can sometimes tell me a lot about a person's priorities.
 finding_nemo76

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 8:21:46 AM
It's true rather the girl notices she's doing it or not. Last night I had a date and I found myself looking at his shoes. He was wearing cowboy boots which was a deal breaker for me!
 In Search Of My Soulmate!

Joined: 4/2/2008
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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:24:00 AM
We have been caught in the act!

Fugue, Its not all about how attractive a guy is on the outside its about how attractive he is in the inside, lots of attractive guys are not so nice in the inside when you get to know them. I only have ever met 2 that had both qualities!

I defo wouldnt date a guy who wore white socks with dressy shoes or sandals!!!!



 plebayo

Joined: 7/28/2007
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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:37:57 AM
I've said this before in another forum post.

I am not checking out your shoes. I'm checking out the size of your shoes. Simple really :p
 AlexisTaylor

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:38:53 AM
Shoes are very very low on my priority list unless they look totally ridiculous (like neon green hightops), or there are holes all over them, the sole is coming off and his toes are sticking out.
 kychik33

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:58:43 AM
Good grief, I've heard it all now.

I am not a shoe fanatic. I could care less about shoes (although the one person who mentioned white sport socks with sandals has a point!)....

I look at hands. And not to look for a ring either - - tho I have no interest in married men. I am just grossed out by feminine looking hands or chewed up finger nails (or long finger nails) on men.
 Heather_La_1

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:01:10 AM
NO fugue...what kind of "shoes" "socks" the man is wearing is not an big deal to some of us, why should we let "clothes" get in the way of something that MAY, be worth the "chance"....i can't speak for all but to ME i would not care what kind of shoes/socks/etc the man wears....
 verygreeneyez

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:03:05 AM
I guess I'd never thought of shoes as a deal breaker, but I don't like men in jeans with sneakers. I don't care if they are signed by Michael Jordan ~ no sneakers with jeans. JMO
 browneyedgirl926

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:08:15 AM

When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.


The first thing I notice are his eyes, then his hands , and then the details.


Do you see a handsome guy wearing bad shoes and say ''oh my god he's nice but the shoes kill the deal".


No, shoes don't "kill the deal", however nice shoes show that a guy cares about his appearance and help make for a good first impression.
 wynd1

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:21:44 AM
Nope. Not worried about the shoes. I scan length of his legs. There's just something about long legs.
 kevininlasvegas

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 12:00:32 PM
Women look at the shoes to determine how much money the guy has. i wear sandals cuz its too hot here for socks and shoes. I want to see you wear socks all day when the outside temp is over 110
 Kath111

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 12:21:59 PM

Women look at the shoes to determine how much money the guy has


No they don't they look at his wristwatch.
 deborah815

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 2:05:03 PM
I never pay attention to his shoes. But if he's naked and wearing black socks, now that's a deal breaker.
 fugue

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When a woman finds a man attractive she will first look at his shoes.?.
Posted: 7/4/2008 2:35:58 PM
//I never pay attention to his shoes. But if he's naked and wearing black socks, now that's a deal breaker.\\


Whats wrong with that look.?.?
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