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 KJPerry

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2008 11:12:03 AM
hi,

Ive been on this site for quite a while now. i when i get a reply to a msg or a msg, it usually a short reply. This doesnt help when trying to write back and get the girl engaged in what im saying.
it seems that im putting all this effort in writing these messages just to receive a five word reponse. could someone tell me how to get girls to open up and get their chat on, lol.
 lizzietrue

Joined: 4/6/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2008 1:19:42 PM
Hi Kiperry,
Women (or smart women) are causious at first. They'll want as much information you can give them about you. Tell them you like their profile. Remember to ask general questions about them. Get them chatting. Ask favorite music, flower, what they want in a man. Try not to be to forward though. Girls want to feel safe but wanted by you. Be interrested in what they have to say. Be kind and respect them.
Hope this helps!
Good Luck!
 ittybtty1

Joined: 1/29/2008
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Posted: 7/5/2008 1:29:38 PM
I agree with what Lizzietrue said but would like to suggest you don't JUST tell them you liked their profile. Tell them WHAT you liked about their profile. And be specific.
 linda4833

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2008 3:17:46 PM
Hmmm. With those big puppy eyes you're having difficulty getting responses? Hard to believe.

I checked out your profile. That doesn't seem to be the problem so I bet it's the emails you are sending. Don't send generic junk and don't send the same old tired stuff everyone else is sending. When the girl reads the email, she must feel the email was written specifically for her and that you have a genuine interest in her. "Genuine interest" is hard to fake so, if you have a hidden agenda, or you're sending out a bunch of emails every day, it's gonna be uphill all the way. Better to send a few well-formed emails than a hundred without thought that will be Read and Deleted or, worse, Read and just sitting there.
 Nordic33708

Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 7/5/2008 4:08:46 PM
KjPerry
This is the review section and not to ask for help with other things. If you like to have your profile looked over, let us know if not, good luck with the suggestions.
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