But I seem to attract married and separated guys. What's up with that? What can I say in a positive way to deter them from contacting me.
Yep, and judging by msg 2, you have done it again here as well.
I looked at your profile to try to find the answer. Perhaps in lies in the words serendipitous, irreverant and playful. If so, what a shame because they are good words and describe a vibrant, fun to be around soul.
I did not get negative from your opening (and believe me, I would tell you if I did).
If you are really bombarded by emails from the unavailable, screen those suckers out.
Maybe someone else will come along and point out something that I missed.
Good luck.