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 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 1
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I just stopped by a friends house on my way home, There was 2 other guys there with him and when i stepped into the living room they had a porno movie playing on the big screen. They were just sitting around drinking beer and watching porn.

But there was no women in sight, why in the world would straight guys be watching porn together without any women? Straight men should only be watching porn by themselves or with at least one woman in the room. ( naturally i see nothing wrong with two or more women just hanging out watching dirty movies) .

I mean what are they going to do if the movie gets really really good, sit around and watch each other masturbate?. I made up an excuse and got the hell out of there as quick as i could. Maybe i am just totally out of touch but the whole thing just looked very wrong to me, am i off base?
 milftastic_momi
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 2
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:51:26 PM
I think its weird.
But at the same time, as long as a circle jerk isn't going on, it's harmless.
 tina446
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 3
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:58:55 PM
Yes I have to agree thats werid, maybe they were just men being men all being macho like and stuff. Maybe they werent intending for it to make them horny or whatever they were just being men.

Is it werid yes, if i walked in and saw that i would have been like uhhhh ok and left. I dont nessicarly think it was gay or they thouight of it like that in anyway but ya its werid.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 4
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 6:04:27 PM
as ok as it is for straight guys watching a chick flik together. How is it gay if they are not watching a gay movie and helping each other.
 ScarlettThirds
Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 5
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 6:09:58 PM
It's just porn. I've walked into my friend's house to find a group of guys sitting around laughing hardily at a porno. It's no biggie.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 6
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 6:27:50 PM
The more i think about it, I think i will add this to my list of things straight guys should never do.

Straight guys should never share unbrellas, one of them should just get wet.

Straight guys should never share blankets.

Straight guys should never sleep in the same bed, even if the bed is a california king.

Two straight guys should never be driving around in a Miata.

Two staright guys should never be riding around on a bike.

I should call this my rules for straight guys.
 midnight_crossing
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 7
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 6:34:38 PM
That is totally weird!!! I'd be a bit freaked out if I were you. What the heck would happen if the guys were to get turned on from watching this? OMG!! I can't even go there.
 Traveling Man MS
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 8
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 6:36:40 PM
I've seen it where it is on during a stag or a poker night or something like that, but it's basically on in the background and most guys are laughing at it. No one is whacking off to it. But to jut purposely get together to watch porn is a little weird.

I do have to tell a story, however. In a previous business life I had to stop at a client's home to have him sign some documents. Of course you have to do the "small talk" thing and he picks up the remote and starts flipping through channels and puts on hard core porn. He then talks about how he can't believe it is on his satellite package because he has a son and doesn't want his son watching it. Then, he just leaves it on. Didn't change the channel, just left it on. Let's just say I got the signatures and got out of there. Oh, did I mention he was a hairdresser? Odd, very odd.
 2HEDZ
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 9
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:01:22 PM
any guys that think its weird apparently have never been in the armed forces. it might be different now because women have been integrated into the service alot more but back in the day we would be playing cards or dominoes and glance up at the tv which some times showed porn when they werent showing Rambo flicks.

i think its weird that some assume just because you're watching porn that automatically means you're gonna wack off but whatever.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2008 7:05:22 PM
Um I had to think about this one for a bit - um - yeah a bit wierd - but I have seen other strange stuff!
I wonder which guy decided it would be a good idea to crack the beer and pop in the porn - you may want to stay clear - he may want to crack something else later on!! (Not that there's anything wrong with that!)
 laughinglibra
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 11
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:15:29 PM
I should call this my rules for straight guys.



AAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!! Please.... NO more rules!!!!


Two guys drinking beer and watching porn.... there is nothing wrong with that. A lot of guys watch porn together just like a lot of women watch mushy and romantic movies together..... so they can discuss what they're watching during and afterwards.

Two guys:

"Hey Rick, did you see the move that guy did rubbing his c*ck up against her a$$hole? Maybe I oughtta try that with Sarah.... might get her warmed up for some anal action, whaddaya think?"

"Sure Joe, lemme know how it works for ya... I might give it a try with Monica if it gets you in there!"

Two women:

"Oh Monica, did you see how that woman got that guy to go with her to the opera? Maybe I oughtta try that with Joe... might get him warmed up for some cultural action, whaddaya think?"

"Sure Sarah, lemme know how it works for ya... I might give it a try with Rick if you get him to go with you!"


Like other posters have said, as long as they're not pullin' on each other, what's the big deal??

 MelissaMelissa
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 12
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:23:16 PM
The first time I saw porn, it was a couple of male friends watching. But, they were also 12-13 yrs old. This seems kind of juvenile to me, but to each their own.
 milftastic_momi
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 13
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:38:58 PM

I should call this my rules for straight guys.


Can you add the following:

Two straight men should never ride around in a VW beetle together.
Two straight men should never ever jam out to Clay Aiken or Britney Spears together.
Two straight men should never shower together. (With the exception of gym showers.)
 Space Kitty
Joined: 8/25/2007
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Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:43:39 PM
List of things straight guys should never do together? Homophobe much? As long as they aren't jacking while watching, I don't see what's so weird. The only thing weird here is your ridiculous homophobe set of rules.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 15
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:03:41 PM
"List of things straight guys should never do together? Homophobe much?"

Do you think that being a Homophobe is something i am ashamed of? You have a right to be the way you're, I also have the same right, or at least i hope i do. You're not telling me how i should be are you?

If not wanting to sit around watching porn with a bunch of guys make me a Homophobe, then just colour me Homophobic, and damn proud of it.
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 16
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:53:54 PM
I am in no way gay... but, I am kind of strange and offbeat.

I've sat with a bunch of guys and sometimes a girl in the bunch, while watching porn... I don't see it as odd at all. It's all opinion and conjecture.


the giggleparts - could you describe the ruckus, sir?
 DietCoke®Guy
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 17
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:25:44 PM
Why is that any different than a bunch of guys going to a strip bar and watching strippers, or a stag party?
Personally, I don't watch porn with male friends, nor do I go to strip bars.
The idea of getting all horned up with my male buddies just never appealed to me.
 MizQ
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 18
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:29:53 PM

But there was no women in sight, why in the world would straight guys be watching porn together without any women?


and here I thought that is how it usually was done...
 Feedback1
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 19
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:41:16 PM
What you didn't feel like sticking around? Well it seems you have some interesting friends.....seems a bit odd to me are they are really straight???
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 20
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:27:29 PM
That sounds really homoerotic to me, I dunno if I would fly with that scenario. It's 1 thing if you're like "hey check this video out." but if you're tryin to have a spank while your buddies on the couch... that's not secure that's just creepy.
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 21
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:05:26 PM
Interesting... I think it's weird, that so many people think it's weird.

Go figure.
 gnuru75
Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 22
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:01:05 AM
Are you sure it was porn and not a "Dear John" video sent by the wife of the guy crying in the corner?
Maybe it was a home sex tape, and your friend was proud of his editing.
Maybe one of the guys was dating one of the women in the video and he was proud of her work.
Maybe one of the guys was an actor in the movie and he looks 2 inches bigger on a LCD.
Maybe everyone was gayed out from watching "P.S. I Love You" so had to get their man juices flowing.
Maybe they were having a homointervention and trying to realign one of their friends sexual orientation.
Maybe they knew by playing it you wouldn't stay. Are you sure they are REALLY your friends?
Maybe they are all "closer" friends than with you and you surprised them on the way home.
Maybe they grew up together and missed their ol' high school circle jerk contest.
Maybe it was a bachelor party and you weren't invited.
Maybe they had a hooker in the other room they were hiding from you because your sloppy seconds are gross.

If you are uncomfortable in that situation you did nothing wrong by leaving. It doesn't mean they were uncomfortable in that situation though.
It's okay for straight men to sit around watching porn together. IMO no one else should judge others private behavior. You went to his house. You might want to post a sign of unacceptable behavior in your own home though for when they visit.
If they were filming a kidnapped Filipino snuff film I would hope you would reserve the judgment and call the police though. Yes, that makes me a hypocrite.
 Wildman46
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:42:24 AM
"Interesting....I think it's weird, that so many people think it's weird."

I am in no way trying to judge my friend, but the idea of watching porn with a bunch of guys is just not something i would think about doing. When i was confronted with the situation it fely really weird to me, but like i said in my Op maybe i am just out of touch with things like this. obviously i am not the only one finding it a little odd.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:54:32 AM

Two guys drinking beer and watching porn.... there is nothing wrong with that. A lot of guys watch porn together just like a lot of women watch mushy and romantic movies together..... so they can discuss what they're watching during and afterwards.


Hahaha. This is so funny. Now put the same guys watching porn after a bike ride (wearing spandex). Hahaha.
 Mayor
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 25
Is it ok for straight guys to be watching porn together, with no women around?
Posted: 7/7/2008 8:56:13 AM

There was 2 other guys there with him and when i stepped into the living room they had a porno movie playing on the big screen. They were just sitting around drinking beer and watching porn.

hum i have a question, where was the poker table?, have you never been to a stag?

ok that was two questions,, but i hard think this type of situation it that rare
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