| Question about flirting
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:49:39 PM | Hey There Guys
I am just wondering what are some good flirting tips when it comes to letting a guy you like them more then a friend your interested in them romantically that is won't come across as me just acting friendy and nice...that he will get the msg i would like for him to take me, get to know me not on a sexual way and i want them to be my bf. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 7:51:49 PM | Tell him.
Really, there are a lot of people out there that hints are lost on. Some people can pick up on them, some can't, some are confused because people act like that just naturally being friendly and that's their way of doing it.
Not that I know if any of that is the case, but I know for a fact that I am denser than a bag of bricks when it comes to picking up on hints. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:11:27 PM | I really don't understand women! I've had women I've been attracted to
mention how horny they were! Is this flirting? Was this expressing
interest in me, or just stating a fact? Maybe, I too am quite daft when it
comes to recognizing a come on! How about just asking me something
about myself! What am I, just a piece of meat? Jeeez! | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:34:17 PM | There's a thread on here asking men "have you ever been hit on by a girl?" I suggest you read some of the comments in there: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10261483.aspx
Most of the guys said basically that the subtle hits and casual flirting just don't work with them - they almost need to be clubbed over the head with it.
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Posted: 7/6/2008 8:53:56 PM |
^^^^ Which is why I always say that a girl needs to use her ManBat.
Whack him on the head  and when he's out of it drag him to your dungeon.
What you will do there depends on your personal preferences. 
Good luck, hun.
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| Question about flirting
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:57:25 PM |
Which is why I always say that a girl needs to use her ManBat.
There is always the "brick with note attached" method. I've heard it works wonders as well, would work for me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 9:00:35 PM |
I've had women I've been attracted to mention how horny they were!
A gentleman always offers help to a woman in need. 
they almost need to be clubbed over the head with it.
Well said. Unfortunately, most of the women who actually used a brute-force approach on me were drunk ones whose obvious attempt I actually got and PRETENDED not to notice. I would think the average woman has enough intuition to see whether he does not get the clue or whether he declines. If he is clueless, crank it up on the subtlety-meter. Take a little mental note though, because you may expect him to get clues later in the relationship. If he needed clues then, he will need them later. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 9:12:03 PM |
There is always the "brick with note attached" method. I've heard it works wonders as well, would work for me.
Neh.
The brick with note attached requires that a man is literate.
Additionally, it allows too much freedom in decision making process for man.
Not good.
ManBat & Dungeon.
What's not to like about it?
PS ManBat is much more precise than the brick... | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 9:15:46 PM | Sadly, I never get hints =/
I just think she's being friendly. I actually have had people tell me later that she was interested in me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 9:17:18 PM |
I really don't understand women! I've had women I've been attracted to
mention how horny they were!
never happened to me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2008 9:35:31 PM |
ManBat & Dungeon.
What's not to like about it?
I was just giving an alternative method, at least I'm kind enough not to rip apart your ideas. | |
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| Question about flirting
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:58:49 PM | Hey WiccaGurl,
How do you know this guy? If it is just some guy you see, but don't know, then smiling and eye contact and willingness to engage in friendly conversation always works.
If you are aquaintances then still just talk to him or put yourself in the position to talk to him. And act flirty. Smiling, eye contact and your tone of voice will convey it.
If he does not reciprocate, it could be that he has male pattern blindness and does not recognize it, really shy or is not interested. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 3:41:42 AM | kidnap em, tie em to the bed and break his legs (so he cant escape)
seriously -we need more information about what the circumstances are.
one thing i can say -if a woman in the background of my life learns my name and isn't afraid to talk to me -cupid may be a bit slow at times, however i cant help but to feel some kind of interest brewing... | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 4:27:36 AM | Wicca
Just tell him !! You're just gonna have to take the risk that most men on here have taken many many times in their lives. Whatever happened to "Equality" ? This sexist nonsense of waiting for him to make a move so that you don't have to risk rejection is just so 19th Century.
Go for it grrrrrl !!  | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 4:40:53 AM | Women; stop with the signals, jedi mind tricks, asking others to read his mind, wearing the right clothing, etc..
He will get the message if you talk to him and eventually tell him. I dont get how bad women are at direct communication. Its amazing. Again, talk to the guy. He cant' read your mind; I'm sure you'll get good results. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 5:49:02 AM | i don't know if my bf is serious, or just trying to make me jealous, but after work, sometimes he tells me stories that starts off as, "i think this new girl has a crush on me?". i would question him on how he came up with his theory and he'd be like, "because she laughs at my stupid joke and sometimes she would comment on my biceps." (my bf has muscles, he used to be in wrestling team).
i laugh at him because that could be true, but i do that with other guys anyways, not to flirt, but just to make them feel better about themselves i guess. it works with their ego...LOL.
but ya, i guess laughing at their jokes and touching them here and there could work. it works for my bf! hahahahaha... | |
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Posted: 7/7/2008 9:43:24 AM | You smile and say to him. "I wouldn't mind us doing something together sometime"
He'll get the message and if he's interested will court you. If he's not that interested, the "something" won't be dinner and a movie. | |
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