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 CelH

Joined: 3/28/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 5:01:33 PM
I have noticed that a few times I did not get back to someone right away they got upset.
A couple quit the site.
And this was after just a couple e mails.
I'm thinking this is common and not just my experience. It seems many people on this site have either a lot of issues or get hurt very easily.
Many of us are here and are "looking" but not desperately looking to meet up and start up somthing asap..We work, have families and can not and some times do not want to log on and scan the mail..
Is this wrong? Is this rude?
I don't think it is..And I would almost quit signing on just to keep from hurting someones fragile ego.
NO ONE wants to hurt others, or anger them..But not many want to be a slave to this either.
It's a wonderful thing to be able to meet others, for free..And I enjoy it too..But not when tired or feeling crappy..Or just busy.
So people that get upset without a quick response from others, just lighten up..It more than likely has nothing to do with you..Enjoy the others that are responding or just read the forums or some thing..
 miss_allison

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 7/8/2008 5:12:41 PM
I highly doubt anyone quit the site cause they couldnt handle not having you respond to their email asap.

On that note, may I recommend if you are too busy to respond to an email you most likely are too busy to really be reading them. Additionally, even though you claim to be too busy to respond to emails you are reading, why do I suspect you'd have time if someone you were really into sent you a note. Bottom line, why not wait until you have more time available.
 trappedonbayst

Joined: 1/3/2005
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Posted: 7/8/2008 5:17:13 PM
This has been discussed an astronomical number of times ...

Is it rude?

Some think so as .

Some don't.

There is no definitive right or wrong answer.

See --> POF MAIL: Unread Read Deleted Messages or Emails, no replies Why?

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