| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/8/2008 7:50:13 PM | Seriously, has every woman just totally lost respect for themselves. There has to be a reason that men think they can e-mail or IM me and I'm going to talk dirty or meet them and have sex. Sex is easy and if it is not easy for you in the real world, then you are very unattractive or a major loser. There are plenty of fat girls and insecure girls who put out! How rude to be e-mailing with someone and then do not reply. That is no class. I have always explained the reason for not being interested. That is respect and CLASS! Lie, lie lie about your height (5'11 means 5'9 I have learned) where you live....staten Island is not NYC. Who the hell lives in freaken SI anyway. Pictures from 1998?. And I am 35 do not write me if you are 60. WTF grandpa? it is very sad what Internet dating has become. | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/10/2008 8:10:40 AM | PRO HELP? ANGER MANAGMENT? LOL those were serious issues with respect to internet dating and being decietful. If you're telling me to relax, you guys think it's no big deal and must be one of the as**oles being decietful?? Pathetic!! | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/10/2008 4:37:46 PM | | Well, I guess if you put a note on a billboard and ask that people contact you, you'd better be prepared to receive certain responses you're not going to like. I suppose you can get angry about them, or you can just delete them if you're not interested. | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/22/2008 5:57:28 PM | | well hey not all women have CLASS. I write simple messages and get no reply whats with that. people are on this site and dont know what they want. people probobly lie for that reason, they aren't having any success. | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/22/2008 7:34:53 PM | I take it youre not getting any huh? Hey, look on the bright side....its obvious youre a man who made up a false profile so let "Rosey" and ITS five sisters have at it. With that attitude, thats all you'll get. But good luck with that! | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/23/2008 8:22:08 AM | | remember what mom said....one bad apple spoils the whole bunch! but remember some of us were brought up with manners lol. ohh forget manners....common sence is more the word. not all of us are liars,***holes or losers. and yes it is very sad what internet dating has become.it seems like most of you ladies think we are weirdo's if we don't want to dwell on sex all the time.i don't get it LMAO!you should be able to tell in the fist 5 minutes weather he's a turd lol. if it smells like s h i t than it surley must be s h i t right? | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 7/24/2008 9:45:38 AM | I agree with the thought that when you join an online dating site you are going to receive contact from people that you don't think are a good match for you. The opposite is also true - you are going to try and contact people that don't think you are a good match. Its part of what you are "signing up for" as part of your search for a good match. No different than the real world - just alot more of it given the ease of online dating.
At the same time I don't understand why people who receive a message/IM from someone they don't think is a match simple don't say so.
A simple message back saying "thank you for your message, I don't think we are a good match. I wish you the best in your search."
I know that women get ALOT of messages - some sincere, some downright rude. At the same time deleting a message and not responding to a sincere contact seems rude to me as well.
The "hey honey wanna f$@k tonight I understand. Block them and be done with it. There are certainly alot of idiots out there. Should the rest of us be treated the same way?
Does an intial contact message marked as read by the recipient that is not responded to mean: 1. They are not interested 2. They are talking to someone else at the moment, but want to save your message in case it doesn't work 3. They got busy and didn't have a chance to respond 4. Something else completely different 5. All of the above
See what I mean? If you are not interested a simple reply back would solve all of that....
I feel the response to a sincere contact (or lack thereof) also speaks to the character of an individual.
Mike | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/20/2008 9:20:46 AM | Amen Sister... I may not have put it the way you did but kudos... I am new to this whole dating thing and well after one short month of this computer dating thing makes me wonder if I am not just better off being single. Everything starts out okay you talk online, maybe im, then talk on the phone, then comes the time to make plans you talk about plans, you have decided what you are going to do and suggest checking schedules and getting back in touch and bam they are gone... Like they never even talked to you.. You message them and nothing, do you guys not realize that we can see when you read our messages... Hello I am a person, with feelings.... Just say not interested or met someone else..
You go girl... | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/21/2008 4:32:56 AM | | These girls are here because alot of them do not have time in their lives, they get loads of mails and should not be expected to respond to every guy that mails them, the same as we do not always respond. I think you may have some rejection issues and you might want to start thinking of others instead of yourself, it would probably take you a long way. | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/21/2008 11:41:51 AM | ahhhh I love it. It is so true. I think on both ends but can only speak for the guys that have contacted me.
1)height - 5'11 is the new 5'9
2)Hair - "brown" hair usually refers to more than a half a head of hair, not just the tiny patch you hav left on the back of your hear - that is the reason for the "bald" option.
3)Looking for - If sex or likes and dislikes come up right away - loser! block him You should know the losers in the first 5 minutes.
4) body type - another issue - rememeber guys they are asking for your body type, if you put athletic you sure as heck better look athletic............that doesnt mean a 30 pound gut! LOL
5) interests - kissing and sex should not be inserted, that is a given! LOL | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/22/2008 5:00:21 PM | Seriously, Please tell me why, guys are on this site, if they are BEGGING, PLEADING, BESEECHING their wife that walked out on them, to come back home no questions asked. Why in the heck are you on a dating site leading tons of women on, if you are petitioning your wife to come home and asking her to go to counseling. Are you getting great kicks out of leading on and hurting other woman, just so that you can feel like a big man, because your wife walked all over you and crushed you????
As for the height, weight and pictures..............believe me; guys are doing the same thing. Mostly with the weight issue, I am sorry but if you have two chins or a gut hanging over your belt than in no way shape or form are you ATHLETIC!!!!!
I agree, it is very sad what internet dating has become. | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/25/2008 6:24:16 AM | | Yeah, you should mention that "average build" means chunky... and "Im just looking for a nice guy" usually means Im looking for a sugar daddy to take care of me , my kids, and my scratch-off lottery ticket/gambling habbit | |
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| as*s*hol*s, my view on Internet dating Posted: 8/30/2008 2:54:13 PM |
Sex is easy and if it is not easy for you in the real world, then you are very unattractive or a major loser. There are plenty of fat girls and insecure girls who put out!
OP should put up some pics if she's gonna make statements like this.
Also, can I get a list of the insecure whores? Thanks. | |
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