| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 7:28:48 PM | | Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill? Do you just believe her and go with the flow, or do you always take matters in you own hand and wear a condom or use another method? I am sure some guys will say "Well if you trust her" but we all no how that goes. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:11:13 PM | | Well I kind of what to know what you actually say to her? If you are in the heat of the moment and are about to put on the condom and the girl says to you, "Don't worry, I'm on the pill." What do you do or say? A lot of women say this and expect the man to NOT put on a condom. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:52:08 PM | I think most people have a lot of misunderstanding when it comes to sex.... Most people will trust a stranger. I, however, ask many questions and get the stupidest responses.
Such as "I know I'm clean I haven't had sex in months!"
Him "I get tested for STD's all the time"
Me "So did the doctor take a swab?"
Him "That's disgusting! F@ck no its a blood test!"
" I know your clean I can just tell, you look like you take good care of yourself"
Always use condoms!!! Never trust what somebody says in the heat of the moment!! People are DUMB! | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:03:45 PM |
Well I kind of what to know what you actually say to her? If you are in the heat of the moment and are about to put on the condom and the girl says to you, "Don't worry, I'm on the pill." What do you do or say? A lot of women say this and expect the man to NOT put on a condom.
"No foil, you best get somebody else to check your oil."
Seriously how trustworthy is someone that JUST told you their on the pill  . Now if your mom asked over dinner one night it might be a different story. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:04:47 PM | | What about if you are in a relationship with the girl and she says to not worry, would you still use a condom, or would you trust her, only to hear months down the line that she is pregnant. I am sure that is what happenes to a lot of guys. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:20:39 PM | Think about this:
If someone is willing to have unprotected sex with YOU imagine how many other people they have also had unprotected sex with!!! It's not like you're going to be the first. Then think, "well what's the worst thing that can come of unprotected sex?". I think you'll find that the answer is AIDS ha ha.
yeah...f*ck pregnancy, and f*uck most STI's....they are all trivial issues compared to what you can get from unsafe sex with people who are grotty enough to have unprotected sex with a person they only just met ha ha. It’s disgusting, and if you have EVER done it (pill or no pill) I hope you have seen a doctor, had and STD screen, and regret the whole experience. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:22:56 PM | Any bets this OP is trying to figure out how to rope a guy into being an unwilling father?
Dating a few months and STD test are clear but you want no condom, then you best be suggesting mutual oral. You are still in the "quiet neighbour/serial killer" that no one would have suspected zone. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:25:33 PM | | The only way I would have unprotected sex is if I've been with the guy for a while (and I mean a long while where I could fully, 100% trust him and whatnot so like a year), I'm on the pill, and we've both been tested. I've only had this with one guy and that was my ex where we were together for 2 years | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:30:01 PM | | I have no desire to try to trap a man, loontunz, but it seems as though someone has trapped you since you are an unmarried dad. From hearing stories from Single Moms and guys that I have dated, I just do not understand why more people do not us condoms. I have heard so many stories from guys saying ridiculous things like "It's about trust, which I find ludicris. I grew up thinking that condoms are what you are suppose to use IF you have sex. So I am trying to figure out why there are soooo many single parents. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:33:20 PM |
Me "So did the doctor take a swab?"
Him "That's disgusting! F@ck no its a blood test!"
That's true, it is a blood test. Serology for most STI's can be done on serum. To pick up gonorrhea and chlamydia some labs may do PCR on a urine specimen. I can't think of any reason why a swab from a male would be required for a routine STI screen. I’m happy to be corrected, but I think I’m right, and I should be, because I work in the field ha ha. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:37:50 PM | | I would ask what pill. Maybe she's referring to a antipsychotic, or urine tract infection medication. It also depends on how long I have known her. If she has to tell me she is on the pill and I don't know what her birth control is then it is probably too soon for sex, or I use a condom. Maybe a hazmat suit and dental dam. Depends on how drunk I am. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:45:59 AM | It takes me a bit to get to sex with someone, so by the time it happens I do trust her when she says shes on the pill. By then we've already had the disease talk once or twice anyways.
And before I get flamed...Im 35, have 1 child that WAS planned, and have never had an STD. So, Id say Im doing ok trusting those Im with. | |
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| Guys, what do you do when a girl tells you that she is on the pill?
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:46:55 AM | Untill you know her.....condom.....another trust issue...have a freind that was with a woman for a while...she became pregnant...said it was his...he said..nope hadda vasectomy...she got around....happens on both sides but again honesty and respect is missing alot in our society.... | |
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