Racygirl, I do not see any other events that you posted yourself.
Cohosting an event does not count towards your count needed to be able to send a mass email.
That being said, if ^^^ is the case, then the bulk email system is working, as you haven't met the minimums.
The only thing I did see though was you posting 2 threads on the exact same party, one in the party threads and one in the main forums. I suspect a moderator will come delete this one http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10273212.aspx
as you're only allowed one thread and can not post a 2nd one.
Planning on Hosting a Party? Things you need to Know.
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1156438.aspx
Additionally, if you already have a message advertising your party, you should not post new threads on the message board forwarding people to go see your already active party topic. By adding new topics like
"hi did you see my party topic yet. go here and sign up: www.mypartytopic.com"
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10272965.aspx
On a final note, just so you know, theres a forum for party hosts to discuss matters such as this:
Event Hosts forum
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingForum168.aspx