| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 3:36:27 PM | | Here's the deal: Going down on my current partner for the first time. With no orgasm alert (I'm gonna cum I'm gunna cum) He just blows his load in my mouth. With NO warning so I could pull away in the nick of time. NO WARNING! I found this extremely inconsiderate and it pissed me off to the point where I dont think I will blow him again. Has this ever happened to any other ladies? Do you find it rude or is it just me? Men, have any of you done this before? why not alert the lady? | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 3:41:10 PM | | I guess your in need of some communications help. You should at the minimum discuss how he likes it and you like it before things get too heated. This communications is actually foreplay. If you were blowing him didn't you think he would eventually lose himself? Communication and preparation...... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 3:51:33 PM | | next time before giving head tell the guy to please give you heads up before blowing their load? maybe he assumed you could tell by his body language..either way communication would be the best bet. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:25:24 PM | Has this ever happened to any other ladies?
Hell yeah, it's happened.... but then, blowing his load in my mouth is the result I'm hoping for, so for me it's more than welcome.
You maybe should have communicated to him before or at least at the very beginning of you going down.... a few licks and a sultry look up into his eyes and say "Hey lover.... let me know before you cum, okay? I want to ________" and add in whatever it is you would prefer to happen.... whether it be, watch it explode all over your t*ts, or catch it in the ice cube tray and make cumsicles out of it.... whatever. Communication is essential.
Maybe he's always had partners that just swallowed, so he didn't think anything of it.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:26:11 PM | This may seem silly, but did you happen to TALK to each other about such things BEFORE you put his d*ck in your mouth? Or did you expect him to just know you aren't into swallowing? If you weren't ready to discuss the do's and don'ts to warn him of things you have hang-ups about.... maybe he wasn't ready to discuss with you when he was about to cum?
I agree with others, there is definately a way to tell when a man is about to cum. Body language... sounds he is making... even the grip of his hands if he is holding onto you or your hair.
As for it happening to me... I am a bit of a freak.... I only like knowing when he is cumming so that I can figure out where I want it. Also, it's kind of hot to hear him say it.
Like I said... if you didn't take the time to tell him before hand about your issues with swallowing.... maybe he didn't really need to take the time to tell you he was going to cum. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:29:13 PM | As a woman that doesnt mind a 'load'...... sometimes you can tell when they are close, sometimes you cant.... You either need to get know your partner in an intimate way over a period of time or you need to tell them they need to tell you when they might unload.... I know which I prefer...
But.... sometimes I wish I was a man so I could experience this..... (in a non aggressive way, just in a I-want-to-experience-this-sorta-way)... | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:29:19 PM | well girl a word of advice.if you don't like swallowing you should tell your partner either before you even go down on him or during the act,that you don't want it shot in your mouth.is this the first time you have done this,because every guy i have been with,you can always sense when he is going to expel,because of his motions.or maybe i know this because i have gone down more times than i care to remember over the years...
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:39:18 PM | Maybe he just assumed you wanted to "keep the change." I always give warning the first time until I know the girl better. You should just let him know you didn't appreciate it. Besides, the talk might lead to some awesome make-up sex!!!    | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:52:48 PM | | I think it is very rude too ...He just may get it back all over him. I am upfront about that right from the start .I had only one lover for year and half that i learned to give a blow job on.And I finally did get to the point of letting him cum in my mouth. But first date is a little much to me. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 4:59:17 PM | Well, there has been an occassion where he just erupted and all I could do is decide whether I was gonna spit or swallow-my momma raised me not to spit-so I had to swallow-but he tasted NASTY-ugh!
Most men I've been with I could TELL he was gonna bust one-other's would vocalize 'I"M GONNA CUM' so I had the choice to either wear it or swallow it..lol. Some men I've been with will simply pull it out of my mouth and crank it out...to each their own.
I'd tend to agree that if you are going to perform oral copulation on a lover and you KNOW you don't want to SWALLOW any of his cum-it would seem prudent to let em know before you start sucking.
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Posted: 7/12/2008 5:47:38 PM | I'm sorry, but you must not be paying attention to what you are doing, if you can't feel it coming. No pun intended. With enough practice and talent, you can control their emissions and make them finish when you want to. Regardless, there are muscle contractions that could give a bit away when they are getting ready. Lastly, you should be swallowing. It is only polite.
See, if a woman is going to do oral, or anything for that matter, you should be happy to do it and not complain. It isn't an obligation to do anything with them. If it is, then I am sure they got that same vibe from you and it showed in your performance. JMO. | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 6:28:39 PM |
I found this extremely inconsiderate and it pissed me off to the point where I dont think I will blow him again.
Yes, this is probably the best way to deal with it. Deny him oral pleasure ever again, but continue dating him without ever having a discussion with him about it. That's how the best relationships last........ lack of communication.
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 7:22:54 PM | I would say get used to it princess ...and suck it up ! all of it !For several reasons .I personally lick up far more **** juices for a lenthier time than when a mature woman "completes " a blowjob.Your lil liquid treat goes out in a few seconds ,put the love muscle to the back of your mouth and swallow like you like it.It has vit. B12 and iron ,calcium,and protien.It also has hormournes that increase sex drive ,all 100% natural.Sex is about getting closer and acceptting your partner in everyway.So you need a partner who will be "pricky" enough to pull away when your about to have an orgasm or use a piece of plastic over your **** so he doesn't swallow a half cup of **** juice for 30 minutes....which is what I ussually do.  | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 7:53:11 PM | You couldnt tell he was going to cum? I mean was he dead??? HOW can you NOT tell? I mean there is body language, and the muscles getting tighter, usually people stiffen up before they cum, and the breathing is harder and faster.....I dont get it....
Sorry OP, I am not trying to be rude but seriously was this guy just mute and motionless or what??? | |
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| HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT!
Posted: 7/12/2008 8:14:04 PM | The fact that you're giving him a blow job on the first date probably means that the two of you don't know each other well. Maybe he could care less that you told him that you don't swallow. If you don't know someone well, how can you trust them when it comes to sex?
You should be asking him this. If you know him well enought (or think you do) to give oral, I'd think it'd be ok to tell him thatyou felt he wasn't considerate of your feelings.
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I think you should have handled the prise and been happy with it. 
