| Confidence problems.. what gives Posted: 7/13/2008 6:10:50 PM | | Wondering what gives with the whole confidence thing. Does everyone have those days where you feel good about yourself and you feel like you are being noticed (which always feels good) but then have those days where you feel like no one notices you and no one would want to look at you. Wondering why this happens? I know to be happy with who you are and I am. Just wondering why people have those days. | |
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| Confidence problems.. what gives Posted: 7/13/2008 9:01:02 PM | It's those dog-gone moments that we (I've been guilty of it too) just gotta go back to ... thinking of the one negative comment (versus the gazillion positive comments) that some stupid idiot said in our past...............and we just let it control us!
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| Confidence problems.. what gives Posted: 7/13/2008 9:10:30 PM | Yes, everyone has those days... it basically takes one significant comment, good or bad, to turn you around. When you're on the downside, you notice the down moments more, and vice versa on the upside. Sleep it off or wear something you know you look good in, etc. etc.
But if you do find "those days where you feel like no one notices you and no one would want to look at you" (which sounds awfully severe imo) are happening often, you might want to talk to someone about it - family doctor or whomever. | |
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