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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:24:23 PM | | We went on a date, it was good. We went on a second date, it was great. We went on a third date, it was awesome. But then I found out that he checked his POF mail from my computer while I was busy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF?????????????????? Have I confronted him? No, not yet. Will I? I don't know. Should I? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:28:35 PM | Ok here we go!
You went on a date. It was good! You went on a second date, and it was great!
You went on a third date, sex was awesome.
While you were in the shower, he got on your p.c. and check his pof mail!
You haven't talked to him about it and now your not sure if you should..
There I explained it to you... Did it help?
Would it be better if we got someone famous to sit next to you and narrate? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:32:42 PM | So rather than ask this guy WTF he was doing checking his email on YOUR computer.... you put it out here in the forums for all of us to chat about...... Hmmmmm, wonder what he might think of that.
If it puts such a bug up your....... then ask HIM!
My $0.25 worth!
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:34:11 PM | I don't think it was his bug up her ........ Hey go get in the shower so I can check mine.... | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:37:32 PM | | I def think it's wrong that he checked his POF while you were busy!!!!! Does he not know that it would be in your history on your computer??? If he was just curious, then it's all good, but he should have just waited until he was on his own computer..... | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:41:14 PM | And maybe...just maybe, you told him something in an email he wanted to introduce into your conversation but he forgot a piece of it, so he logged in to re-read your email so you could be impressed by his attention to detail.
Nawwwwww, we actually couldn't expect the best from somebody...now could we.
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:41:49 PM | | I think the OP is pissed that he checked his at all...am I wrong or was it that he used your computer to do it? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:42:03 PM | | Honestly if he just asked me, I really wouldn't care...I mean, some people do have friends on POF and use it as an email. However, how he did it, I did not agree. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:42:25 PM |
You went on a date. It was good! You went on a second date, and it was great!
You went on a third date, sex was awesome.
While you were in the shower, he got on your p.c. and check his pof mail!
lolz...
so , he's finished with her and already looking for the next one?...
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:47:25 PM | If some women did that to me I would ask for my money back and drop her off at the same corner I picked her up on! That's just wrong man..
In every way it was wrong! All jokes aside it was wrong!
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:53:10 PM | Of course it's wrong. But I don't think "confronting him" would solve anything at this point.
Only a player or a very inconsiderate prick would do such thing..... | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:54:40 PM | | He disrespects you and does not care about you. Totally wrong and let NO man even one use my computer to check his email without asking me. That will be the end. I do not give another chance. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 9:58:10 PM | Well, I don't know how long you were "busy," but what was he supposed to do sit around for 30-45minutes while you took care of whatever business you needed to take care of and twittle his thumbs???
To the lady below me:
It DOES matter. If I was at a guy's place waiting for him I would check my e-mails on EVERY site that I'm on if I have the time... facebook, pof, myspace and whatever else I feel like checking. I'm not going to sit around quietly waiting for someone with nothing to do. I agree that he definitely should have asked if he could use the computer, but you can't complain about WHAT he was looking at; however, you CAN get mad about the fact that he didn't ask, because if he had had permission to use the computer he still would have checked pof. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 10:00:25 PM | | IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW LONG SHE WAS TAKING. HE HAD NO RIGHT IN USING HER PC TO CHECK A DATING SITE. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 10:20:31 PM | If some women did that to me I would ask for my money back and drop her off at the same corner I picked her up on! That's just wrong man..
LMAO
~OP~ Password your computer if you are going to allow him around again. Personally, I'd lock my door and change my phone number. Three dates usually doesn't constitute a relationship so you don't have much to lose with this one. That is just tacky.  | |
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 7/15/2008 10:21:32 PM | umm.. Had he proposed?
You had 3 dates.... come again?
Are you hurt? Confront him about what, for going on a dating site or using your computer?
Would it be different if he was surfing the net for porn?
Just trying to weed out what it is that bothers you... Are you expecting him to be committed to you and stop "looking" ? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2008 10:25:03 PM | OP: "But then I found out that he checked his POF mail from my computer while I was busy"
OP, what do you have the issue with? That he checked his POF mail and thereby thinking he didn't give two sh1ts about you? Or, that he 'invaded' your personal space by using your computer?
*Edit: exactly N*love^^^
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Posted: 7/15/2008 11:17:53 PM | | Well, I'm going to side with you. I'd have a bit of an issue with that. Him, on a dating site on your computer while you were busy? Wrong. And very bad for the ego. I'd have to laugh at the same time that I would write that one in my journal of unsavory male behaviours that I've been compiling for years. It's 5000 pages long. Confront him? No. Not worth it. Just keep your eyes open-- what does this mean? That he would check his POF mail like that? A bit risky, no matter what the intention. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 1:00:57 AM | what do you need to confront him about??
jeez woman its not like he was grabbin a quick feel of the honey in the corner while you were "busy" lol all he did was check his pof mail SO WHAT ... answer me this... when YOU met a guy did you suddenly stop talking to the other half of the planet??
As for me, I would be more uncomfortabel with someone who all of a sudden only had interest in me... chillllllllll
if he does it AFTER youve had the "we are only seeing each other" talk then kick him to the curb like the dirty dog he is | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 1:08:00 AM | Re the Opost
I hate to say it, but did both "parties" find this third date "awesome"? At least one did, but the other? That could explain the "mystery".
The other is that he is hooked on POF Forums!!!! Seriously! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 1:31:49 AM | | Chalk it up to experience...if you have company. Turn your computer off ...no don't confront him.....but you should not give him access to it..it's like leaving your purse in the room with it wide open.........of course he is going to peek. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 6:16:31 AM | | I don't see the big deal. I have a bunch of friends on here that I am not dating ... damnit! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 6:29:10 AM | | Maybe he didn't like the sex as much as you did and was looking for a replacement. | |
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