| Do Other Guys Really Do This
Posted: 7/16/2008 1:31:42 AM | | DO a lot of guys play nice guy and are there that many pervs on here. I don't really have an lot of guy friends (do to immaturity, disrespect to other people, several other things from most guys my age), but do a lot of guys actually play the "nice" guy deal to try and get a girl then become d**ks after they get in a relationship. I had heard from a couple friends that women experience this from a lot of guys. Along with the women on here get harassed by a lot of perverted messages. I am just curious if this really does go on and that there are a lot of immature guys out there who do it, and no I am not referring to all guys I have just been told it is a lot and want to know if it is true. Does this B.S. really go on I am just very curious and want to know. Sorry I just want to know if other guys really play the games because I have been told I am a "nice", and if other people play that position to get a woman and can't be themselves from the start I think they are boys or who are perverts and harass women on here they are just boys not men. Ok enough of my babble lol | |
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| Do Other Guys Really Do This
Posted: 7/16/2008 4:24:44 AM | Short answer: Yes.
Just jump over to the "Ask a Guy" forum and look at all the post over there from women wondering why guys lie and say they want a relationship when all they want is sex or why a guy would send a first contact email filled with sexual content. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 7:06:59 AM | | I had one guy contact me, really sweet, polite, came across as a pretty good guy. Took the conversation to IM and it all went downhill from there. The absolute killer for me was when he started asking about my oldest's masterbation habits. Block. Delete. Buh-bye. Scalding hot shower to feel normal again. So yes, some do this. Why? Because some women allow it. If more women cut the creeps off at the first sign of creepiness then maybe, just maybe, some of those creepy men would realize that they can't get away with it and maybe, just maybe, they will start acting like polite gentlemen. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 7:30:14 AM |
DO a lot of guys play nice guy and are there that many pervs on here.
Nope, I'mma d*ck to begin with and I make no apologies about it. As for being a perv ... ok, maybe just a bit, but at least I'm a cute perv!
O crap, I almost completely missed that this is another NG thread! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 3:25:47 PM | "The absolute killer for me was when he started asking about my oldest's masturbation habits. Block. Delete. Buh-bye. Scalding hot shower to feel normal again."
ROTFL! 
This seriously happened? Some sicko asked you that? OMG... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:23:52 PM | YEP OP....you are absolutely correct...ALL of this is happening right here on POF...just as it does out in the real world.
Although the pervert stuff you don't find so much in the real world...men tend to let their true perv come out when there is little to no chance that they can be kicked, slapped, or have an angry brother/boyfriend/male friend kick their asses. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:31:23 PM |
Although the pervert stuff you don't find so much in the real world
Well, that depends on your area and age group. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:47:59 PM | Yeah, not only do they play nice guys, but they also pull the guilt trip of women ignoring them because they are nice and the shame trip that women supposedly only like jerks and then the delusional trip that because they are such "nice guys" nothing they do can be construed as the behavior of a jerk....
As far as the pervs go, it's not that they have a sexual need, it's that they have a need to be rude and disrespectful and saying something like "Do you have big breasts?" two sentences after the IM hello and then, when I respond, "No, I was born without breast tissue" they answer "touchy, touchy." like uh, I'm the douche bag? And the guy's profile?
"I'm just a nice guy, but we always finish last.... seems women just don't want a gentleman anymore..."
Seems someone needs a dictionary. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:51:27 PM | Oh I find it very hard to imagine guys walking up to a random female on the street and saying
''nice tits''
''wanna f u ck''
''I got a nine inch di ck just ready to be inside you''
"I always wanted to f u ck an older woman''
"i wanna put my di ck in your mouth''.
"my tongue could work wonders on you pus s y"
If you live in an area where men are saying these kinds of things face to face...you might want to consider moving. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:53:06 PM | here she comes again:
I once got so sick of men asking me what I was wearing that I would say
"An Oakland Raider helmet''.
and these men were so dumb they would ask...''why would you be wearing that''...as if I were actually serious. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 4:56:35 PM |
Oh I find it very hard to imagine guys walking up to a random female on the street and saying
''nice tits''
''wanna f u ck''
''I got a nine inch di ck just ready to be inside you''
"I always wanted to f u ck an older woman''
"i wanna put my di ck in your mouth''.
"my tongue could work wonders on you pus s y"
Not saying I'm proud of it, but I have said some of those things when I was younger .... much younger! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:35:09 PM | As far as the women who allow the creeps, the funny thing is that the quicker you block and delete them, the more pleasure they get out of knowing they were able to instantly push your button. I like to do a mindscrew on them and drag them along until they block me.... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:35:54 PM | | Damn I am shocked. I guess I kind of got sheletered not having a lot of guy friends, and from the time I was five until about 19 I didn't really go hang out with friends. I sat at my house worked on my guitars and played them. No wonder people get the perception that someone is too nice because of jerks that play off they are then become terds. The whole nice guy finishes last thing is a joke and pitty party just like the others who complain oh I'm to ugly, too fat, to tall to skinny. Those are just pitty parties. Sorry the people who do those things need to grow up either someone likes for who you are or they don't. Don't blame it on I am to nice, I am to ugly. I had that just irking me right now because I keep seeing those types of posts everywhere maybe it is all the pain killers from having surgery earlier today lol. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:42:27 PM |
and how do we know you're not doing exactly that right now?
You don't and you don't know me, but it is up to you if you trust I am being who I am or not. I don't mean that in a rude manner I am saying it as in I agree with you that with out really knowing me and just from me posting this I might be one of those jerks. If you had chatted with me and knew me you would know I was being sincere.
In all honesty I am who I am all the time. If you have to act a certain way to get certain people to like you then your after the wrong people if it be a S.O. or friends your after the wrong ones. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 10:34:06 PM | | Yeah, but atleast face to face if your good at reading people you can kind of get a feeling in the beginning. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 11:17:21 PM | Actually that there are men that do the "Nice Guy" act is proof that women like nice men. If we didn't, the act wouldn't work now would it?
Now if we could only get the so-called "Nice Guys" to quit whining. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2008 6:23:57 AM | | I was not asking if women liked nice guys. I was just wondering if a lot of guys just play it off to get women. I figured you know maybe a few but with talking to a couple friends and now the posts here I am actually learning that there is a large majority of guys that. I was and am looking to learn more about what my friends were saying. Now from the people who have posted on here I have learned that this appearantly happens a lot. I was also curious if there where as many sick pervs on here guy wise as the stories a couple friends had told me, and then my mother had told me because she is on here to (thanks to me showing her). I mean it is one thing to be a joking perv with your friends, but I am meaning the sick people out there which from reading what the other ladies posted, and some of the things that guys have said to them appearantly there are some very sick (pardon my language) f**ks on here that need some serious help. Thank you for the people that have responded on here because it has been very insightful. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2008 10:27:37 AM | Well everyone is on their best behavior in the beginning right? No guy is going to walk up to you and say, "Go out with me, I smoke, drink to much, do drugs, have a rap sheet, just want to get into your pants, and then get you to loan me money, then disappear.".....
no woman says...''I'm just trying to find a meal ticket who will spend all his money on me. I'll hold off on sex til I get as much from you as I can and then tell you I'm not really that into you and go find another sucker''.
If everyone were really honest, how much dating would be getting done? | |
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Posted: 7/17/2008 11:40:56 AM | OP, we can pretty much guarantee that your mother is going to be the recipient of emails and IM’s from some of these kinds of men. The theory is that because the anonymity of the Internet it is easier for some people to drop their inhibitions and behave this way. Some players get better with their “nice guy” acts, pervs start emails and IM’s with things like “do you like oral?” while others wait till the 2nd or 3rd email – after all, “if we’re going to date shouldn’t we know that we are sexually compatible before meeting” (yes, some will try to use that kind of rationalization). A woman doesn’t even have to be attractive to get this unwanted attention.
Just in case you haven’t heard, there are women behaving just as badly. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2008 11:53:38 AM | omg Bug is back....don't you love that rationalization....
I've heard that one a gazillion times it seems....
have to see if were compatible sexually....don't they realize sexual compatability is important to women too.....only we don't have to hit them over the head with sexual questions right off the bat.
Maybe we should...
1. how long and big around is your penis, what is it shaped like, does it curve up or down, left or right...
2. what was the longest time you ever had sex before orgasm? (without use of viagra)
3. how long after your first orgasm will you be ready to roll a second time? A third time? A fourth time?
4. Do you think pulling hair, spanking, doing the deed on my belly or face is sexy
5. do you enjoy anal sex, and if so are you willing to have something the size of your penis shoved up your anus?
6. Have you ever been tested for every STD known to man? Unless you're a virgin of course.
7. have you ever cheated on a partner. What were the circumstances, and what was the outcome when you told your SO you cheated?
8. Ever had a threesome involving another man? if so what was your role in the deal.
9. Do you consider oral sex and anal sex.....SEX? (amazing how some people don't)
10. Which is more intimate to you, anal or oral? (I just read that some men find oral more intimate an act and will not do it on a woman, even though they'll do anal).
11. If a girl has sex with you on a first date, what do you think of her? And what do you think of yourself?
Maybe if we hit them with some hard questions and make them feel like they're being interviewed they'll see what we deal with everyday.
It's been my experience that men who do a lot of talking, don't have the stamina to back it up anyways. Those who can do, just do, they don't need to brag or announce to the world that they are a great lover, they let women discover it on their own. | |
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