| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 5:51:02 AM | isn't this different from some quick glances? his remarks add insult to injury.
guys, what's going through his head/heart? we've had problems with his using adult friend finder in the past (after he moved in with me); so he knows he's treading on thin ice. manipulative? narcissistic? cruel? | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:13:28 AM | OP - I was looking at your post history... is this the same guy who would stay up all night watching porn while you were in the bed waiting for him to join you? I sure hope not!
If this is the same guy, then you have put up with him for way too long. Don't you think you deserve better?
If it isn't the same guy, then you need to reevaluate the kinds of guys you date. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 6:13:54 AM | If you let your dog crap on the carpet 6 days a week unpunished, why on earth would you punish it on the 7th? You are letting this man get away with all of this, unscathed. I suggest you have him find his own place, and move on. He obviously isn't into you enough to just be happy with you. See the early signs for what they are, and move on.
*********sorry I just read your profile. You claim that you have a fiance who is looking at other woman, and telling you crude things as what he would do to them,, but you have on your profile that you are looking for dating??? How the hell is that? I guess I retract the aforementioned advice, and offer this. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. You have an active profile for dating, he is checking out adult websites. No big deal. I suggest you clean your own back yard before attempting to clean his. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 8:20:03 AM | OK...... I will have to agree, that kind of behaivor is not cool!!!!!!!
However, Niether is being on a dating site listed as single and looking for Dating, when you have a "FIANCE" and he is living in your house.
I thinks me would reconsider getting married. From the sounds of thing neither of you are ready for that. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 10:24:52 AM | | Only you can allow this to happen to you. If you are tired of it, get out. If you are just seeking attention from others and want people to pity you because he treats you like crap, no one will pity you. You are with a perv and you know it. You either shut up and deal or you get out. Moaning about it isn't going to change him, he is stuck in his perverted world, and maybe you are stuck in enjoying the attention from telling people about it. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 12:27:28 PM |
isn't this different from some quick glances? his remarks add insult to injury.
guys, what's going through his head/heart? we've had problems with his using adult friend finder in the past (after he moved in with me); so he knows he's treading on thin ice. manipulative? narcissistic? cruel?
Right. I guess you are one of those silly people that thinks they can change another person if you love enough for the both of you. Umm....wrong!
This is the way he is. You will not change him. The only person that can and will change him is him, and only if he wants to... and not because you nagged him within an inch of his life.
Congrats on the upcoming nuptials! | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 12:40:51 PM | | The waitress is an enchantress. She cast a spell on him. He speaks without knowing, unable to control himself. To break the spell you would need to...well, I can't say because you would think it was crude. I will just say then that there is a way. You have the power. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 12:55:21 PM | | it could be possible that adult friend finder was just spam not collected by your pop up blocker........that thing always pops up when im surfing the web.....looking for boxing, mma, and futbol news.........so i know for sure that if anyone looked in my history, it would be in there. | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 12:59:59 PM | OP
It's time to move on this guy is not going to change. If this is his attitude and you keep allowing this eventually he is going to start cheating on you if he hasn't done so already.
This is a perfect example as to why you see threads from guys on POF about why do women date bad guys/jerks and over look the gentlemen/nice guys | |
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| my FIANCE makes crude, sexual remarks about a cute waitress to me.
Posted: 7/16/2008 1:11:51 PM | OP... your profile says you are looking for DATING??..while you are engaged?..whats up with that.....
Besides the above mentioned..... WHY would you continue a relationship after you found him on AFF?...... he obviously doesnt need or want you....so why do you feel the need to keep his lying ass around?... dumb the b*stard in the trash where he belongs!!
Don't let people walk all over you...... you determine your own worth! | |
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