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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:04:17 AM | | ok there is a guy who i have known for a little while. He is nice and fairly cute but extremely shy, I doubt he has even had a girlfriend before. Well I just found out his birthday is coming up and I have seriously been thinking a lot about deep throating him and maybe swallowing. I have even pictured in my mind him lying on his bed and I tell him to close his eyes for his surprise. Then I would take off his shirt and pants and underwear and you know the rest...Hes always been nice to me, he even fixed some things of my car for free. I really don't want to buy him a present because i don't want him to think I want to be his girlfriend or anything. The thing is I am not sure of the consequences. I know we would both enjoy it and it might even help his self esteem and make him more outgoing but I don't want him to think I do this to other guys who arent my boyfriend (I don't). He might tell other people though and eventually people at work could find out.What do girls and guys think about this, is this a good idea | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:09:11 AM | if you deep throat, swallowing is kinda automatic.
seems like a bad idea overall. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:09:23 AM | WOW...you don't want to get him a present because you think he might think you're his like....girlfriend....
...but a blowjob is well within reason?????
Are there any more at home like you?
Would you like to be my neighbor?
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:12:32 AM | Yeah, I mean giving a can of oil or a picture or a Blow Job..I think you can get away with a present and tell him flat out.. I am giving you this as a friend to say thank you for being kind to me. I mean if you can have him think your lips around his****wont give him any wrong ideas... a present surely should not.
But yes i agree... I need a friend like you too... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:13:30 AM | I think if he's that shy, he wont tell anyone but you may not even get the clothes off. However, you risk him thinking its a relationship and not just a gift.
Oh, my birthday just passed, can I get a belated gift? lmao  | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:25:18 AM | | I feel it is always a good idea for women to engage in oral sex as much a possible, it would not be healthy not to act on these urges. Seriously though U dont have to use the Birday card, for what ever reason, U want to lay the shy guy down and gorff on bo bo lol Thats great go for it. As for U being concerned about the consequences, well as U should know it could be like opening pandoras box! Some guys especially guys who are not getting that, might get stalker like, but a smart guy would keep his mouth shut and hope more are comming :) Oh and one more thing, if U are gonna go all out and blow buddy, U have to swallow!, Thats like , just not right... Thats like heres yur great gift but he can only have the rapping. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:27:21 AM | | oh I also thought.. if you are going to give him the blow job... i hope you also give him yourself naked ..might aswell.. let him enjoy it to the fullist | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:33:59 AM | lol this post is classic...
i sooooo wish i could be like you 
in answer to your question... i think he will like your idea! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:38:07 AM |
Well I just found out his birthday is coming up and I have seriously been thinking a lot about deep throating him and maybe swallowing.........I really don't want to buy him a present because i don't want him to think I want to be his girlfriend or anything
Bring a girlfriend with you.... he won't mistaken your deep throat as a proposal. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:43:34 AM | | if he's really supoer shy like you say, there's a chance he wont let it happen, then it becomes supoer awkward between you 2, possibly ending the friendship. OR, maybe not..... only you know him well enough, but I would suggest that you really think this one through. friendships can be ruined pretty easily by things like this | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:45:33 AM | | I think this sounds like a great idea. Give the bj, say happy birthday, and just walk right out the door. No confusion about potential relationships there!! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:45:35 AM | You know you're going to do it no matter what people here say. But when you do, remember, you're opening up Pandra's box (no pun intended). He might take it to mean you're interested in him (and something tells me, in spite of what you say, you might be. )
So if you're OK with him thinking it's more than a birthday present (after all, do you really think he won't want another one, and another one ....) - and you're OK with him possibly rejecting you - go ahead.
And don't forget to post the pictures, for us to see, of his birthday party | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:47:53 AM | just say i have you a birthday gift take him to the side drop down and undo his pants and go for it ...when finished get up kiss him on the cheek and say thanks for being my friend
this happened to me and me thinks its the best bday gift i ever had | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:48:25 AM | My birthdays coming up....any takers 
only in america..( well canada...near enough ). | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:54:56 AM | | Its a Good and Bad Idea just depending on how you look at it. With sex and partner's one never knows really about the other. Maybe he has a hooker friend you don't know about. Anything sexual would give me the idea that you were thinking about more than just sex but that's just me. In this case you'll have to weigh out all the details in your head to make the proper decision for yourself. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:56:55 AM | If you're going to spring it on him....how will you know if he's hygenically clean or std free? Its not something I'd do for a man who I was not interested in. I think you're insane. It comes down to providing pity sex and that's not something I'd do.
If the guy is really that shy, chances are you'd only make him uncomfortable. Or as someone else stated, he could turn into a stalker wanting more.
To each their own.
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:56:56 AM | Well, while you think this is nice and cute, you do realize you are using him as a fantasy object and not really interested in giving him anything? You want to give him a blow job because he is someone with whom you can act like a tramp and not feel like one and because you don't think he will pursue anything. It is a no strings sexual encounter, period. If you would shy away from a relationship with him then you really don't think very much of him, at least not the way you make the post sound.
You have no idea about his morals so shyness aside, he might be horrified. You actually imagine him as somewhat pathetic and that he would welcome the mercy blow job.
If you actually do this, you owe him at least the opportunity to refuse before you have him on the bed disrobing him, actually how you expect to accomplish that portion of the night's festivities is also somewhat baffling. Are you going to tell him to go lay down on his bed, you will be there in a minute, and he is just going to go? This little fantasy has a lot of logistical holes no pun intended.
Tell him what you have been thinking about and ask him what he thinks. | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 7/16/2008 8:59:13 AM | And OPie...if you're actually going to do this...do be prepared for the fact that some guys have a difficult time cumming from just a BJ or without some emotional attachment. Any damage to the friendship will be more than likely the result of not being able to perform and finish the job...most likely on his part...but what if he takes so long your jaw gives out.
Not saying...just saying...
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:04:16 AM |
You have no idea about his morals so shyness aside, he might be horrified. You actually imagine him as somewhat pathetic and that he would welcome the mercy blow job.
if he morally objects he will tell her to stop.... or run forest run ....or something but it may just be the memory of his life ... yea it may ruin the friendship but it may not ....go for it OP | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:10:33 AM |
I really don't want to buy him a present because i don't want him to think I want to be his girlfriend or anything.
He's more likely to think a BJ means you want to be his GF that a present would.
but I don't want him to think I do this to other guys who arent my boyfriend (I don't).
He would have no reason not to think you do it for all the males you know on their birthday. You can say otherwise, but he'll have personal experience that you gave a BJ to someone not your boyfriend, it's not much of a stretch to think it might have happened before or will happen again.
I recommend against it unless you actually wanted to arrange a FwB type thing with him. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:18:32 AM | well to start off with.
because i don't want him to think I want to be his girlfriend or anything a bj is very personal to say the least, if he didnt have romantic feelings for you before, he almost certainly will after. if you dont want him to think of you in a bf/gf way i would suggest a present instead. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:22:39 AM | | Why would you play games with somebody like that, especially a nice guy? Anyway - you sound like you're trading services for "services" like a hooker. | |
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Joined: 5/14/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:25:08 AM | | I would explanation the situation to him before you actually gave him a BJ. Maybe he wouldn't be interested in receiving one. Maybe he would feel that you are sexually attracted to him. Personally I wouldn't give him a male friend a BJ unless we were in some type of FWB relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:28:29 AM | Also rec against it.
A BJ IS going to change your "friendship" with him. Guys just think like that. "If she wants to give me a BJ then she wants me." Kinda thinking. He'll fallow you around like a gosling. He may "fall in love" with you and then you'll have to shatter his ego by telling him it was ""JUST a BJ ... get a life.""
Do you KNOW he's just shy? What happens if he's GAY? Is he Super religious and just as you're about to gobble he grabs you by the hair and tells you you're going straight to hell for this. Has he ever insinuated in ANY way that he needs to stick his schlong down some chicks throat? Or that that is a fantasy of his?
Carerful girl. BJs are fun but unless BOTH parties have fully disclosed what the BJ MEANS you're playing with FIRE!!
Buy him a can of oil and takes yuz chances that he'll be swept off his feets with lusts for yuuz
and just to explain the obvious to a few who "don't get it" yet. Some of us relics consider a BJ highly personal, erotic, private ... like that. Others especially since the Clinton / blue dress fiasco, clearly do NOT. A BJ is about as personal as handing him a fu¢king can of WD40 with a ribbon on the top and a boithday card stuck to its butt.
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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:38:05 AM | next time you need alight bulb changed im your man  | |
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