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Posted: 7/16/2008 9:35:28 PM | | Why do women lie to to others when they are rejected by the man they just met. Making up BIG lies is not the way to resolve the situation. Confront the person before this person puts the woman in Jail for Harrassement, and other things. you know who you are. | |
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| REJECTION-good or bad
Posted: 7/17/2008 6:11:11 PM | I am not sure why ppl do this. Maybe they have a problem and don't understand that ppl are just different and sometimes they just don't get along or "click". It does not mean one person or the other is wrong or a bad person (although sometimes you gotta be careful). It simply means you are just different. So he/she don't want to date the other no biggy. You just finish the date or meeting and thanks yous and goodbyes and best wishes. There is really no need to be ugly about it.
Now, if that other person that was the rejector happened to be ugly (not looks but personality) and mean about everything I would be highly upset but still I would just let it go. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff...and as the saying goes it is all small stuff. Why stay upset over something that means nothing? Go ahead with your life..love live and laugh there may not be a tomorrow so enjoy every minute while you have it. And sometimes to be rejected is a good thing...maybe not the right person for you or not the right time in your life or maybe it gives you something to think about. By that, I mean, you should wonder if there is something you can better about yourself because you can't change anyone else. You can only better yourself. Everyone has flaws and the ppl that say they don't are the ones that really need to self evaluate. | |
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| REJECTION-good or bad
Posted: 7/21/2008 10:57:14 PM | | OH MY FRIEND I AM SO SORRY I DONT GET IT EITHER, I JUST MARRIED SOME ONE AND HERE I SIT ALONE OK I DONT GET IT WHATEVER IT HURTS I CANT DO THIS I AM SORRY HAVE A BLESSED NIGHT THNAK YA A FRIEND | |
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| REJECTION-good or bad
Posted: 7/21/2008 10:57:51 PM | | OH MY FRIEND I AM SO SORRY I DONT GET IT EITHER, I JUST MARRIED SOME ONE AND HERE I SIT ALONE OK I DONT GET IT WHATEVER IT HURTS I CANT DO THIS I AM SORRY HAVE A BLESSED NIGHT THNAK YA A FRIEND | |
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| REJECTION-good or bad
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:48:17 PM | Based on some of the comments, I'd say rejection is a no brainer.  | |
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| REJECTION-good or bad
Posted: 8/22/2008 3:22:02 PM | Well, rejection never FEELS good, but it IS part of life.
Forgive me if I am wrong, but the only reason I can think of to lie about rejection would be to make it look like YOU were the one who did the rejecting... and this need to do so is indicative of a low self-esteem, in my opinion. Personally, I prefer to just move on with the attitude that I simply wasn't what he wanted for whatever reason, but to BE what he wanted would mean I'd have to be different... and I think I am okay as I am. I would RATHER be rejected than to have someone try to mold me into what they want. In this light, it is a good thing to be rejected. | |
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