| needs help :(
Posted: 6/2/2004 7:14:07 AM | | ok, im back, but dont know 4 how long, im on the edge. My best friend / lover wants out of the affair, and friendship. She cant stand being home w/ her husband, and wanting me there instead. I cant see myself living without her in my lifw. I have given up the sex part, just want her friendship. Is that still possible with everything that we have between us??? | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 2 | |
| Re: needs help :(
Posted: 6/2/2004 9:24:01 AM | | she has a husband she is with...and you as a lover......too bad she couldn't wait till she made the decision to leave one first! ah well....just remember...she COULD do the same to you! Just my 2 cents.... | |
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| Re: needs help :(
Posted: 6/2/2004 12:58:22 PM | | I DONT THINK THAT IS POSSIBLE BABE. I HAVE BEEN THERE BEFORE AND MOST OF THE TIME WHEN YOU CROSS THAT LINE FROM FRIENDSHIP TO LOVER THERE IS NO GOING BACK. ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS WANTIN MORE NOW AND YOU ARE WANTIN LESS. IT WILL HURT HER AND SHE WILL BE MAD. SO YOU GOTTA DO WHAT EVER YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU. THATS MY ADVICE TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT BABE. GOOD LUCK | |
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| Re: needs help :(
Posted: 6/2/2004 7:39:09 PM | | BABE..YOU NEED TO MOVE ON..YOU NEED SOMEONE WITHOUT ALL THIS BAGGAGE....IT WILL BE HARD BUT YOU WILL BE FINE....MUAHHHH! | |
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| Re: needs help :(
Posted: 6/3/2004 11:49:37 AM | ahhh pistol .. i was wondering how u were.......
someone always get hurt i nthe end. You told me once that you loved your wife more....is that true?? im curuios WHY DO YOU NEED THIS WOMAN???
what does she give you more that your wife doesnt?? whats so wrong with your wife that you need another woman??? and also do you se yourself 10 yrs down the road still married to her?? this is serious. If you dont see yourself with her..you must do something about it.
one day the other one will ditch you....and things will be soo bad at home that you;ll have NO ONE.
no lover no wife and no kids. Do not have kids until you sort your life out. You are too fuked up to have them now and drag them through this. It would be so unfair.
thats my 2$ hope you will listen to it. | |
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| Re: needs help :(
Posted: 6/3/2004 4:24:50 PM | | dude...you where on the brink once before and you recovered then..you must do the same now...the probability is you will have more times like this in the future,its a sad fact of life..it has its ups and it has its downs..its how we deal with the good and the bad that defines the way we live are lives....you can either curl up and die...or you can stand up and be counted...the primary option is the easiest way out...but hey ,who ever said that life was easy...pick yourself up and march your ass onwards...:) | |
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| hey
Posted: 6/4/2004 4:55:55 AM | | i hear it all, im just taking it 1 day at a time, it is getting easier not seeing her that much, but i still have feeling for her. Is that wrong, i cant change that. Im sure in time, thing will die down totally. Just trying to be happy, and not to think about it. But over all, im doing ok. | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/4/2004 11:19:15 AM | | All I can say is whoa. | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/5/2004 4:57:30 AM | | IM GLAD TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE DOING OK. THINGS WILL GET EASIER...IT DOES TAKE TIME. I FEEL FOR YOU THOUGH CAUSE I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS. GOOD LUCK SWEETY | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 10 | |
| Re: hey
Posted: 6/5/2004 5:30:20 AM | Pistol its not always easy to make a clean break, the best thing to do is occupy your mind with things you like to do and work on loving yourself.
Good Luck to you,
Z~ | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/8/2004 6:01:30 AM | | UMMMMM..PISTOL..YOU TOLD ME SHE WAS MARRIED...YOU NEVER TOLD ME YOU WERE. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 12 | |
| Re: hey
Posted: 6/8/2004 12:49:16 PM | | i knew that right away..... its hard to give soemone solid good advice when you belive what hes doing is horrible.. | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/8/2004 9:02:51 PM | | yes, I don't know what 2 say. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 14 | |
| Re: hey
Posted: 6/9/2004 10:40:24 AM | | i tried and tried....even through pm...but he still is very mixed up....i hope he does the right thingi nthe end... | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/18/2004 6:09:31 AM | | i don't think its possible for you to be just friends after all thats happened between you. but you never know whats in the future | |
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| Re: hey
Posted: 6/19/2004 11:44:01 PM | why can some folks like ZEE
not accept any pm/emails
am i that bad or ?????????????
by the way
zee
that is a fine aXXXXXXXXX | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 17 | |
| Re: hey
Posted: 6/19/2004 11:49:15 PM | | er ummm for the record its not mine, and what do you mean not accept pm/emails -im getting messages fine, i do believe it has to do with what your looking for, intimate encounters, and those i have blocked....check the profile, it says it at the bottom about criteria..and thanks, it is a great looking ass *wink* | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:13:44 PM | I cant believe what i am reading.
What the hell are you thinking?
I obviously dont know the whole story, but
Let me ask, Is that your daughter sitting on your lap?
Would it be ok for her to grow up and get married then for her husband to be off with another lady!
That is what you are teaching her.
Marriage is suposed to be when two people love each other and only want to be with each other, not any one else. And if you do want to be with someone else you get a divource before you move on.
No wonder there are so many f***ed up kids out there when the parents are teaching them it is ok to treat other human beings this way!
You will never be happy, you are not only treating everyone in your life like s***t but you have no respect for yourself. | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/9/2008 5:26:23 PM | | You're a jackass. Of course you need help. Get a hold of yourself and in the future exercise some self control. | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 1:49:35 AM | Thank God someone eles who has some self worth.
Seriously, how does any of this make sense? | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 7:37:15 AM | You both made a huge mistake entering into this relationship while you were both still married and now you are paying the price. You have hurt both your families, your children etc. For what? You have far too much emotionally invested in a person whose life was a mess way before you came into the picture. I am sorry that you are hurting but this is what happens when you only think about how good something feels and not whether it is a smart move. Now she is still with her husband and you are without your children. Was she worth it?
You cannot turn a sordid affair into a healthy relationship. Consider this a life lesson. | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 7:40:57 AM | Ok is it just me this was posted in 2004, I think he has moved on.... | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 5:37:35 PM | i wrote eariler and deleted..went back and read...
Wow and you think a relationship is going to work or grow when it start on a bad foundation...wake up and smell the coffee...you both have been living a lie...and it's obvious neither of you are intelligent or mature enough to do the right thing...
ooohhh who's on your lap...perhaps your daughter.. ??? if so..perhaps you might start thinking of her first...and get your head out of your a**...unbelieveable... | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 6:46:58 PM | | Nope... it isn' possible. | |
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| needs help :(
Posted: 11/10/2008 6:56:09 PM | Humm ...... why oh why did I just read a four year old thread  | |
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