| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 12:21:37 AM | Alright here it is ,
I was with this woman for two and half years.. and me being stupid beleive other people over her and i broke up with her.. a couple months went by we talked and seen each other and such but then i found out she had a new boyfriend.. and had been dating him for about 5 months.. She says she still loves me and crap like that shes slept with me whilst shes been with him a few times.
I seen her last night she was with her boyfriend we where having a few drinks and she kept sending me msgs sayin she cant wait to be with me but she was playin around with her boyfriend whilst she was sending these msgs.
I asked her today is she going to break up with him and come back to me and she said "i dont want to hurt anyone but i love u and want to be with you"
So tell me is she playing me or does she really still love me. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 1:34:19 AM | Do you really need an answer for this one?
If she is bonking both of you at the same time, and sending you SMS messages while she's with him, she's probably sending him SMS messages while she's with you.
Sounds more like some game of GET 2 GUYS TO FIGHT OVER ME and see who wins.
She has some growing up to do and isnt ready for a 'relationship' with anyone yet | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 2:12:27 AM | | WOW..... someone who can't read the writing on the wall! Why would you want to be with a cheater? Sucker for punishment? Good luck with that! | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 3:56:35 AM | | Well, I see that you are only 21, so I'll try to go easy on you. If this was happening to one of your best buddies what advice would you give him? Now take that same advice and apply it to yourself. If her intentions were true, then she would only be with one of you at a time. She's playing both of you and probably laughing about it with her girlfriends. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:11:53 AM | I think you already know the answer OP except I would change it to:
" So tell me is she playing US or does she really still love me enough to dump him, come back to me and then cheat on me too? "
^^^^^ How's your question sound when you read it that way?
Do you really think you'd be any different and she wouldn't do to you exactly what she's doing to him right now? | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:35:21 AM | OP - Is this the kind of behavior that demonstrates love to you?
Is this what kind of girl you want to have? One you can't trust? If she's messing with two guys at once, even if she does leave him to come back to you, what's to keep her from doing the same thing to you?
Forget about her and find someone who really loves you.
Krys | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 5:38:38 AM | I she will cheat on him with you, what makes yout think if she leaves him she isn't going to cheat on you?
She has no respect for either of you. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 8:03:45 AM | Someone who will cheat with you, will cheat on you.
Do you honestly trust someone like this? Why did your friends want you to break up with her in the first place? Maybe they knew something you didn't? But the fact is she has a boyfriend she is not willing to break up with, but she won't let you go on with your life.
Oh she's playing you big time. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 12:43:13 PM | I saw this over and over again. Man here have so little opportunity to get to a women that they would swallow tons and tons of s.hit. Lots of it. Holy cow!!!!
A "regular" type of N.American man knows if he gets "something" that's so hard to get he will go to his maximum limits and beyond to keep it. He will be overforgiving any huge crap...but one little mistake from his side would be a huge issue....
The reason? Well because again, many men are kept behind "bars" in terms on any access to women...relationship of any kind
I am just watching and looking....and I say....Aeieaeieaeieaeieaeiaia...! | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:19:50 PM | | why would you even waste your time with immature child like her? you already know the answer. Dump her and move on. You dont wanna waste your time with her if she cant give you the straight answer. Some people just love dramas in their life. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:20:47 PM | No, she doesnt love you! She likes both of you and dont want to loose either one of ya. You are nothing but a sex toy to her.
omg get a clue! | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:49:28 PM | She's playing you. There's something to be said for the lack of character this woman has displayed also.
She's goin' to the submarine races with the both of you. Does that tell you anything? I hope so. In the meantime if it doesn't, I could always whack ya upside the head with a 2x4 if you think that would help ya out? | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 8:20:08 PM | She doesn't sound like someone that you would want as your girlfriend. If she is playing games like this with peoples emotions what makes you think that she will stop? You deserve better. Women like her give us a bad name!  | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/22/2008 11:02:28 PM | | I'm going to agree/disagree with these lovely intelligent women depending on the circumstances. You see, depending on how valid your reason for dumping her was, it may be possible that she wouldn't feel secure to dump her current bf and go with you because you might burn her again. I sometimes wonder what I would do if my last bf came back to me because as much as I adore him, I fear he could burn me several more times and I'm in a very secure and loving relationship right now. | |
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| Is she playing me around?
Posted: 7/23/2008 5:56:33 AM | "Is she playing me around?"
YES! What sort of person could be with someone else when they are in love with another person? She just wants her cake and eat it to.
I agree with the other posts. How could you trust her ever again when she is obviously going behind someone else's back so easily?
If she really loves you, why isnt she with you?
Simple answer really :) | |
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