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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:00:48 PM | Hey,
My name is Rebecca, and I am 17...yea I know I am young. Well anytime I get in a relashonship that lasts...it becomes abusive. My first serious boyfriend used to force me into anything sexual, and one night he even raped me. He said he did it because I embarrased him at his school dinner. He said he was sorry. Then he ignored me for 3 days...then dumped me. I stopped trusting guys, and I started becoming interested in guys who werent as popular and were good friend material. Well everytime I start to really like a guy that I KNOW is a good guy, he kind of pushes me away for no reason.
People always tell me that I am "pretty" or whatever...but I dont beleive it. I need someone to tell me the truth. Is my looks pushing guys away? Is the only reason I get cruddy guys because they'll go for anything? If my personality is good enough to be a friend, why nothing more? Is it my looks?
PLEASE someone give me advice. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:18:28 PM | Did you seek therapy afterward?...
I know how you feel hun and I've been there many times..The way things look now in your post your not where near over it. The insecuritys are getting the best of you and a potential partner. You need to seek a therapist to help you understand that its not your fault and that your not doomed forever as far as finding a true match. If you can't afford one seek counciling works just as well.
Also now this helped me not sure if it will help you but I started to write poetry...made an emotional outlet though words and it was the best thing I ever did I actually have over 40 poems published to date! So find an outlet and let it all out either poetry or journals? maybe even song writting! whatever floats your boat. Just don't ever put yourself in the frame of mind that your hopeless or without support. hell these forums are the best support you could ever have tonnes of great people in here..take care of yourself hun and best of luck!
and if you ever need someone to talk to just give me a message and I'll be there :D
brittxoxo | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:23:30 PM | | When I was a kid I was molested and raped, seek therapy or a rape crisis center if you have one in town, do not get a male therapist get a female to help you with these issues, also get alot of female friends most men are dirty dogs and will lead you away.... E-mail britt, shes a good girl she will help you out..It took me over 30 years to get over what happened to me seek help now... | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:46:06 PM | | dear, in the future avoid the(pardon me for being blunt)slut stage....it will come, you'll feel like it helps....it happens I know...you'll want revenge for someone ripping apart your peace of mind....and you will comfort in the arms of anyone and anything that isn't cruel, and that will lead to intimacy on a superficial level. Don't let this person get away with hurting you.. I don't mean actually harmful revenge....you tell them face to face or by letter every wrenching detail of what it did to you. This man was supposed to protect and love you, not be a monster and take advantage of his position. I was forced by the guy I lost my virginity to(whom I adored and would never wish bad) many sexual things I tried to refuse, and he was stronger physically and made me feel like trash and used me like a toilet...or so it felt....but those are things that he'll have to go to the grave knowing he did to someone, and I cannot let him ruin my present or future....he has my past....but it's gone now....and after him Icould have went about things differently.....and my forgetting would have happened alot sooner than later.....if nothing else...tell someone....you'd be amazed at how many women and girls have been raped...I think it's every four minutes a woman is raped...EVERY FOUR MINUTES.....the only way it will continue is if they are not exposed and they are never confronted......tell someone....anyone....I'm sosorry this happened to you...peace and love be with you, Rainy | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:57:39 PM | | Rebecca, don't you dare second guess your beauty. You ARE GORGEOUS!!! My advice is like everyone else that has posted thus far. You need to seek help to deal with this. Don't wait too long to get help. I did finally, now that I am 37 it is difficult to find someone. I thought time would heal the pain, and that I could overcome the fear of women hurting me again, but I was sooo very wrong. My story is of child abuse. I was abused by my mother when I was young, and that carried into my adult life, and I avoided women out of fear and lack of trust. I needed help, and that is exactly what you need to get too. Take care, and good luck! | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 8:58:59 PM | Hi Rebecca,
Honestly it's not you, the person who raped you is a sick-puppy, big time!!!! I can think of alot of "choice" words, for that creep!!! I have an idea you can think of them on your own.
I know for a fact alot of guys are scum of the earth, but not all of them. I was raped a long time ago & I have an idea what you are "going" thru.
You definitely aren't a piece of "trash", or what-ever negative you think of your-self.
Truly you are a beautiful young lady!!!!
When you start to believe the negative things your head is drilling into your soul, that's when you could be in BIG trouble. Please don't ever go there! I've sorta been there, & after dating the past 2 guys, if I meet another 1 that hurts me in any way I'm apt to "go there"!
All I can suggest for you to do is get on with your life. Pursue the "things" that make u happy.
Maybe check out the beauty around (nature), go for a picnic at your favorite spot, bring a good friend with you.
Try to be kind to people you meet, even if they aren't nice people, it will help your heart. Laugh alot, what-ever makes you laugh, go for it!!!!
Do you think I've "talked" your ear off???? Hopefully the advice I'm giving you will ease the pain.
This word stinks, time. As for feeling "down" about your-self time will help!!
A few more "things", then I'll "shut up".
One thing I did was focus on helping animals. Loving animals & caring for them, helps my heart, alot!!!!
Please be very careful, if you plan to date on-line.
Feel free to email me, if you'd like.
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:25:42 PM | Everyone here is giving you great advise and I can honestly say its not your looks. You are a beautiful girl who's been through a bunch. Don't let the negative feelings bring you down or get ingrained into your thoughts. Seek some help and try to do something you enjoy, sports, writing, reading, etc.
You will come through this in the end for the better. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:30:08 PM | You are beautiful, you are what heven is made form, you are a national treasure and what you went through is horrid. Worse that horrid disgusting and I am sorry that such a beautiful young lady as yourself had to endure that. There is no excuse, you sholud turn this guy in to the police and press charges. Thank the Good Lord you are not my daughter this person would have assumed room tempeture long ago.
Miss you wanted the truth and I'll give you my take on it straght up and honest. Your beauty intimidates men who are not as good looking as you, you become an unreachable goal in their minds eye, the good looking guys the popular ones who can get any girl at a moments notice the tall ones who can have any girl hey want at any time they want-- those are the ones who normally aren't worth spitting on. But life is a trade off and at times a big one, life is cold and always cruel it has no cmpassion whatsoever. In that mess you have to decide what it is you want in a man there is no correct answer to that ether.
If someone only wants you for sex then that is not a relationship, if someone wants you for only your looks (arm candy) that isn't one either. But if someone likes your soul, your spirit and your mind then you at least have a chance.
We are all visual creatures and will tend to seek our own kind be it looks, intelligence, power or for money we tend to graduate to the type of people who most reflect our own self image it is a form of natural selection. Your task if what you truely seek is someone to love you for the wonderous person you are is to go out side the box. That is easier said than done you are so very young and beautiful it is going to be difficult for you to find a man that isn't out just for your body and your looks again it is the natural selection thng. You will find it however there is no real way to tell you how. I wish there was.
Were I to suggest what you should do would be presumtious, however a sure fire sign is if sex is the only reason you are attracted to someone or they attracted to you it likely will wind up in failure & hurt. You could go to older men not my age of course but older men have a propensity for being a little more mature, a wee bit kinder, and a lot more compassonate.
The rapist should be shot plain and simple there is no excuse for that period. I wish I had more answers for you but I am not that bright or skilled, but your story went to my heart and I wish you well, you have my e-mail address as does everyone els who happens to read my reply and if you want to chat talk write about it then all I can do is tell you I am here. I mam not trying to get you to come out with me I do not want that, but if you need a friend and confidant write. That goes for anyone else also. In closing bleiv m yo are a work of fine ar and anyone on the planet would be lucky to just know you. thats my take on it. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:35:16 PM | Hello Honey,
I know exactly how you feel. I've been in the same situation(s) as yourself. I've been raped twice by the same guy who was supposed to be my friend and my boyfriend. He was also violent sometimes. Every man i've ever gotten close to has either sexually abused me or physically hurt me, even my own family. My dad and my brother have violent anger problems and ever since I can remeber, i've always been beaten and such.
I had no self esteem and I became very suicidal.. I was addicted to drugs and alcohol. I tried to OD every night and Im surprised i'm still alive. I decided enough was enough and I learned self defense, I studied human psychology in my spare time, I went through programs to help me with my substance abuse and my self esteem problems.. and now I don't let any man treat me like i'm worthless again. See, women who are often in abusive relationships seem to fall into the same hard relationships over and over because they were abused as a child , usually by thier fathers but it could be abuse from anyone as a child, physical or mental abuse.. so we tend to follow the abusive violent relationships without even realizing it because thats what we're used to.. You are not pretty... you're beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you anything less. I still have problems, and it will take time for us to move past them.. but you have to learn to take control of your own life and realize your life is precious. Having a man in your life isn't important or vital. True love comes unsuspectingly and you deserve it more than most. It WILL come to you sweetie.. but before finding someone who sees your beauty inside and out and loves you, you have to learn to love yourself. Its hard for others to love and respect you if you don't love and respect yourself. Men that are violent and controling go after women who are vulnerable because they are easy to rape and abuse and control. It gives them power and makes them feel mighty.. Thats why you keep falling into the same horrible relationships. You don't deserve the abuse in any way at all. Stand up for yourself , look in the mirror, and TELL yourself that you deserve the world and that you're strong. Take a stand and show the world your strength and that you're not going to let anyone hurt you again. Its easier said than done, I know.. but in the end its worth it. Don't ever give up and if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to talk to me anytime. I can completely relate to you as i've been in your position over and over. Before you know it, some charming, sweet, loyal guy is going to sweep you off your feet and never let anyone hurt you again. This guy will be deserving of your love and he'll know hes the luckiest man in the world. I know you feel hurt and lonely every day and you want love.. I feel the same.. but again, you don't need a man in your life to make you happy. You just need yourself and your strength.
Again, the reason why relationships don't usually work out with you has NOTHING to do with your looks. Girls would kill to look as pretty as you, i'm dead serious. The reason is because you have no confidence, you have a lot of trust issues, you hide things inside, you're afraid to show guys your true self, and you don't love yourself at all. You focus on the negative things you feel you have. When you look in the mirror, all you see is flaws.. now is the time to heal yourself and gain love and respect and dignity for yourself. Guys will see that and come running. Don't jump into just any relationship with any guy that throws a compliment at you. Start off as friends and get to know him before getting close. Be honest and open with a guy that you start to feel comfortable around and you start to trust. If you date any guy that comes along just because you're lonely and have low self esteem, it never works out, trust me. Take time for YOURSELF and heal and then true love will hit you when you least expect it and you'll be the happiest woman in the world. I give you all the luck in the world honey.
Take care sweetheart,
-Apalahh | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:37:33 PM | I think you definitely ought to listen to the advice given above... certainly can be a good idea to seek out help for something like that.
You shouldn't feel it's your looks either... I don't think you've any problems there myself anyway :)
I might say.. don't worry about being with someone just for the sake of being with them... spend time with other gals who are really your friends..
Take your time and look for that guy who really respects you, and make sure you respect and believe in yourself. (certainly if it was easy to find someone like that none of us would be here )
Take care! | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:49:36 PM | :) I agree with the nice man above and I also wanted to mention that love goes much farther than whats on the outside. Any man who only cares about looks doesn't deserve you. Its hard to see how you could possibly think your looks is driving guys away, if anything it brings guys TO you. You're very beautiful.. and i'm a very blunt person lol If I didn't mean it, I wouldn't lie and say you're beautiful if I thought you weren't.. but you ARE beautiful. For now on, everytime you think or say something negative about yourself, think of something positive about yourself. Its a cute little trick that i've taught myself to do and its helped A LOT. What it does is it makes your see yourself in a much more positive way because you're very negative towards yourself and if you even that out with positive compliments, you'll start to think good things about yourself as much as bad things and then it will slowly make you think more good than bad things... so everytime you say to yourself "i'm ugly" "i'm useless" "my life is crap" "I'll never be good enough for love" etc etc, FORCE yourself to think something nice about yourself.. everyone likes something about themselves. Even if you don't think anything positive about yourself. Force yourself to say something nice about yourself even if you think you don't mean it. I'm serious, it really does help. Again, I do study human psychology as a hobby and i've become quite good at it, so if you need help, please don't hesitate to contact me. Take care of yourself!!
-Apalahh | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:50:04 PM | | hey... you are so beautiful.... just remember that true beauty comes from within! There is always a reason to push on, even for those who love you. Don't judge yourself by somone else's poor decisions. If you let that bring you down to the bottom,.... you gave the other person full controll... don't do that......it is always darkest just before the day dawneth....be strong... and take back your self worth... don't allow him to have that tooo! | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:51:56 PM | rape is an act of anger and control.
i just broke up with my fiance (we were together for three yrs), and the other night he raped me. not violently, but it was rape all the same i said no and he didnt listen.
youre not worthless and neither am i. being sexually assulted seriously damages a persons self esteem, all you can do it work through it. stay single and discover your true worth. because only when you know your true worth will that shine thru to others. people with a low self esteem give off some kind of radar or aura or whatever you want to call it that attracts losers like him. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 9:52:13 PM | Sorry you got raped.
"People always tell me that I am "pretty" or whatever...but I dont beleive it."
And there lies your problem. Until you're willing to admit to yourself that you're attractive, and that you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, you're going to encounter guys that recognzie you have self esteem issues and will try to take advantage of you, because they know they can, and you're not likely to say or do anything about it. The fact that you only seem interested in "popular" boys, probably further creates a bad situation for you, since the vast majority of "popular" people your age, will likely be in a career setting where the most common question asked is: "Would you like fries with that?"
Seriously, you're ****ing 17. Try to figure yourself out, before you worry about having to be in a relationship with someone.
"I stopped trusting guys, and I started becoming interested in guys who werent as popular and were good friend material."
Uh..... what exactly makes someone not being so popular only good friends material? With a statement like that, it sounds like you're more interested in being with someone that's popular, because that will give you social status then because you have an actual interest in them.
On the bright side, you're a zelda fan. I'm willing to bet some guys like that in a chick. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 10:10:23 PM | Your personality, including your idea of yourself, is going to be made up of what you think about yourself and also how other people see you, or at least, your assumptions about how they see you. Your feelings about yourself also come from this idea of yourself. That's the self-image thing.
Being young your self-image as a young adult is still forming, made up of things you collect from experiences and conversations, including ones you have with yourself. When something happens that changes the things you think about yourself, it changes how you feel about yourself.
Three things come to mind in your situation. First, counseling for the rape will help sort out your thoughts and feelings so they end up being healthy instead of self-destructive. Left to your own devices, it is possible that the thoughts and feelings you have about yourself will be expressing the pain and outrage from being attacked. In such an expression of pain and outrage you run the risk of turning your thoughts against yourself. Counseling with a competent therapist will help make sure that doesn't happen. It also guides you to an understanding you can live with and one that restores your self-image, sense of safety, and faith in humanity.
The second thing is that as a young mind takes shape it can lean heavily on what other people think, which is not a good plan. It is natural to consider the opinions and feelings of others about yourself, but there must be a core idea of who you are that doesn't depend on what anyone else thinks of you. It should be rock solid against any opinions and criticisms. You need to be able to believe in yourself, recognize your own intrinsic worth as a human being, and be on your own side, not against yourself. Then when others also approve of you, great, but if they don't, oh well their loss. In life we all answer first and last to our own conscience and heart, so, to thine own self be true. Be yourself, make no apologies for who you are, ask the world for what you need, act on your own behalf, and know that you belong here just as much as everyone else, and are as good as anyone and no worse than anyone. Your worth is there to acknowledge and it's your job to see it; to build yourself up not put yourself down.
The last thing is love is great, sex is great, relationships are great, but there are ways to go about it that work better than other ways. You're young and most of what you do in the love department is practice. It's real for what it is, but at 17 it isn't mature yet and so keep that in mind. I wouldn't expect a mature healthy adult relationship yet, because neither yourself nor the men your age are quite able to have one yet. Learn as you go and know your limits. Enjoy good company. Have fun flirting. Go out and do things. It's too soon to have an adult relationship though. A balanced emotional life is had from doing many different things and not just being all about a guy and a relationship. It is about having other interests and goals, which make you a well-rounded person and give you the chance to learn, grow and succeed. For now you're still growing and learning, just new at being a young adult. The dating part should be small, fun but small, and your emotional well-being should come from other interests, such as social activities, community involvement, work, school, hobbies, religion if you're into it, artistic pursuits, sports, friendships and family relationships, and so on. Romance is one facet of the diamond you are, but shouldn't be the only one that sparkles. Balance and patience.
I am so sorry you got raped. Please do listen to us all and go for counseling. It helps, and if you don't deal with it up front now that way, it sort of hangs out and wrecks everything until you do. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 10:45:12 PM | It would be wise to listen to all that have given you their advice. This is not something that will just pass with the flow of time. You need to be counciled on this and not take any blame for what happened. What you're ex-bf did was not only a monsterous thing to do...it was fully against the law. But I'm sure others have said this too you and I won't press on the matter any more.
Like the others have stated...I am so very sorry to hear this has happened to you. You're trust in men and relationships has been damaged for sure. I hope and pray that you can overcome this and not beat yourself up too hard about what others say or think of you. Good luck. | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 11:00:17 PM | Being raped does not make you worthless..
The best thing you can do for yourself is to seek professional help to resolve these issues you are dealing with and the emotions you are feeling. Sometimes we disregard the feelings and emotions we have after a traumatic event as something natural.. But they arent, and they need to be dealt with or they will not go away..
It sounds to me like you're trying to attach yourself to anyone who will like you.. Because maybe you really do feel worthless.. Dont get into a relationship so you can feel complete.. You need to be complete, and happy with who you are before you can ever have a successful and fulfilling relationship with someone else.. And it goes for the other person in the relationship too.. They cant be clinging to you to feel complete, they need to be happy with who they are..
Thats just my opinion. If you ever need to talk I am here to listen.
Hugs,
Hangover gal | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 11:13:16 PM | You could never be worthless cheri...
Nope... your looks would never push a decent guy away...
Your to young to think the way you do, i dont think anyone can be old enough either...
I dont understand rape or how it would affect a girl but, you got loads going on sweetheart.
Hope it helps ok " " | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 11:17:24 PM | | cheri.....i was also raped ...the first time i was 5 and my uncle was old..very old...i dont even remember......the second time i was 33 and there were five of them...and they didnt just rape me, they tortured me by burning me....and my ex was very abusive......but let me tell you this girl, it didnt make me worthless.........hell comin thru that crap prolly increased my value cause my strength and self esteem hadda really overcome to make me what i am today...i aint perfect...but i can take alotta things on tha chin that would put another person on their knees...........an healin is ongoin...it will be part of my life forever.......yours too......but in order fer that healin to be ongoin...its gotta start........an tha only way to do that is by talking to someone who knows how to identify and help you work thru the different stages of this.......i am talkin a professional who is trained to help you channel yer rage, yer hate, yer fear......and tha self destructive forces this kinda thing stirs up in a person...........someone who can hold a mirror up to yer face and keep it there until you see tha beautiful person God created and shaped thru fire........ya coulda been just a clay pot...but tha man upstairs musta figured you fer a more useful vessel and put ya in a kiln to bake ya........this only means you have a more meaningful life ahead of ya..and that you can touch more ppl in more powerful ways.......but ya gotta start with yerself first......the hardest and the first assignment i had from my therapist was to list 10 things i liked about myself............if you can do that easily ...then ya prolly dont need help with yer self esteem...but i challenge ya ta try it...........an if ya cant...then help is there waitin....... | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/10/2005 11:33:16 PM | To whom are you worthless? A lot of us have been there, and asked ourselves the very same ugly questions. All boils down to some goof's power trip. Don't give him that power!
Becky ... I want you to stand in front of the mirror ... lock eyes with the person in there ... and say: "I'M WORTH IT!" It's not your fault. Someone can't accept you?... It's their loss.
Steve | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/11/2005 12:00:46 AM | I wante to sympathize with your feelings. they are as real and solid as you percieve that they are. The pain and insecurity has a grip on you and you want to overcome that. I would want that just the same as you, if I were in your shoes. One avenue for recovery is to look for a lie in each of those experiences. often, our mind it caught up in trying to figure out why people do things to us, but we fail because we are blind to a lie contained in the experience, so our bondage to it won't go away. We can't figure it out.
One lie, that I might offer, is that a person used violence against you, when he was angry at himself. He had to punish someone, but he could not take responsibility for his troubles himself. You were his scapegoat. for him to blame you for his problems and punish you, is like a robber balming his victim for getting robbed. the victim deserves no blame.
Another lie about why guys push you away is that they are young and immature, and can only play at girlfriend/boyfriend games. You have lots of time. they have lots of time.
They have to grow up, and you have to feel strong enough to know that you don't need a love interest at the time in your life when an education is the most important thing for you to seek after. You also don't want a co dependent kind of relationship that will blow up in your face. That could happen if you get too involved with the wrong person because of your inexperience. date lightly, don't seek after love so young in your life. Please Don't think that a man's love will fill in for something else that may be missing.
There are many women not marrying until their late 20's. In the meantime, be careful. I met a woman with condyloma that was sexually active before marriage and there is no cure. for it.
There may be other lies in your pain other than what I offered. I don't have that knowledge, but it is in your head and heart, and if you know what to look for, you will overcome this. ok? | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/11/2005 12:48:42 AM | Just a quick note, as i logged on i saw ur statement, about raped and worthless, Listen for what its worth, im older than you, it happened to me when i was a young lad by an older man, when i was young they where perverts now they call them pedophiles.
you have to remain strong believe in you, all that is good about you. believe in the future and what you can do with it, live it to the full.
its not about how many breaths you take! its about how many times your breath is taken away, by what you will see and do, lifes experiences.
control freaks mainly men will do bad things, but there are good young men out there for you somewhere for you.
remember this people that are good for you will lift you, bad people drag you down, dont accept that or them.
if some one loves you they will never tell you who to have as a friend, what time to come in, what to wear, neither will they harm or hit /hurt you.
I have had a wonderfull life and career, as a result of the drive and determination of what happened, ending up in special forces in the marines, then becoming a bodyguard, own company. i have a beautiful 7 yr old son who i adore, still sinlge though, lol cant have it all.
keep your chin up hun you will survive this. if you ever need a friend to chat im here ok
x mally x
dont let the **stards grind you down, rise above it be you allways................ | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/11/2005 1:05:25 AM | Cheri,(Rebecca) you look like a nice girl. Your are probably making bad choices as far as you interests in the opposite sex goes. You are very young. You have so much time. The best advice i can give you is this. Believe in yourself. Know you own self worth, and spend some time in front of the mirror telling yourself that you are a beautiful girl with so much to offer...which you are. I have been where you are at.
Always go with your first instinct...if you feel something negative, or feel that you are questioning yourself a little too much over a guy, or anything else for that matter, then follow those instincts right away, and tell yourself that you are right (it's always that first instinct that is correct that people choose to ignore)...and don't take him serious if you have any negative thoughts about him. I know this is easier said than done. I only wish i knew back then what i know now. I somehow feel that living the experience will be your only way. Not many people take advice. I never did..lol..i always had to learn the hard way..;)
abuse in any shape or form is not healthy and will not change for the better...it only gets worse. Trust me | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/11/2005 1:08:14 AM | | Rebecca if you feel this way then the rapist wins dont let him continue to have that power over you your a bright beautiful intelligent girl repeat this 6 times a day every day and believe it | |
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| I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 6/11/2005 1:13:09 AM | Cheri
You are not NOW nor will you EVER be worthless.
Get help.....the Goddess shines from within you - you are very much a beautiful woman. You have to go within yourself to find that beauty...and when you do, watch out world...
Squeak | |
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