| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 11:38:24 AM | | im a 26 year old whos mom cheated on his dad cheated on her second husband, am a brother to a sister that was cheating on her husband and see ALOT of female friends jumping on any guy willing (theres alot of those guys out there if you didnt know) not to mention girlfriends(past girlfriends) my question is are they all like that and if not where can i find these/this women/woman? | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 11:39:48 AM | | I have never cheated and I am sure there are plenty of other women out there who are in the same boat as me. Keep looking and it will come...eventually... | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 11:40:27 AM | Good gawd, not all women are like that!!
I understand why your defenses are up, but try not to paint us all with the same brush!
Oh, and quit grabbing your crotch.... it's really unattractive. JMHO
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 11:44:35 AM | I've never cheated. I have a dad that cheated on my mom - does this mean that I should be suspicious of ALL men? I sure hope not. | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 12:01:29 PM | | Not all women are like that. I can't claim to have never cheated, but it happened at a time where I wasn't happy in my relationship and had some pretty major self-esteem issues... and I was young and stupid then too. When I met my ex, those things changed. I may **** and complain about him sometimes, but he did teach me I'm worth more then I thought I was. | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 1:40:20 PM | I've never cheated on anyone, and I don't think I ever would. I was tempted a few times, but I realized the problem was that I wasn't happy in my relationship, and that I needed to resolve that relationship before getting involved with another guy. And even though I wasn't happy with my boyfriend, I loved him too much to hurt him like that.
You just need to find someone honest, mature, and respectful. | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 2:03:33 PM | my question is are they all like that and if not where can i find these/this women/woman?
Obvious the answer is no. Either is the true or we are all lieng of the answer.
There is no magical location where all the honest people live. | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 2:24:16 PM | Jeez! That's a bit of history!
Not all women are like that..sorry to be blunt though OP..it does seem to be the case that if you have experienced this kind of thing then for some reason these are the kind of women you will be attracted to. I hope I am wrong..but you hear about this so much that there must be something in it.
If you have had these isues then pull away from dating for a while and think about what you want..it might help you at least slow down perhaps so that you can gauge someone before things get too serious and you get hurt. | |
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| trustworthy women Posted: 8/8/2008 2:37:43 PM | How about having your mother, sister, or friend introduce you to one of their friends? After all, water seeks its own level.
On the serious side OP, many of us aren't like that. You can also start by being the type of person who you would want to be with. | |
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