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 ladydi8

Joined: 1/28/2006
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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/11/2008 9:41:52 AM
posted with my permission with screename in the title/pandy
aug.10 heart attack....but you wont have heart problems in heaven, my freind!

....ron, i greive for you, and many others will too...for you cannot ever be replaced!

your wit, your humor, your knowlege and charisma..the way you jumped right into the thick of things, your were a brawler, a barn burner from days of yore!

you had an eye for the ladies and a silver tongue to charm them with,
a twinke in your eye and a dash of mischief, you gleefully threw caution to the wind
and boldy took your chances when you chose!

you were adventerous and fun! oh you were fun! and kind...and no one will ever be able to walk the walk you did or stand as tall as you ....

and i miss you my freind...keep your lines tight, and tie your flies!
 Funny_Girl

Joined: 10/27/2005
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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/11/2008 10:50:14 AM
Oh, no!

I'm stunned...wow, di. Thank you for sharing. Yes, yes...he WILL be missed.
 Amapola1

Joined: 8/28/2007
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goodbye thudpucker...a new star is shining tonight..
Posted: 8/11/2008 11:09:58 AM
To all the friends out there that Ron was part of their lives, our bright spot will
always be shining.
For many of us who knew him he was that "One In A Million", that touched us in a
special way.
So this is not a final goodbye we will again meet you one day in the future.
So long special friend....
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/28/2006
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goodbye thudpucker...a new star is shining tonight..
Posted: 8/11/2008 12:02:11 PM
you are so right amapola! for i refuse to believe in the finality of death!

it is but a gateway ...a passing thru into another realm and i know i will see ron on the other side!

and yes, ron is that "one in a million" and he will always be just a call away...and i will continue to talk to my friend any time i want to..he is still there for me, just like he has always been .,..just in a different way.

as for the rest of you, don't stop talking to him, don't stop listening for his laughter, or stop feeling his presence in your lives,...for if you do, you will lose his memory and your lives will be lacking the legacy that this wonderful man leaves behind!

 Fleur_de_Lis

Joined: 3/7/2008
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goodbye thudpucker...a new star is shining tonight..
Posted: 8/11/2008 2:06:31 PM
This is sad - thank you for letting us know, LadyDi

God Bless him

 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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goodbye thudpucker...a new star is shining tonight..
Posted: 8/11/2008 2:37:36 PM
Ron was one of my earliest friends here. I want to thank Amapola1 for emailing me and di for starting this thread.

I, too believe that the soul is eternal and that love is too, like God the only forevers that exist. So the soul and body now reside in different places and shares a place in our hearts.

So we say to our dear friend, with the bittersweet of tears and smiles not goodbye but til next we meet.
 mz taken

Joined: 11/30/2007
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Posted: 8/11/2008 3:13:17 PM
I think I ran across his posts here and there, I didn't know of him like you all did, but this is sad news nonetheless.
it's kind of eerie that in light of how recent his passing is, his profile is still up. who knows, maybe he would have liked that.
 curlygrl

Joined: 11/8/2006
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Posted: 8/11/2008 4:36:35 PM
I am shocked. I always enjoyed his post.

Too the point - no mudslinging. Made you think.

May perpetual light shine on his soul-
May his soul and all the souls of the
faithful departed rest in peace -
Amen.

He will be missed. He was wonderful on the forums.
I would often see his post and think- oh forget it, he made my
point.

Im sorry we did not get to know each other.
The wonders of the forums here- we see so many here and when
one leaves us and takes thier wisdom- it is truly sad.
 ladydi8

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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:45:55 PM
anita i tried to call you..
phones...they suck at times like these...

and i had two dr appts today....
another one tomarrow...i hated you finding out from the computer darling grits sister,..



would have been hugging you close if i could have been...you KNOW ...

THE HUG!

ron knew that hug tooo....: )...it came from the toes to the heart..and wrapped all the way around a person ...and he is still able to send us those kind of hugs..

dont ever think he cant!

and by the way...you are all welcome..i just thought we needed a place to tell him goodbye...i wrote to pandy and told her about this thread...i hope they let us keep it going...
 blondago56

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Posted: 8/11/2008 4:53:25 PM
hey there Di.... omg...wow... Prayers for His Family.... his personality shone through in his words here......too young...too soon...But then The Angels need to be kept on their toes, too huh?
 bucsgirl

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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/11/2008 5:16:43 PM
"i hated you finding out from the computer darling grits sister,.." I appreciate that sweetie, I got your message but don't have your phone no. I got emails from several people, it doesn't matter it's someone who cares about him that told me.

God doesn't make a mistake, he's where he should be. And while we miss him, his great stories, his caring and his hearty laugh, it's a privilege to be able to still share his spirit.
 McChucker

Joined: 2/28/2007
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:39:22 AM
I loved reading Thud's witty and down to earth posts. I will miss him for sure. Thank you Di for posting this
 Byrd

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Posted: 8/12/2008 8:39:49 AM
Very sad to lose another kind and loving soul from Plentyoffish..Many of us have become Brothers and Sisters through this oasis, my prayers go out to his family and close friends..God Bless You thudpucker..David
 rawrrrr

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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:00:50 AM
I didn't know who it was, so I went to his profile. Seems like he was a really cool dude. I'm sorry for the loss of all of you who knew him.
 Maddie51

Joined: 4/22/2005
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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:44:31 AM
Ron has always been a source of laughter and wit for as long as I have been here in the pond. He will be missed by this old fish. My heartfelt sympathies to his family and my prayers as well.

Ron: May your road to Heaven be without stones and your arrival be joyous! Look down on your old pals from time to time and smile, will you please?

Rest in peace good friend.
 ~Mrs.Wabbit~

Joined: 11/25/2007
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Rest in peace...
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:51:22 AM

Many of us have become Brothers and Sisters through this oasis


This statement rings very true of these pond waters, deep friendships have been formed, and it is always sad to see a long time member leave us in this way. As one who has been here nearly three years, I very much remember "Thudpuckers" posts, and he did offer great advice and always to the point.

I am sorry to hear of his passing, and I do offer up my prayers to his family, and that he will make a safe journey to our almighty creator.


Rest in peace Ron.



Wabbit.
 nuttykitten

Joined: 5/26/2008
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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:58:22 AM

I didn't know who it was, so I went to his profile. Seems like he was a really cool dude. I'm sorry for the loss of all of you who knew him.

i didnt think it was my place to post in this thread, but i can onley follow that quote.
:O(
 Leeanne

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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:01:08 AM
I send out a prayer and condolences to those who are touched by the loss of Ron. A little bit of POF will go with him - we will send up a forum or two for him to play in! May God Bless!
 *champrins*

Joined: 7/12/2008
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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/12/2008 11:12:42 AM
It is kind of amazing, the friendships we form here, and the contributions they make to our lives. In so many ways.

And thanks LadyDi for the heads up. And I'd like to say there goes another amazing person who went out of her way to reach out to someone else here.

The people who do this, and who touch our lives, didnt have to, they chose to.

*fly well* Thudpucker
Seems you have left little parts of you all over there place here. And that they live on.

Good Journey

jax
 salamander000

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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/12/2008 11:20:50 AM
oh man, all I can do is cry...I can't even say anything relevant...f*ck, how s that? (tears)
 kayliecat

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goodbye thudpucker..you will be missed !
Posted: 8/12/2008 11:30:57 AM
Thank you LadyDi for letting us know...

Many prayers to his family.

I'm sure he's in Heaven right now watching over all of us.

He will be missed by many. I really enjoyed his posts, although I didn't know him personally.

Kaylie
 best kept secret

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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:32:16 AM
Thank you for letting me know Lady.....On his profile he said, "Trying to be a Living Legend "


I think it will happen for him...the stories told by those who knew him, will have others thankful he was around!
 ladydi8

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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:39:04 AM
well gang..i can't do anything eles for ron right now..my dr.s have grounded me and lets face it...we aint made of money! so i sat down here at my computer today and for ron..........i notified everyone i could think of so that you all had a chance to say goodbye to him yourselve...

....some of you had already found this thread so i skipped those names..and if there are any that i left out let me apologize in advance..there are so many ppl on here that loved ron..its hard to think of all of you...and i am greiveing for my friend as well..

ron, i will always love you and i will miss talking to you on the phone but we will still talk, you know that as well as i do..and i will always hear your laughter,and your jokes and feel your compassion.,..and we will still keep our hooters date ...just like you were here...you will be in spirit...and i love you big guy! always my friend!
 Coastergal

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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:42:41 AM
It's always sad to lose a friend. It's great that Thudpucker was able to make some special friends that helped him look at things in a different light. His posts were funny as well as genuine. He'll be missed in hearts and in the forums.
 Wolves-Lower

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Posted: 8/12/2008 11:53:47 AM
Thudpucker-Ron,
One of the Good Fish indeed.
Early in my career at POF he sent me an email that was so to the point and funny that it permanently stained my computer monitor.

Life is a delicate thing.
We come here naked and we leave naked...
The only thing that matters in-between the nakedness of life is the love we give and the love we receive.

Tight lines my friend.
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