| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:27:50 PM | " I love you but I'm not in love with you"
Got this line a few months ago and just wanted to plead with you men and women out their that are about to break up with someone to not use this line. I have heard from others recently that they have gotten this line as well. Dont know if this is the new way to breakup with someone gently or if its on Cosmo's hip things to say list. I personally dont like it because it cheapens the word love. What do you guys think?
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:31:09 PM | | Its one of the dumbest things Ive heard. (Not in person mind you) First time I heard is was in a British soap opera. OK, Ok, Ok but there is nothing else on at 2am... | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:36:45 PM | Hi Snowguy, It's my hunch that she didn't know how to say "you aren't the man for me, I want to keep looking". It is tough to choose the right words. What do you think she could have said to make it more palatable?
On a lighter note, I heard this line, suppposedly actually used : "It's been real and it's been nice, but not real nice". Wonder why I find that funny? | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:39:02 PM | | "How about I love you like a friend, but not romantically in love with you." Is that better? LOL | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:40:29 PM | HEY.... my ex didnt even have the BALLS to break up with me... he just was a total A*S untill I had enough and took the plunge myself.... then i found out he had someone else nearly the whole time......But what the hey!!! i wish him all the best... or at least as much joy as he deserves..... | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 8:48:27 PM | | Well I think she didnt love me that much because two weeks after we broke up she was on a dating site again and used our cruise pictures with me cut out of them on her profile. Very classy. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:02:34 PM | | That sounds like a man that I dated for almost two years. He finally was so over bearing and just a total poo poo head that I let him know that I was tired of his tricks. He seemed knowledgeable enough about reading between the lines. I ran into him a few weeks later and he was, of course, with another woman. Then a few months past and he showed up at my front door, but needless to say I had already decided that he could date anyone else he wanted to, but I guess he decided that I wasn't so bad afterall. It is too bad I didn't feel the same. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:03:23 PM | This is about par with the other most ridiculous line I ever heard... "Love doesn't mean you have to say you are sorry".. wtf????!!!!! sheesh.. no Love mans you say you are sorry when you hurt someone else!!! sheesh..
I guess what that line means is that one has a deep affection for the person.. but they can live without them.
I have always heard.. never marry someone you feel you can live without.. only marry someone you feel you can't live without. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:06:35 PM | | sweetdreams, what you did isnt stupid and plenty of people would of done the same thing. Sometimes we lose our confidence and self-respect after being rejected and we base our actions on emotions instead of being rational. I said goodbye for good even though she wanted to be friends because I knew she didnt respect me and I cant even be friends let alone dating someone that does not respect me. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:15:02 PM | | The worst can be no words exchanged. Last year, I woke up on my birthday, checked my girlfriend's Myspace page, and saw that she had changed her status from "in a relationship" to "single," and her mood to "hopeful." | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:16:15 PM | The FIRST time i ever heard that was when my wonderful EX player that he was, and gullible that i was even then.....said it to me when we were dating....and i was pregnant. !!!!
yep. pretty stupid , wasnt i!?? And heartbroken, i didnt care. I packed my bags, took my preteen daughters and walked out the door. And the redneck rethought it and came after me. And stupid me. I walked back. I KNEW he was not husband material. and told him so. He would come in all sweaty. Take a shower before ever coming to bed. I knew he had been out dancing!!!! Make every excuse under the sun to go out with his "buds." but no matter what, i wasnt invited. Hurt my daughters to death. They would tell him, MOM needs to get out of the house too!!! He called me up and says, I dont know if ...you .....expect me to tell you this, but i do love you. but ....im not IN LOVE with you. Then....when he popped the question a few months later, . I just up and said no way.....you think i will honestly marry a MAN who "loves me but aint IN LOVE with me! pffffffffttttttt!!!!" lmao! And so he said, I AM in love with you ....HAHA! BOY did that kill him to actually say that!!! he had told me I LOVE YOU too. without the "BUT IM NOT IN LOVE" so i knew he now loved me, but still it was funny to hear him actually SAY IM IN LOVE IWTH YOU"
but in reality......i think a man that says that , really is stumped. he dont know what wants in life. steer clear!!! | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:19:36 PM | | That was the worst line I heard it was from my wasband of being married for 28 years. Wow lost all that time for that line. Hope to find a real man now that knows the diffrence of the meaning love. Its a inmature statement and hurts with all those years | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:19:54 PM | ya ever think maybe that`s how the person really feels?.......ya think it might be possible that she was actually not in love with you....omg the horror.....shit happens.....not everyone is gonna be in love with ya .....reality check...... | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:27:46 PM | " Hey Ricardo, I am wondering if we can put a hold to our relationship for two weeks?? My dad is in the hospital and has a health problem. I am under a lot of stress, so I need these two weeks. "
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it was not the worst!! it was just so F'ing confusing!! that it left me speechless. cause after two weeks..she was with another guy. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 9:30:41 PM | | justloooking, didnt mean to offend you and your right sometimes when someone says that line they mean it, but in her case her actions speak otherwise. Anyway that was months ago, my friend over the weekend told me that he got this line and thats why i brought up this discussion. Thats all. I get rejected all the time so i definately know that not everyone is gonna be in love with me. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 11:13:24 PM | I got a doozie...
He wrote me an email. "I am sorry about you breaking your nose in the softball game and that you could not reach me when it happened. But I have some news, and it may shock you. " (Here is the line) I met a girl two weeks ago at that wedding I went to. She is moving in this Friday and we will be married next month." How's that for the world's boldest kiss off? | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/17/2008 11:40:57 PM | | come on ppl ur not gonna be in love with someone every day of ur life my grandparents were married 51 yrs before she died and she even told me that everyonce in a while she hated the man but she made a commitment and she kept that commitment. she also told me at the end of her life that she didnt regret one day even that days she hated him. you wanna move on with ur life fine but lets leave that line out its a cop out to me | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/18/2008 1:23:43 AM | "Your such a nice girl...maybe someone just as nice is out there..but I am not it"
Or "I feel like an a$$hole...and I know I led you on...let's just be friends ok? " | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/18/2008 1:30:22 AM | I got one for you guys from one of my ex's, " i don't think that i'm ready for a relationship, but i hope that we can be friends".......lol.
In my books its a translation of my ex saying in a very polite way that she does not want to have a relationship with me at all ever. The friendship line after being dumped is all bull shit. Majority of times its their way to ease the breakup and the pain. People are too busy in their own lives with their current occupation, upgrading their education skills, their circle of friends, and their families. Once i'm done, i'm done. If they did me wrong during the relationship, then they're gonna do me wrong as a friend. | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/18/2008 1:59:05 AM | kmbrlyc1,
"He wrote me an email. "I am sorry about you breaking your nose in the softball game and that you could not reach me when it happened. But I have some news, and it may shock you. " (Here is the line) I met a girl two weeks ago at that wedding I went to. She is moving in this Friday and we will be married next month." How's that for the world's boldest kiss off?"
HOLY CRAP!!!!!!!!! I hope you weren't drinking anything when you read that! I would've spit it out everywhere out of shock! Wow! "It may shock you" Understatement of the year. I'm assuming it was anyway. From being in a relationship with you to moving in and marrying another woman in 2 wks.... amazing. Thank God you got rid of that one! haha  | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/18/2008 2:04:29 AM | Yeah, mine too, after 18 years. . .
What she really meant was; this guy I've been sleeping with is much better than you. . .
But that would have gone against her Christian values. . .
I think we've all been there! | |
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| The worst breakup line ever Posted: 8/18/2008 2:12:12 AM | "How about I love you like a friend, but not romantically in love with you." Is that better?
No, its no better. Whatever they say, no one is happy when they get dumped. Period. | |
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