| Why do Guys do this?
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:13:28 PM | | I am just wondering as to how do you know if a guy you are dating (especially from these dating sites, with so many options) is taking you seriously. I am pretty sure I am not just talking about myself but I have dated guys that claim that they want a serious relationship with you, only to find out after 1-2 months he is not interested in you anymore and is dating someone else from these dating sites. Why do guys claim they want a serious relationship with you but then date other people? I do not get it? | |
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Posted: 8/19/2008 8:57:34 PM | | well i can't speak for others... but i would think that it would take a few months to see if it "clikc" so that the relationship can be taken seriously. If it doesn't "clik" wel people tend to move on to another fish | |
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Posted: 8/20/2008 8:29:03 AM |
but i would think that it would take a few months to see if it "clikc" so that the relationship can be taken seriously.
wow sorry but I think that after a FEW WEEKS your going to know if you click or not.....NOT months.... | |
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Posted: 8/20/2008 8:47:18 AM | jennifer300 my take on this is that for the moment the women peeks his interest and he will tell the women whatever he thinks she wants to hear....there has to be some sort of interest granted to keep him around for a few months, (better to be with someone then alone......no) until he thinks he has found someone more interesting exciting......guys tend to bore easy with routine and are always thinking the grass is greener else wheres.....
now this is a wide generalization. I understand that.......lol but lets go with 75%-25%sounds pretty accurate to me..... | |
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Posted: 8/20/2008 7:18:09 PM | | I agree with you that it does not take months to know if it clicks or not. You can even tell after the first encounter if it does or does not click. I really thought that the guys that want a serious relationship on these dating sites REALLY do want a serious relationship. I guess these dating sites are for more intimate encounters or casual dating only. It is so sad. There are a lot of good honest people looking for a serious relationship.. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2008 7:41:11 PM | | Hmm people divorce years later because it doesn't click anymore. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2008 11:10:47 PM | | php............... it's far more complicated then just not "clicking" that brings about a divorce....... | |
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Posted: 8/21/2008 5:52:23 AM | It can be that easy too ...
Anyways, maybe they are looking for a serious relationship, maybe they aren't, maybe you weren't the one, maybe you'll find something wrong with Mr X after a month that you never noticed after the first 3 weeks or vice versa
To be honest, a month of dating really isn't a long time if you're going to spend a lifetime with a person, living with them everyday. | |
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Posted: 8/21/2008 7:25:45 AM |
To be honest, a month of dating really isn't a long time if you're going to spend a lifetime with a person, living with them everyday. No its not but I don't think anybody after dating for only 1 month knows where the relationship is headed, it takes lots of time to develop a bond between 2 people to the point of it becoming long term........but then the question made by Jennifer was why do guys say their looking for something serious.if there truly not........ | |
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Posted: 8/21/2008 8:12:51 PM | | Thank you. I find people in general do not take the time to get to know the person. If they do, they may realize ,hey, this person is not so bad after all, maybe something serious can develope (as what these men claim that they want). But however, most people on these dating sites do not give people a chance and they jump on to the next person available. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2008 12:34:27 PM | POMOLIVE IS RIGHT "he will tell the women whatever he thinks she wants to hear "
MEN ARE MAN-WHORES (HOPE THIS IS NOT SWEARING LOL!!)
NO ! NOT SPEAKING ABOUT MYSELF !!
SORRY !! BUT SPEAKING FROM A MAN'S POINT OF VUE ..... MEN WILL SAY/OR/DO ANYTHING TO GET WHAT THEY REALLY WANT ..... "SEX" (MOST ! NOT ALL)
AS FOR MYSELF I WILL GO .... WITH THE FLOW
IF SHE WANT "SERIOUS" THEN I TRY MY BEST... "TO MAKE IT CLICK" I GUESS
HOWEVER IF SHE WANTS ... SAY "CASUAL" I'M JUST AS OPEN
YES, OF COURSE ! I WOULD PREFER A LONG TERM (NOBODY WANTS TO BE A LONER) BUT I'M NOT GOING TO REFUSE .... THE REST
THIS IS JUST ME ..... HONESTLY . WHAT EVER HAPPENS ..... HAPPENS !!
AS TO WHY !!! WELL ....... LUST I GUESS !!! ..... MAYBE IMMATURITY LOL !
NOT MAD ...... JUST LOVE "CAPS" SORRY !! 
LATER | |
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Posted: 8/22/2008 1:10:04 PM | | I for myself will know fairly soon if it's going to work out or not with a woman... Two or three dates and I know... Maybe before... If I think it will not work out, I will not play with the other person and hurt her, I will leave her very soon... Some people are just ''Jumpers''... They stick around with a person until they find better, disregarding completely the other person's feelings, they basically use people... They will jump again and again if they keep finding what they call ''Better'', as if love had that much to do with ''Better''. That goes for males and females... As for leaving someone after 1-2 months, that goes for both ways too... As for leaving long term relationships, Men have no lessons to learn from momen... Just my two cents worth... | |
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Posted: 8/22/2008 7:38:22 PM | | You see this is what bothers me about dating - pretending to want a long term relationship and sticking around until they find someone better. What I do not understand is WHY don't people be honest and say " I am not interested" from the begininning and avoid wasting time for the other person who is interested in something serious. I can't believe how selfish people are... | |
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Posted: 8/28/2008 2:31:59 PM | It's simple .... as with the ladies - sometimes it takes a bit of time to actually know a person. Yes - attraction can be quick - but just because you are attracted physically, doesn't mean it will work in the long run.
There are things you find out only in time - and it's upto you/him to decide if you can deal with it - be it kids, habits, personality, way of life etc ....
At first - it's the honeymoon - after - it's reality.
Your guy will come - it's just a matter of finding more than just attraction. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2008 6:02:18 AM | I'm wondering the same thing.....Had a date planned last night with a really nice guy that i met last sunday...everything was planned phoned him a 8pm to let him know i was running behind his son answered and said he wasnt home so i figured he was on his way... I got ready then 10 pm comes along and no date, no phone call , no message on msn from this guy to say he wasnt coming..needles to say he got a earfull via email
..there is no excuse for him to contact me to cancell....so that gives me 1 more reason not to trust a man......what is with this ????? and i sure dont get the multi dating thing either that you mentioned. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2008 4:02:38 PM | | ya i guess it is a circus............lol .just getting tired of it thats all..........and no matter what if he had a emergency of some sort ??(right) regardless of the emails i sent him he should have phoned me this am to let me know what happened ? pesonally i think he found another date and just fluffed me off | |
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Posted: 10/11/2008 5:25:20 PM | | This is something that members of both genders have done. As a guy, its happened to me, too. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 7:44:41 AM | | i know this happens to both men and women ...but whatever happend to just plain old courteousy that if you cant make the date or changed your mind send a message or something | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 12:22:53 PM | ^^^^^^ that would be too easy.. why make it easy when you can complicate thngs..
But, I am a true believer in what goes around comes around then, back around 
People are People so, don't bother trying to figuring things out... let us put it this way... you are better off without them... | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 1:11:56 PM | Hi all
I think it works 2 ways this thing some lady's do the same thing is that OK ???
As for this guy that dint call you back but he did give you a good nimber so he was not hiding anything. Maybe he got hurt and is in the hospital??? Cant use the phones LOL
and now you gave him a ear full on MSN LOL
I think we need to become friends first see if you get along and then the next step.
There are no gaurantees in life but it does not mean we have to stop trying.
Well hope  works out better for all of you next time around. LOL
Untill then stay safe and be good
Joe  | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 1:34:37 PM | ^^^ the only excuse that would work.. however, never personally happened to me 
1- He was run over by a big truck
2- the tigers caught him and have him in their cage
3- He is in the middle of nowhere in the desert trying to find his way to meet me this one is a big iffy 
4- He is at the hospital in a coma or out of it.
5- And lastly of course "Death" his of course  may he rest in peace | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 9:30:10 PM | LOL From Doctor Joe LOL
This is to certify that Mr. whats his name is in the hospital under my care and could not meet you at the location arranged .LOL
This happened after he was hit buy a truck running away from the tigers while visiting the dessert.
It is with great sadness that we report that due to all the events he fell into a comma and passed away . LOL 
Does this work ??? LOL
Dotor Joe | |
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Posted: 10/13/2008 9:44:49 AM | ^^^^ The Story is fitting and is correct...I stamp this story with my stamp of approval.. the story can't get much better than this Joe   
Happy Thanksgiving Dr. Joe !!!! | |
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Posted: 10/13/2008 10:06:22 AM | | There are tigers visiting a dessert?.......What were they doing trifling with one and other...LOL | |
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