| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 8/19/2008 11:05:37 PM | What is up with those guys that want to IM you right away, see all your sexy pictures and only want to talk sex??????
How boring can it get?!? As if that would keep someone's attention!
And then they think, just because we don't jump on it right away, we're prude and don't like sex???
C'mon now, if you're catching someone's attention, try to keep it for a minute or two and don't just blow it!  | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 8/21/2008 9:21:39 PM | I agree about those guys. Yes, you can turn off features but guys know this and they setup their profile to around those things too. I got tired of it and had to finally just take a break from it. I have meet two people in here that are really nice though, so don't think that all guys are this way because there are some that just want to have everyday conversations.
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 8/21/2008 9:46:29 PM | purplegirl >>> I'm really not messed up about it, nor am I having a sleepless night over it, hahaha
it's not that I have high expectations on meeting my Prince Charming on here - actually, I'm really just here to meet some
interesting people - and if they're not my kind of interesting, that's fine with me, too - I can take it or leave it, either way, I'm
okay with it - really, it was just a thought and I wrote my comment more so for the guys, so that they might realize how
boring and un-attractive that is and that women usually don't care too much for that, cause it speaks about what kind of
person they are.
When somebody has nothing interesting to say and sex is all they can talk about, it's their loss, not mine ;-)
Anyway, don't take things here too seriously and don't let it get under your skin - there's more to life than POF and the men
we find (or find us) here ;-)
Be Joyful, always
mcdance | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 8/22/2008 9:34:57 AM | It's guys like that that give the ones who are not oversexed a bad rap. I'm sure I may get flamed but frankly, I don't really care. I haven't IM'ed anybody here yet but rest assured, it won't be about sex. And on the other side of the token, If I get a female badgering me about it [sex], they more than likely will get blocked. I rather talk about hobbies and things of that nature.
Hang in there, mcdance. We're not all like that. 
Cheers,
Ronnie | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:27:52 AM | I always figure that if someone has to tell me they are a good person, rich, or good at sex, they probably are trying to convince themselves. It sure has worked out to be a true formula to follow as far as people being good, or rich, and so I see no need to check out the ones who brag about sexual abilities. JMHO  | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 9/9/2008 6:31:40 PM | I never understood the whole concept of cyber sex. It isn't something I enjoy or can relate to. I make it clear when they start the sex talk, and if they don't the not so subtle hint, I end the conversation.
If sex was all I wanted, I wouldn't be on POF. | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 9/16/2008 5:29:06 PM | I think it's just one of those unpleasantries of life... like ticks and chiggers...but it helps you sort out the toads you DON'T need to consider kissing.
I had an IM conversation the other evening with a lady who had no picture posted... after awhile, she said, "I can't believe you've been talking with me this time and haven't asked me what I look like." I didn't know whether to apologize, or what!!! Geez, I was just conversing, not asking for a two-hour meaningful relationship, and I told her so. We had a very pleasant visit. What I DID get to see was that she is intelligent and witty and worldly. It was a nice time. THERE'S the lesson for all you pimply pre-pubescent boys on POF. | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 6/15/2009 11:58:34 AM |  Love your sense of humor---falls right in line with mine! Can't judge people by a pic anyway, got to see if there's a connection, good communication. | |
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| really Guys - how boring can it get????
Posted: 10/25/2009 7:51:16 PM | If a guy asks for nakes pictures then that is a good sign to move on. There are lots of bad apples out there....but lots of good ones too....if you look.
Chin up! And keep looking. | |
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