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 djdiablo
Joined: 3/17/2008
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Two, three months ago my girlfriend was a virgin. She is not anymore. When we have sex it is extremely intense and I go in and out very fast most of the time. All during this time she is saying "Faster, faster, FASTER" and she grabs me and slams me against her as I do the same to her body. I absolutely love it and so does she. The thing is that she is still saying "Faster" at this point and I can't really go any faster unless I go like a jackhammer but I heard that women don't really like that. Is this true? Also, after we have sex she sometimes says that her vagina hurts a bit. In my head I am thinking "No, really?" but at the same time I am concerned for her.

I usually go fast about 8 times then 2 times slow and then again but she just wants it fast all the time. Is there a better way?

Thank you in advance.
 eazk
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 6:30:06 AM
Instead of faster, slow down a bit and go a bit harder and stay deep for and extra second or so. Pull all the way back until the tip is barely in...let her desire for faster-faster-faster create a crescendo effect for her so that, when you do go faster, she's absolutely focused on it.

Good problem to have...be inventive.

 Seafarer227
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 6:42:36 AM
You weren't specific about position and I don't think it's necessary to get too graphic but have you tried her on top? This will give her more control of speed, frequency, depth, angle, etc. If you or your partner are uncomfortable with that, maybe try other positions that allow you to hit different spots from different angles. Not to mention taking a little strain off you and maybe giving you a little better control and more stamina.

The good news is that you both seem to enjoy each other intimately and I suspect will be very willing to explore ways of enhancing the experience for both of you.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 6:47:05 AM
me would do exactly as the woman requested ..if she wants it faster i would go just as fast as all the adrenaline my little heart would pump ,would allow me to and then some every chance i got ....damn you guys would complain if you found a woman with two vagina's...im a old guy but give me a woman screaming faster ,faster during sex and im going to set some serious speed records......


Faster, faster, FASTER" and she grabs me and slams me against her as I do the same to her body.

we know your not really complaining ...your bragging ...but we will bite on any thread ...were like schooling sharks
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 6:51:11 AM
Different positions allow for deeper or harder or faster penetration. And variety to always good, so change it up a bit.

However, if you give her what she wants (faster and harder), even if it gets rough - its WHAT SHE WANTS! Some women like it rough and like feeling a bit sore afterwards. If she's feeling sore and the next time still says 'faster faster' then you have nothing to worry about.

Of course, communication is ALWAYS the key - ask HER, not us! Have fun!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 7:00:42 AM
Think of sex as a great song. If it is all fast, like a Polka, or like a child song, it gets very boring very soon. Also if you give her what she thinks she wants, the faster, faster, faster, you do not create a sense of anticipation and even a sense of desperation, which both play a big part in sex. So, slow down, change your routine so she does not know what is going to happen next. Then slow down. Go in very, very slow until you press on her cervix. If you're endowed, put some pressure there (but do not pound), then come all the way out. If she screams "faster, faster, faster." Don't reciprocate. Build it up. Make her go absolutely crazy, yes to the point that would appear as desperation, where she just wants it now and even more. So build it, and if at that point she want you to pound her, do so.

Will she feel sore. You betcha, but she is going to want it again and again. Also, what you may want to do, and this works well with women that are used to masturbate or have clitoral climaxes as opposed to vaginal. Go fast, but only in the surface, so the area stimulated are the inner and outer labia. You can go extremely fast here, to the point that both will be drenched in sweat. Some women absolutely love this, and if she is having cramps or her vagina is sore from the previous night, it will give her a rest, yet all the pleasure she wants.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 7:27:30 AM
*fans herself lightly*

Holy hell... Gentlemen... oh my...

*takes several deep breaths and tries to settle herself down*

OP, as you said, not all women enjoy the jackhammer treatment. If your woman is asking for it tho, then that is what she wants. Hell, I like it sometimes myself... but what the gentlemen above have already mentioned.. mmm mmmmm.. mmmmmmm.. yummy. I adore the deep penetration and nearly full withdrawal... pause a second and then drive yourself as hard and deep as you can. I also like a little of that while in doggy and then pull out completely and have him go down on me, or rub himself over me before slipping back in.

Could also be that the way your bodies connect she might be feeling a lot of sensation in her Gspot and wants to see it thru to the other side... what happens when you do go faster as she asks you to do?
 Droleci
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Posted: 8/20/2008 8:49:45 AM
I've only had it happen once actually and it was the first time I'd ever had sex.

I found it to be rather disconcerting and pressuring. I'm like "I'm doing the best that I can!"

So yes, I'd say it is a problem.
 Forum Guy
Joined: 11/12/2007
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Posted: 8/20/2008 10:42:24 AM
no 1 bby ... please move to Edmonton ...lol.....
Give her what she wants , if you keep it up she will get more creative in the fiture , everything is cool in my opinion
 ***blue***
Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 10:50:25 AM
"Instead of faster, slow down a bit and go a bit harder and stay deep for and extra second or so. Pull all the way back until the tip is barely in...let her desire for faster-faster-faster create a crescendo effect for her so that, when you do go faster, she's absolutely focused on it."

Do this, works wonderfully.
 cupcakegirlmn
Joined: 6/29/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 11:06:25 AM
sounds like she's watched too many pornos.
 Ms.Sweet Sinful Seduction
Joined: 6/3/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 11:39:37 AM
Wow, I think I'm pretty much going to need a cold shower soon, lol.
 TheStefano
Joined: 6/15/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 11:45:30 AM
If she moved at the same level you do, it would have the effect of doubling the speed, or rather frequency. Tell her to move. Teach her.
 bigboi30181
Joined: 4/30/2008
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Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem?
Posted: 8/20/2008 12:35:33 PM
I go faster all the time so it's not an issue for me
 TakeMeTheWayIAm
Joined: 7/19/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 1:28:49 PM
Sounds like she wants more stimulation than what she's getting.

I'd suggest that you concentrate on short/fast strokes within the first two inches of her vagina so that you're stimulating this area the most.

When you're in doggy style or any other position that directs your penis to her g-spot make sure that the head of your****is pushing/sliding on that front wall of her vagina rather than just straight in and missing that. This is *likely* what she's asking for when she asks for faster, she wants you to keep hitting her g-spot so that she can come from this.

Try a warming gel that, once applied, will heat up her labia, for example.

Exercise. Do lower back pull-downs slowly at the gym where you're pivoting through the different points of your lower back. Do fast inclined stomach crunches, just raising your head/shoulders off the board so that you're building up your fast-twitch muscles. Learn how to hoola-hoop (I'm not kidding) if that's an option and get a heavy one (not the cheap ones).
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 8/20/2008 1:29:51 PM

no 1 bby ... please move to Edmonton ...lol.....


LOL!! Been there, done that... left 4 yrs ago, sorry.
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 8/20/2008 6:31:29 PM
OP- Dude, she's telling YOU exactly what SHE needs to get off...and you are COMPLAINING???? Just GO WITH IT!!!

Eventually she'll find a few dozen other things that make her go crazy, but right now, just enjoy KNOWING what gets her off. Also, work on your Kegel Exercises so that instead of being DONE when you shoot that first load, you can CONTINUE!!

Nothing surprises & excites a gal more than knowing that the first orgasm is Just The Beginning!!!



P.S. Also, in a month or two, introduce Tantric Lovemaking...take it so slow that it's almost painful! Read up on the subjects and get back to us!!
 forumication
Joined: 8/6/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 6:51:09 PM
Since she was recently a virgin, I doubt she really knows what she wants. She is doing what she thinks you want. Try something different (lot's of great suggestions above) until she can figure out what she really likes.

I'm guessing she's telling you to go faster so you will cum faster and get it over with.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 6:59:23 PM
Try different positions and slow down a little.
 myopinion
Joined: 5/19/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 8:42:37 PM
While it is possible that she actually wants you to go faster, I fear that it is just because of a lack of experience. There is a general assumption in life that bigger is better or in this case that faster is better. I would like to suggest that maybe she just doesn't know how great it can be to go slowly and lovingly. I mean there is a time and place for harder and faster, but in my experience it has not been every time all the time. There is REALLY something to be said for slowly and gently.
 esad
Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 8/20/2008 9:11:07 PM
Is there a better way?

I have found that a Ball Gag cuts down on this kind of noise by 95%. You
do, of course, have to clean up some drool afterwards, but this is a small
price to pay for some peace and quiet during sex, yes ?

OP, does she REALLY mean "faster faster faster "?
People yell weird things during sex that they do not mean
to be taken literally. For example i have had women say :
" Don't ever stop!"
"You are The Best !"
" I have never felt like THAT"
" That is the BIGGEST i have ever seen!"
" Is it in yet ?"
" Your credit card was rejected"
" But I'm your cousin !"
and of course, .....
" I'll call you !"
and i always know they are just kidding.
 Flakk
Joined: 8/15/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2008 10:35:46 PM
-I usually go fast about 8 times then 2 times slow and then again but she just wants it fast all the time. Is there a better way?-

Sounds to me like you need to start a workout program based on your needs. After all what would have happened if Michael Johnson had said "I can't go any faster.".

Beat her up now brother, one day you'll snap her hips doing that and she'll stop. then you'll miss it

Good hunting
 13_Stitches
Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 8/21/2008 12:16:39 AM
give her a seeing too in the normal misionary position and then let her on top, have her kind of hover over you while you give it to her as fast as you can. this is the position i go fastest in and she can change her angle to get at the right spot, so give that a try.
 alex11777
Joined: 7/15/2008
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Posted: 8/21/2008 10:48:41 AM
stick it in her butt...she wont want you to go any faster anymore
 ohshit1
Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 8/21/2008 2:45:03 PM
.. well hopefully not
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