less than 24 hrs after he says this - which I do 'get' and 'accept'... he and I are at the same 'watering hole' (I'm there first and don't know he's there) and he approaches me and then goes for a 'feel'... guys - any input here?

He wants to have sex with you and not call you his girlfriend.

Copping a feel is much more personal than a handshake,

I wouldn't want to do it to a stranger...for the latter of Red's suggested options of reactions.

Copping a feel is much more personal than a handshake, I wouldn't want to do it to a stranger...for the latter of Red's suggested options of reactions.

I think I'd go with a nice 3" wedged heel pointedly slammed down on his foot while "accidentally" spilling your drink on his pants with one hand and an elbow to the chest. That combo is kind of a nicer, gentler way of making a point as opposed to the arm breaking thing RedC suggested.

I think I'd go with a nice 3" wedged heel pointedly slammed down on his foot while "accidentally" spilling your drink on his pants with one hand and an elbow to the chest. That combo is kind of a nicer, gentler way of making a point as opposed to the arm breaking thing RedC suggested.

Or, you never had a chance to hear the sound of crushing bones... it's like a music to my ears.
You should try it sometimes...

Yeah... Boobshake in a bar is a bit too much, no?

Smile real pretty at him as you gently slide your hand between his legs up to his crouch...now SQUEEZE real hard...until he gets the message.

I think it's ok.

Sometimes the first time is a big shock, but they learn to come to expect it after a while

So.....does this mean that after the initial shock......when they next see you and you come up for the salutation they don't extend their hand but their chests?

So.....does this mean that after the initial shock......when they next see you and you come up for the salutation they don't extend their hand but their chests?