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Posted: 8/26/2008 2:59:20 PM | | i would like to know why the guys i like to chat with seem very interested in me. we talk daily seem to get along, talk about getting to gether some time. i tell them that i like them and show that i am interested in them,always talk to them when they message me or reply to their e-mails. send them e-mails asking whats up.when i ask about meeting them in person they seem all for it. when i give them a time that i am available they agree. but when the time comes for a meet they are too busy ,couldn't get away etc. the next time that we chat i'm told that they are sorry but we'll make another time to get together. this seems to happen over and over. i really like the guy don't want to give up on him. my question is should i? even though i'm told that they really want to get together with me. is this just a line to keep me chatting or are they afraid that once we meet they really might like me. and want to keep it going are they afraid of getting close to someone they like . to me distance isn't isn't i problem if you like someone and want to see them. i can make the time to be with them. well here we go again am i wasting my time should i move on. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2008 1:48:15 PM | | Hello Alice...seems we are meeting (talking to) the same men. I find it a bit discouraging to talk to men that say they want to meet...want me to call , then if I do they either are unable to meet or just seem to want to keep passing the ball so to speak. I have found that most men on here are NOT willing to travel and always want you to come to them....how about in the middle. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2008 3:43:15 PM | As a male,I too have had that happen to me with two ladies I've been talking to for years.
I did get to meet one for coffee two years ago. We talked for hours,and still chat online sometimes.
We did make plans once for an intimate evening,but she never showed.
I think I've been stood up more then a broom in the last 5 years I've been online.
Try spending $100.00 for a room,add in a dozen roses,rose pedals for the bed and a bottle of her favorite wine,at $80.00 a bottle,and then sit there alone. It hurts. So,in a way,I know what some of you ladies are saying.
I think a lot of people just love the chase,or being chased,but once they have decided to actually meet a person,the fun is gone for them. Their players,which is fine IF they are honest up front about that,which most never are. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 7:12:12 PM | Hello Alice and all,
I think it could be a few things. I wonder if intuition is keeping some people apart who want a partner but just wouldn't make a good couple, or even friends. Or perhaps its fear of success that they really will find what they truly want. That may sound crazy but I've seen it in my Feng Shui practice. Just when some folks are about to make the biggest most wonderful leap they could, they find some reason to pull back. I think too many people are afraid of change, any change. Even if the current situation is not so good, IT IS KNOWN, AND IT WORKS (somewhat). So many fish in the sea. So many miles of ocean. So much swimming to be done. Trying some things differently could help. Like changing a pattern for a day, however small. Brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand, try some truly different music or dancing, dare to be yourself, be more thankful for life. It's grand. And grander with a friend. | |
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