Ethix
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Joined: 1/20/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/13/2005 4:05:57 PM | | Why? When yet, theres so many single ones looking for a guy that will accept thier baggage, and when there finally is one, they just dont see me.. lmfao, kids are amazing guys, yous should be going for these women! I myself personally, would love a longterm relationship with a older mature single mother.. how about yous | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/13/2005 4:33:16 PM | | Dunno seems opposite to me, I find single mothers all day long! Keep looking, they are usually more settled down and think more about what they do and thats why I like them myself. | |
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Ethix
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Joined: 1/20/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/16/2005 6:22:47 PM | Ethix........if she didn't see you then she wasn't worth your time!!!! Considering I know who you are....if a single mom reads this let me tell you ladies this guy is a gem inside and out!!!! 
Careful how you word that hun...my "baggage" just might kick your butt for using that term!!!! LMAO
Hugs and kisses!!!!!!! "Au.... K"  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/17/2005 8:09:41 AM | I haven't found any difficulty with men that I've dated, being accepting of the fact that I have a son. It surprises me when I hear that other's do.......
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/17/2005 8:24:57 AM | | i haven't had a probem either...I find most people are reallly open to it....And most of the time the guys who are not are people I am not really into anyways...so maybe he's just looking in the wrong spots....I don't have baggage...my ex and I get aong great...better than when we were together...so not everyone has a rough time...i find the ony problem I have is that people don't understand that i can't just talk & then say "ok let's get together now" I need a day to get a sitter...other than that I've had no problems... | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/17/2005 1:05:19 PM | I have a special needs child and I thought that might scare guys off, but I've been pleasantly surprised and impressed with their understanding and acceptance!!!
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/18/2005 4:46:45 AM | | I will say that it is nice to go out with a guy who is accepting of the fact that i have a kid. I am more settled, and I am grown up; I would say that those are good things. I recently went out with a guy who said things like "I am not ready for kids myself" and at one point I did mention casually that I am not looking to replace my son's dad. I would much rather date someone who is not simply tolerant, but accepting of the fact that I have a child. And heck, if I have been out with you a few times, let's do something where we can take him along, babysitter's don't grow on trees, nor does the money to pay them. :D Hey..you wanna go out sometime? | |
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ALEARA
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Joined: 6/18/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/18/2005 11:01:55 AM |  hi i'll tell you y it's hard cause some moms out there use men to take care of them and make it hard for the other's like myself who works hard and got her life together not get em thats y so u see i can only speak for my self where i'm afraid because not only there's my heart to be broken but i have a child and so i gotta open my eyes to see if they really accept my son cause u can't accept a kid u can't accept the mom it's a package our kids r us . i'm done now lol | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/18/2005 11:13:19 AM | | wow i have a special needs son too he's got autism it's a tough job double the work but i look at him everyday and know i've been blessed cause no man can ever give me that much love u know i've been blessed and i now know that cause it only takes certain ppl that can handle it i'm loving it seeing how i've helped him break through all these years | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/19/2005 5:06:24 AM | Single mom of 3...been divorced and dating 5 years now. Most of my experiences have been negative, with men who dont have children. I feel Its because we cant get out as much, so they will come over and all they want is sex...they wont call you out for dates, movies, but they think they can call after 10pm and u will invite them over. When i catch on, I tell them where to go. Im not here to be used as a sexual output. You can go and pay for that!! Of course, there are exceptions, but few and far between... LL | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/19/2005 11:27:26 AM | Myself, I perfer someone with kids, since I have kids myself. Problem being, I cant find anyone that will accept me and my kids. The few I have talked to, as soon as they hear I have kids, they run.
Even single moms do that, I thoght rather weird. But yeah, single moms are great most of the time, but I cant find any | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/19/2005 9:49:10 PM | Ice,
I know what you're saying, I have become friends with single moms but none interested in dating me or any other guy with kids. Double standard I guess. As for you single moms who say you would love to find a good single dad, you need to clone yourselves...and while you're at it, send some down to Florida. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/20/2005 8:15:55 AM | Aleara: This is A.....K and I know he is a great catch. Not only is he very talented, hardworking and respectful......but he's in great shape, is a "man" and has a great sense of humour to boot!!! Maybe you should think about travelling? lol  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/20/2005 10:01:25 AM | hey kitten
i'm lisa nice to meet ya hun but anyways when u were saying about that guy didn't want to date cause u got a kid and really u ain't looking for a dad thats y i said because there's single moms who use men for money to take care of them so it ruins it for girls like u and i so i dunno it's crazy but we'll find a good man someday. | |
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Ethix
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Joined: 1/20/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/22/2005 12:11:04 AM | | Lil vetter is always flattering me *blush* haha, but yeh, i just find myself always liking more challenges, and if a girl has a kid, it shows she is mature because she has alot more responsibilities then the average female who has no children.. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/22/2005 7:46:23 AM | ethix
i would agree yet disagree with you hun cause i've meet a couple cases where a girl or woman have a child yet neva change there old ways and don't accept there responsibility so yea there's lots of single moms who let a family member raise em or worked up on men to even care just play the part i've seen it i used to be friends with a girl who was so focused on meeting a b/f then raising her 2 beautiful daughter's so thats all i gotta say single moms r like everyone else it just depends on if there ready and willing to take on such a challenging job  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a single mother.....
Posted: 6/22/2005 11:13:28 AM | | Hey there im a single mother and i love it.... And yes guys dont want to mess with a girl who has a child... One thing guys need to know is, we take care of our own child we dont need you to..... And we dont expect you to, we just want you to accept our child, and respect the fact the we have a child thats all... Just had to get that off my chest!!!! | |
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