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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:15:07 PM | Right situation is...I added some pics to a group that i thought only other members of this group would see!!
Well as it happens ive made a blunder and evryone ive ever met has seen them
It doesnt really bother me too much because i like the pics,but my problem is some work friends have seen them.
How would you feel around your work friends?
Do i just go into work and hope they arnt mentioned?
The thing is i hold a higher position than some of the guys who have seen them,do you think they will try to use it as a week point for me and take the p!ss? | |
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pign
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Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 2 | |
| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:18:43 PM | there a possibility that they will take the piss, but its your social life away from work, take it on the chin n if gets taken too far tell them to remember whose boss. but why would they be looking at this group anyway i wouldnt worry too much.
but without knowing what the group is, its hard to comment further! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:21:39 PM | All my friends know i'm on this site, and this include people I work with, in fact most are interested in how the dating is going, who i'm chatting with , what was the best topic on the forums.......... IMO if you try to hide something it looks like you're ashamed of it, and if that's the case then you shouldn't have added them even if you thought no one else could see them, these things have a way of leaking out
If these work mates say anything i'd just answer them truthfully and face them down, don't show any weakness, be tough. Good Luck lalby  | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:22:37 PM | Now i gottta ask......What were these pics of ?
If they are everyday pics nowt to worry about really i guess........
If you are higer then them and they take the pee just sneer at 'em
But i'd just act normally
vvvvvburlesque is sexy as | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:23:00 PM | Lol before anyone jumps to conclusions they are not naked pics,more burlesque
Yeah i will just have to think of some witty comebacks in preperation,all men hate it when you make them feel small.
It was just a group for women with the hourglass figure. | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:23:28 PM | | Agreed, without knowing what the pics are of, its hard to comment. If they do take the mickey then just shrug it off. If they see it doesnt bother you then they will leave you alone. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:28:13 PM | I wouldnt worry about it to much Lalby, no different than Bikini or swimsuit pics...And we have all seen loads of them after folks have been on holiday.
Love the skin your in babe.. | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:29:33 PM |
Lol before anyone jumps to conclusions they are not naked pics,more burlesque
If they are burlesque then you probably look great, so they will just admire and more than likely your rating will go up on that god awful list that all men in offices have. Fittest women! | |
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pign
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Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 9 | |
| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:31:46 PM | | i love burlesque, bet ya look sexy as hell! like a said take it on the chin hold your head high, if anyone says anything then that just shows immaturity! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:34:18 PM | | Like pign said,hold your head high and take it on the chins. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 1:40:57 PM | Thanks for the comments
I will hold my own and take it on the chin(s)
I love all the burlesque stuff and its nothing none of my friends havnt seen me in,so they will just have to get over it. | |
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Pat78
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Joined: 8/29/2008
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 2:09:43 PM | I think the best way to be is your self, if you show that your happy and proud of the pictures and in no way embarrassed or ashamed, and why should you? They are Burlesque and sexy rather than naked and porn.
A story or gossip at work is only exciting if the other person gets upset or it is denied and everyone says its true. If you say yeah thats me, I think I look great, no story.
As for being in charge, assert your authority and don't give people an excuse to use the photos against you.
A word of warning for all though, a lot of businesses are checking applicants Bebo, facebook, and various social networking sites to find out the real you!!! What do you have on your page? | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:23:58 PM | | if they take the pee so what? thats half the fun of going to work is the banter! an its usually forgotten bout in 2 days anyhow. just laugh with them. just hope they aint seen this topic as if you would get even more teasing. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:38:19 PM | Unless they are pictures of you completly naked, or dressed up as a women (at the weekends) - I really wouldnt bother???
I sent an email in 2000 telling a collegue I was still constipated, but sent it to EVERYONE in our manchester office (head office) inc all the directors and managing director in error.
Now THATS embaressing!!! (and im still there)!!! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:40:24 PM |
or dressed up as a women (at the weekends)
I cant see that being a problem pippa as Lalby is a woman.. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:50:40 PM | Ha ha i need to change the pic of me and Hams.
Cheers guys i wont let it bother me,at least i can just position any trouble makers in sh1tty jobs for thier shift
Its ok i will get over it ,sniff sniff | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 2:52:24 PM | | opps i thought lalby was the man in the pic to lmao sorry lalby!! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 3:25:41 PM | There is always a risk that putting pics on the web might result in them appearing in places other than that intended.
do you think they will try to use it as a week point for me and take the p!ss?
How on earth can we anticipate what this group of strangers will think about anything? | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 4:35:35 PM | Hi Lalby......
I'm sure knowing you as i do chic you wont have any problems taking it on the chin, just joke about it with your colleagues at work and if they give you too much pee taking ask Suze to sort em out lol, Hope your well babe and take care
See ya soon chic
Love to you and Suze
xoxoxoxoxox
Tina | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 4:46:43 PM | Wow burlesque.. girl you walk in with your head high wish i had he guts i'd turn up
to work like that love the look,
dont think the guys will say much and if they do tell them to get the guns out there pockets.
 hey you might be on there bedroom walls  | |
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Posted: 9/2/2008 5:29:11 PM | | If its urrm pics of a sexual nature just deny it and blame it on an ex bf I guess Otherwise I dont see a problem. | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/2/2008 11:39:14 PM | Thank you Tina xxx
Yeah i can laugh with the rest of them and give as good as i get.
And thanks to everyone else,the pics aint sexual they are sexy but not to the extent where anything is on display,so its not as if they have seen anything like that! | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 12:40:55 AM | nice profile, would be more concerned of the title :)
lalby Farting peas to the moon! , Sponge bob s
guess you are on about the last photo where you are trying to kiss your girlfriend and your work colleagues have had a sense of humour failure ? | |
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Posted: 9/3/2008 5:40:27 AM | Ran off to have a look
you look stunning on the said pictures.. stuff what your work mates think !!
they are not extremelyraunchy, pervy or anything demeaning, so there is absolutely nothing at all they can take the p1ss of or use against you..
I think good on you for having the confidence and being proud of your body , your pose is lovely and alluring and wish i had your confidence to carry it off | |
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| How would you feel?
Posted: 9/3/2008 9:42:56 AM | Looked over the pictures, and they are lovely, you've nothing to worry bout, besides when they're making you the focus of their dull lives over innocent photos they're leaving someone else alone.
You look great, fear not | |
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