| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:22:08 AM | ok this is my problem....
i was with the same man for 6 years and we never had this problem. we had a fair sex life. nothing spectacular but it wasn't bad either. so blah blah blah happens and we get divorced.
time passes, i start dating again.
so the last three guys i was with didn't last long at all. they all made the same comment too. you're too hot. one was telling me he was going to cum ok, so i changed positions and he said no! that won't help. it was reverse cowgirl...nice view i guess
so are they lying to me or should i be leaving a shirt on or something or the lights off?
anyone else had this problem? | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:26:45 AM | LOL..... Are you kidding me? Too hot.... is this for real? Mods? what you say?
Maybe that is my problem.... lol... Seriously..
men can't handle me... they never last long enough for me...
Either that or they are just in a serious case of denile...
Look for Tantra books and teach you next man that...
MAKE him last as long as you want him to. | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:27:22 AM | I agree, need to stop hanging around the playground for your men and head out in search of a real one
or maybe she is saying her ex didn't find her hot and why he was able to last... | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:32:55 AM | weekend huntress - i wish, girl! if you're in the same boat i am, tell me how to fix it!! you are very pretty, btw
guys- ok seriously i thought they were men. acted like men, looked like men, all in their early to mid thirties. and you shouldn't laugh!! it's really a problem ;)
i'm having dinner with my ex husband who's 27. maybe he can help me out!  | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:34:38 AM | WH - tantra books! good idea. you're my idol!
7times - i think my ex found me comfortable. like i found him, ya know?
mainegrad - would you like names, phone numbers or addresses ;) | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:37:17 AM | thedevilsadvocate - i would tend to agree with you. completely. but why would all three say the same thing.
guys? is this a normal excuse for you? if so, why are you blaming women for your own problems? typical, typical  | |
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7times
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 11 | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:40:16 AM | Well first off, they could have been a while without getting laid so that may cause them to cum faster than they would normally do. Second, the avearge amount of time for man to reach orgasm is..... 2 minutes.... so they fit the norm lol... Thirdly, women take on average 8 minutes to reach orgasm.... oops 6 minutes difference here lol.. Keep in mind that these are averages...
How to fix it.... Well, you can have them go down on you for a while and make you cum that way, then they can stick it in and work their way to orgasm...
They can stay "in" as they cum and if they're like me, they'll stay hard and will keep going for a while
You could give them a good BJ, make them cum, have them go down on you till you cum and they should be hard again by now, then you two can have intercourse and it should last longer that time around.....
Tell them to do Kiegel exercises, that can help too... Worst cums to worst, find a better lover lol | |
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 15 | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:43:16 AM | james, if i could cum in 8 minutes i'd be really happy!
i've tried some of the things you mentioned and i actually love giving a good blow job. maybe i should just try to find a better lover.
but so i don't waste any more cute pairs of panties on a 2 minute man.....how can you tell before you actually do the deed? | |
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7times
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 19 | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:45:30 AM | 7...do you call them Blonde....and Ambition? j/k....joke joke.....
most men do ejaculate right off the hop the first time...then after that they can go for longer...at least thats been my experience..had to look it up in the mind vault tho...been a while...lol | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:45:59 AM | | I think that it's impossible to tell before cutie.... so you'll have to test drive them and find out the hard way..... sorry lol, but a decent lover will be ready to do anything to make you cum... I'm sure that many men, like me, can get it back up in a short amount of time and keep going at it again lol.... Now, not saying I'm a minute man here, but I sure ain't a marathon man either lol. | |
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Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 22 | |
| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:46:44 AM | 1. Just lay there like a dead fish. LOL Maybe then he won't get that turned on.
2. Or scream when he moans too much..you know ..scare those little swimmers right back up there.
3. On a serious note. Reach back and pull his testicles back (lightly mind you). I'm sure you know that they raise up toward the shaft just before he's about to cum. Push them down for a little while. This can help to prolong his play time.
4.****ring (How do you get one of those off?) | |
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 23 | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:49:20 AM | blonde - yeah i know exactly what you're saying and that was only the case with one.
ok, i'll ask for references, i mean really what else is a girl gonna do? i don't want to be the tart that sleeps with everything but i'd like to have A LOT of fun.
i'm 32! i'm peaking already COME ON! | |
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| poor performers or am i too hot for my own good?
Posted: 6/14/2005 9:51:00 AM | | you too SI? i thought it was just me..must be a woman thing..i am so friggin horny all the time now that i am in my 30's........must be our "peak" time as you put it....whew..i thought i was weird...well i am weird..but thats besides the point...lol | |
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