| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 8:01:43 AM | OK...I FINALLY got up enough nerve to ask this question...simply cause I found this on msn. So...have any other women ever had this happen? Or men, have you had a woman do that with you around and you're actually innocent of having done anything?
I have from time to time. Specifically I'm dreaming about sex, don't know what specifically--and wake myself up having a big O! I can never remember what the dream is about but whatever it is causes me to have an orgasm...!! Read below and tell me...is that something that would freak a guy out?
"While getting a head massage at a spa, I orgasmed. Am I normal?
You could just thank the goddess of Oh! and book a return trip. But since you're wondering, it is possible for women to have what's known as "extragenital orgasms"—orgasms without genital contact, says Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., professor emerita at Rutgers University and co-author of The Science of Orgasm. Arousing sensitive areas like the neck or breasts or even just imagining sex can get you there. "Physiologically, orgasm is a reflex, so the genital nerve pathways don't need to be stimulated in order for it to occur," she says. Studies have found that even women with spinal cord injuries are able to experience orgasm." | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 8:58:38 AM | Normalcy? I've been trying just about my whole life not to be. Just think of your abilities as gifts, possibly setting you apart into a "special" category. So you had a wet dream? FAR OUT!!! I'm jealous. I never remember my dreams, either, except the one where the bear is chasing me. Nor have I ever had my head massaged, but now I definitely have that on my list, although I'm not hopeful- I think your gender is more "blessed" than mine. A woman I went to high school with once told me that she had orgasmed from a dream about me, although it had been 15 years since we had last spoken (so I really was innocent on this one), and it was almost ten years later that she told me about it. Since junior high school, we have alternated finding the other sexually attractive, but never at the same time! Almost as frustrating as being unable to recall the dream that triggered your O. Always enjoy your posts, Lady. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 9:20:35 AM | "While getting a head massage at a spa, I orgasmed. Am I normal?
While I have not orgasmed, I love getting my head massaged, hair washed at the salon....I have gotten seriously arroused..if it had gone on longer who knows...
I had a girlfriend who could orgasm if a certain part of the back of her neck was stimulated in a certain way, and it did not take long. I loved to walk up behind here and do just this...she would get all rubbery legged and start quivering quickly. SOmetimes I did it before work, and had to go, but she appreciated the gesture of getting off like that while she was getting a cup of coffee...She knew that I liked her to get off, and I would do it so she would, regardless if I got off or not..made the sex after work much more enjoyable, because I took a few minutesof my morning to make hers enjoyable without asking for a thing in return, except for a kiss as I walked out the door.  | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:30:06 AM | AFL..... these orgasms are abso-friggin-lutely amazing!! To be able to enjoy that level of passionate eroticism without the "naughty bits" being stimulated is truly a wonderous thing to experience.
I've had them sitting in my car in a traffic jam just thinking erotic thoughts.... without touching myself..... and my guy and I are set to enjoy moments of bringing each other to orgasm without touch.... very tantric or transcendent approaches..... that is if he ever gets back from friggin' Australia!!! (Sorry hon'.... just a little pent up frustration! )
The mind is such a powerful sex organ... once it is stimulated, it is only natural that everything else follows suit.
Reminds me of a song.... "All I have to do is dree..ee..ee..ee..eam...... dream, dream, dree...eam.... " Enjoy!!
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:43:34 AM |
The mind is such a powerful sex organ... once it is stimulated, it is only natural that everything else follows suit. If I was a lesbian I would be having sex with laughinglibra - 'cause we think so much a like - sexually! There was once a thread about a woman who would have an orgasm even while she was shopping for groceries - simply by having sexual thoughts! It can happen!! A tantric person can be orgasmic at all times! In fact the orgasm never really has a start - nor a finish - it simply is occuring at all times! An awesome feeling of being eternally arroused! OP be greatful for your experience! | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 12:12:09 PM | | I've enjoyed orgasms on the subway. If I was imagining a sexual situation, then the movement of the train would help trigger the spasms. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 12:21:10 PM | | A woman who is properly stimulated, can get an orgasm from a ham sandwich. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 12:30:12 PM | There's a certain medication that when some people take it, they orgasm when they sneeze.
Apparently, the part in your brain that causes orgasms is very close to the one the controls sneezing and yawning.
I've talked to women that could orgasm from nipple stimulation, or riding on a bumping road.
Is it normal? Not in the sense that it's common, I would say, but normal in a sense that there's something wrong with you, in fact you seem blessed to me. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 12:33:20 PM | Strange but true. I even heard people get orgasm during sitting meditation or yoga .. OMG .. can you believe that .. Meditation suppose to give the individual peace and bliss and free from delusion and yoga is more a spiritual connnection between mind and body ... I can't continue to write ... making me ....
Anyone here get an orgasm by posting in this site???????
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 12:50:58 PM |
Anyone here get an orgasm by posting in this site???????
No, but it's been damn close reading some of the replies!
I've talked to women that could orgasm from nipple stimulation
A lot of women can orgasm from this and it's wonderful.... but not quite what AFL is referring to.... she's talking about not having the well-known erogenous zones stimulated and still achieving orgasm..... completely stimulated by the mind.
If I was a lesbian I would be having sex with laughinglibra - 'cause we think so much a like - sexually!
Oh Leeanne!! *mapquesting Hanover to Burlington* God, when Paul reads this he's going to be all over that comment! You know you're one of his fav's on here! Love ya woman!!
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 1:08:01 PM | Too much of a good thing ?
Woman has 200 orgasms a day Sarah, 24, suffers from Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome
By Matthew Acton, 04/11/2007
PRETTY Sarah Carmen is a 200-a-day orgasm girl who gets good, good, GOOD vibrations from almost anything. The rumble of a train on the tracks, the purr of a hairdryer, the rhythmic drone of a photo-copier are all enough to make her go oh oh oh, ahhhhh. She had FIVE orgasms during our 40-minute interview. But I can't take the credit—it was just talking about her sex life that set her off.
Sarah, 24, suffers from Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS), which increases blood flow to the sex organs. She said: "Sometimes I have so much sex to try to calm myself down I get bored of it. And men I sleep with don't seem to make as much effort because I climax so easily." As she chatted, Sarah became increasingly flustered. "Sorry, you'll have to excuse me for a minute. I'll be with you in a sec," she mumbled before letting out a long sigh.
Sarah, from London, developed PSAS after being prescribed anti-depressants at 19. Stunned She believes her condition was brought on by the pills. She said: "Within a few weeks I just began to get more and more aroused more and more of the time and I just kept having endless orgasms. "It started off in bed where sex sessions would last for hours and my boyfriend would be stunned at how many times I would orgasm. "Then it would happen after sex. I'd be thinking about what we'd done in bed and I'd start feeling a bit flushed, then I'd become aroused and climax. "In six months I was having 150 orgasms a day—and it has been as many as 200." She and her boyfriend split— and new partners struggle to keep up with her sex demands. "Often, I'll want to wear myself out by having as many orgasms as I can so they stop and I can get some peace," she said. Sarah is a beautician and working in salons filled with whirring hairdryers and skincare gadgets can cause problems. "If I start coughing and run to the loo, the girls know to fetch the client a magazine or a cup of tea," she said, adding, "Sometimes I'd like to just have a normal life." Sarah says the Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome that she suffers from can cause her to have orgasm at any time of day. She explained: "Anything can set me off. Even the hairdryers cause funny pulsations through my body.
Sarah's friends think she is the luckiest girl ever, although her family think her behaviour is sometimes slightly odd. She said: "The best way to describe how I am when I am with my family and I have one of my 'moments' is that I behave like Sheila from Shameless. "I just get a bid giddy and yelp out and try to control myself. I've never sat down and explained it to my mum and dad. "They just think I get a bit hyperactive round them. "My friends think it's great. I have more orgasms in one day than most of them will probably have in a year. "They say to me that they feel lucky if their boyfriend makes them have one orgasm-some days I have one every ten minutes."
It has proved to be a problem for Sarah in some relationships. She said: "I dated one guy who was very selfish and he was that way in the bedroom too. He'd just lie back and expect me to please him. "He just figured that because I could climax without him even having to touch me, he didn't need to do anything to please me. "I just thought that was rude and inconsiderate. It didn't last very long with him."
She has also had embarrassing moments in public. Going to noisy bars and clubs is out of the question as the vibrations send her wild. "We have to find nice quiet bars," she explained. "I have more orgasms if I have a drink as it relaxes me so I tend to drink very little now. "It can be a bit embarrassing if I'm tipsy and guys who don't know me talk to me, because I find it harder to hide.
"The most embarrassing thing that has happened was when I answered a market research questionnaire and had an orgasm in front of the researcher.
Sarah has even been to a Sex Addicts' Anonymous meeting in despair over her sex drive. She said: "At first when the problem started I just wanted to have sex all the time, I thought I was a sex addict. "But when I looked around the room and heard the stories other people told, about how desperate they were for sex, I realised I wasn't like them. "With me, it was a means of releasing my orgasm, but now I know I don't have to have sex to do that."
Sarah has looked into the condition and believes it may have been triggered by her taking anti-depressants. She said: "I've found studies that say that taking anti-depressants and then stopping has an effect on the sexual organs. That is the only thing that explains what happens to me. "But I've heard of other girls who have the same problem and it just appears out of the blue. I've spoken to my doctor about it but she wasn't a great deal of help but that's mainly because there's very little known about it and no one yet knows how to cure it." Thanks to her understanding friends and colleagues, Sarah feels like she can now live with PSAS.
(This article was originally published in the News of the World on November 4, 2007) | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 2:01:46 PM | First I'll say that I've never heard the term "extragenital" before and thought it meant what it sounds like: a second clitoris, which would probably be nice because it would double the chances of the guy finding it.
I'm one who occasionally experiences this "extragenital orgasm" in my sleep and it's quite nice to wake up to. However, it seems that my orgasms are *too* mental. All the stimulation in the world won't get me anywhere unless my mind is totally focused on something arousing. So if I had my choice, I think I'd prefer to skip the Extra O's and be able to have the manual O's even while having non-sexual phone conversations. I'd probably be better about returning phone calls. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 2:26:16 PM | | Oh dear.. not sure this counts but a few days after I had my hysterical parts removed I woke up to one of the best Oh oh OOOO's I ever had.. Enough to wish I could do the hysterectomy again. I thought I was special until I read that it is fairly common. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 2:30:04 PM | | ok.i'm not trying to boast........but its very possible to give a woman an orgasm by giving her a back/neck rub.......takes a light tough..........and a firm one.........lightly massage the base of her skull..........concentrateing espically at the points of her jaw ant the end of her spine........but include everything in between......with more pressure........move to her neck and shoulders........but dont forget to stray back to her neck...........do her shoulder blades........back to her shoulders.then neck...........then back down..........after the shoulder blades.....massage her spine.....again.firmly...........caress every crevice of her spine................then run your thumbs up and down her spine...........back to her neck...........your should by now knw what and where to caress......if it seems that shes very close...but cant quite"go over the edge"................kiss the back o her neck and lightly run your tounge up and down the top 6 inches of her spine......exhale on her skin from close up........often.yout hot breath is what does it..................it doesnt work every time........but its still fun giving/recieveing the back rub..........oh.kissing and nibbling her neck dont hurt either | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 2:47:43 PM | I have had "wet dreams" before.. and woken up with the throbbings of a finished orgasm.. I have had them in dreams also.
There is this scalp massager called the tingler.. I imagine I would have an orgasm with that also if done long enough.. usually I just drool though hahahaha.. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 7:16:00 PM | Oh yeahhhh.. I got there by a foot massage!! 
I went to the pedicurist and after getting my nails done she gave me a massage first with her hands and then with a vibrator (I specify.. vibrator used ONLY on my feet and it wasnt like a sex toy or anything similar.. it was a plain vibrator). During the massage I had multiple orgasms.. and I was about to start moaning but I didnt.. because I didnt want to make the lady feel uncomfortable..
Also, when a guy kisses me softly on the right side of my neck it makes me go wow! Most of them times I need to stop the guy and think of something else.. that very part of my body is more than a weak point to me. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 9:08:02 PM |
Why would it freak a guy out?
.marc...
Imagine waking up to your lady thrashing about and screaming in ecstasy...and you've not touched her. THAT'S how good/bad these orgasms are. I wake myself up screaming...not moaning and not hurting, just screaming as I come. I go back to sleep immediately...and I do mean right back.
I dunno...if I were in the bed with me I'd probably wonder who I was thinking about! | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 9:15:02 PM |
a second clitoris, which would probably be nice because it would double the chances of the guy finding it.
Aloooohaha...girl you're killing me! I hadn't ever heard it called that but had never heard of anyone else having/doing this!! I've tried to remember who/what, etc--but never can. I've thought it might be because of a dry patch of no sex...nope, not that. Thought maybe it was because of great sex...nope.
Phone sex...? Eh...I give better than I get. I might get a big squirmy but never full on. Now giving it...ha...that's a specialty!
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:27:39 PM | | My ex-wife could orgasm just from having her breasts stimulated, but I don't know if that exactly counts in this thread. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:39:47 PM | | I was sitting around trying to bend a spoon the other day with this mind control technique I'd read about on line -- actually there's a cable show about it now, too. Anyway, the spoon had an orgasm instead. Think this means anything? | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:00:29 PM | Heptone, your funny!
I never heard them called this either. Do men not get these?
Can't imagine having 200 orgasms a day- you would think they weren't that spectacular. | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:17:51 PM | I orgasm all the time from the darnedest things... mostly from the wonderful naughty thoughts in my head. Doesn't have to be that though. The smell of leather catching me at just the right time, the feel of cold steel on my skin, the way a soft rope caresses me... ok... getting close here... oh... oooh....ooooooooh!!!
Oh, and once in a while from a rockin' thread! | |
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| Extragenital orgasms?? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:43:28 PM | | Like you Leeanne, I would be having sex with Laughing Libra if I wasn't 16,000 miles away 'cause I have figured out I am in fact a Lesbian 'cause I love all the same things a Lesbian does, I know it's old but still a laugh, she would be enough to turn me if I was a woman though, I will just have to try to give her Extragenital Orgasms by phone I guess | |
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